Umxholo
Into emangalisa abantu bangaphandle kukuba bangaziimfama njani amaxhoba kwiimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokweemvakalelo nangamazwi. Ngokwenene yinto emangazayo ukuba ingangqinwa, indlela umntu acace gca ngayo, ngokufuthi ekhohlakele, ephathwa gadalala, kwaye ebonakala ngathi akayikhathaleli loo nto. Okubi nangakumbi, bayazenza kwaye baphile ngokungathi yonke into ibinjengoko kufanelekileyo ukuba ibekho. Yeyiphi eyona ngxaki iphambili yalo naluphi na uxhatshazo, njengoko siza kubonisa? Kodwa ekuphathweni gadalala nangokweemvakalelo, imida ihlala inzima ngakumbi ukuyamkela.
Lwenzeka njani uxhatshazo olo?
Umntu ufumana njani ukuba abe lixhoba okanye umxhaphazi ikwisiseko sokubonakala okungaboniyo esichaze nje kwintshayelelo. Nangona ezi zithuba zibini zahluke kakhulu, imvelaphi yazo iyafana. Bazalelwe ebuntwaneni, xa ixhoba kunye nomxhaphazi bekufanele ukuba bajonge abazali babo kunye nendlela abanxibelelana ngayo.
Ngelishwa, iintsapho ezingonwabanga zihlala zivelisa iintsapho ezingonwabanga. Kwaye xa abantwana bebona ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo, bafunda ukuba le yindlela eqhelekileyo yokunxibelelana. Ngelo xesha, abazi ngcono. Xa sikhula, ngokuthe ngcembe sifunda ukuba into ethile kubudlelwane ayilunganga. Kodwa, kwezona mbombo zethu zinzulu, sibhale ipatheni yokuhlukumeza kwilizwe lethu.
Ke, nangona ixhoba, umzekelo, linokuchitha ixesha elininzi lobomi balo ngokuchasene nolwalamano oluhlukumezayo kwaye linamaqabane ahloniphekileyo, umngcipheko uhlala ukho. Kwaye umzuzu xa ixhoba lidibana nomhlukumezi, i-monster eleleyo ivuka bobabini. Oku kuhlala kubonakala kumzuzu wokuqala aba babini besazana, kwaye, ukuba awunqandeki, uya kuba mkhulu kwaye womelele yonke imihla yobudlelwane babo. Kungenxa yoko le nto ukuqonda imiqondiso yokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemphefumlweni nangokwamazwi kubalulekile kwithemba lobudlelwane obusempilweni kunye nobomi.
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Ixhoba lizibona njani izinto
Ukuphathwa gadalala ngokwasemoyeni nangamazwi kunendlela yokugqwetha umbono wexhoba ngokwenyani ukuya kwinqanaba lokukhohlisa. Oku akuthethi ukuba ixhoba linengxaki yokuphazamiseka engqondweni, nangona umxhaphazi eza kuzama ukubenza baqiniseke. Kuphela kukungqubana kwengqondo okuhamba kancinci okwenziwa lixhoba ngendlela ixhoba elibona ngayo izinto.
Ixhoba liya kuthi, xa libuzwa malunga nobudlelwane babo, libonise iindlela zokuziphatha ezimbalwa. Ekuqaleni, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuva ukuba iqabane labo elitsha lelona mntu ugqibeleleyo kwihlabathi liphela. Ukrelekrele ngokungagungqiyo kwaye unemigaqo eyomeleleyo abaphila ngayo. Banomdla kwaye bathetha ngokuphandle ngayo yonke into. Abakunyamezeli ukutyhalwa, kwaye abakunyamezeli ukulawulwa kwabanye.
Xa ixesha lihamba, ixhoba liya kuqala ukuqonda into engekho kakuhle, kodwa ngelo xesha, baya kwahlulwa ngokupheleleyo kubahlobo kunye nosapho.Kwaye ngenxa yalonto, baya kushiywa ngokupheleleyo kwimpembelelo yomxhaphazi.
Ixhoba liya kulibeka ityala ngobume bobudlelwane. Ukuba kuphela (ii) ebengcono, ekrelekrele, onwabile ngakumbi, ochubekileyo, onomdla ngakumbi, onomdla ngakumbi, ongakumbi ... nokuba yintoni. Uya kuthi akholelwe ukuba oko kuthethwa ngumxhaphazi ngabo kulungile, kwaye aphulukane nokuzithemba kwabo okanye ukukwazi ukuba nenjongo.
Kwaye, xa uthetha nomntu onobundlobongela obuhlukumezayo ngokweemvakalelo, uyakumangaliswa kukungaziqondi kwabo amandla abo kunye namandla abo, kwaye baqiniseke kangakanani ukuba iqabane labo lilungile. Ngalo lonke elixesha, uya kuthi ujonge kwabona bantu badanileyo eMhlabeni.
Iimpawu
Ke, ukuba wena ngokwakho, okanye umntu osondeleyo kuwe unokuba lixhoba lokuhlukunyezwa ngokweemvakalelo nangamazwi, unikwe ubunzima bokuba nenjongo kwaye ujonge inyani emehlweni, ukwazi iimpawu ezimbalwa zokuxhatshazwa ngomlomo kunokuba luncedo. Ngaphandle kokuba ixhoba liye lodwa kwaye lihoxiswe kwiintsapho kunye nabahlobo babo, kwaye banomdla wokuzibek 'ityala ngenxa yezona zinto zingenangqondo, nantsi eminye imiqondiso yokuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo (ezinye zazo ziqheleke kakhulu kwabasetyhini kwaye ezinye Abaxhaphazi abangamadoda, kodwa bonke bayaphathwa gadalala):
- Ukuhlala ubekwa phantsi
- Ukuba neentloni kunye nokuthotywa, kodwa ikakhulu ngasese
- Ukusetyenziswa kwesiqhulo, iziqhulo ezihlekisayo
- Unxibelelwano oluthe ngqo oluchaza ukuba ixhoba alulunganga nangasiphi na isizathu
- Ikhwele elingekho ngqiqweni
- Ukudakumba okukhulu, ngokungathi ixhoba lihlala lihamba kwiigobolondo zamaqanda
- Ukuphathwa kakubi ngokweemvakalelo
- Ukungabandakanywa ngokweemvakalelo
- Ukuva izoyikiso zokuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ixhoba liyashiya
- Ukujonga rhoqo indawo ekuyo kunye nomsebenzi wexhoba
- Ukulawula indlela yokuziphatha eqala kumazwi ahlekisayo ukuya kuluhlu olupheleleyo lokujonga iifowuni kunye nokwenza isihogo esiphilayo kubomi bexhoba xa beshiya indlu
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