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- Yintoni kanye kanye le ithi "ukungahoywa komntwana"
- Imbalwa imizekelo yokungahoywa komntwana
- Iindidi zokungahoywa komntwana
- 1. Ukungahoywa ngokwasemzimbeni
- 2. Ukungahoywa kwezonyango kunye namazinyo
- 3. Ukubekwa esweni ngokungafanelekanga
- 4. Ukungahoywa ngokweemvakalelo
- 5. Ukungahoywa kwezemfundo
- Zithini iimpawu zokungahoywa komntwana?
- Yiyiphi eminye yemiphumo yokungahoywa kwabantwana?
- Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ukrokrela ukungakhathalelwa kwabantwana?
Ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana kunye nokungahoywa
Zimbalwa izinto ezilusizi emhlabeni ngaphandle kokungahoywa kwabantwana.
Umzali okanye nawuphi na umntu ochaphazelekayo angazinikeli njani iimfuno zomntwana? Iphazamisa ingqondo. Ukungakhathalelwa kwabantwana luhlobo oluthile lokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana. Inokuba yeyomzimba kunye / okanye yengqondo. Akukho xhoba liqhelekileyo lokungahoywa komntwana.
Ukungahoywa kwabantwana kunokwenzeka kubantwana abavela kumakhaya emveli anabazali ababini okanye abantwana abakhuliswa ngabazali abangabodwa. Ukungahoywa kwabantwana kunqumle ubuhlanga, inkolo, kunye nezoqoqosho.
Masikhe singene kwesi sihloko ukuze ufumane okungakumbi ngaso. Kananjalo kubalulekile ukuba saziswe ngokupheleleyo malunga nesi sehlo sibuhlungu, kwaye sixhotyiswe ukuba sikhe sakrokrela ukuba umntwana uhlangabezana naso.
Yintoni kanye kanye le ithi "ukungahoywa komntwana"
Enye into edidayo yokungahoywa kwabantwana kukuba ilizwe ngalinye eUnited States linenkcazo yalo yokungahoywa kwabantwana kunye nemithetho egubungela ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana.
Oko kunokuthathwa njengokungahoywa komntwana e-Utah, akunakuthathwa njengokungahoywa komntwana e-Nevada. Ngokubanzi, nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwamazwe ngokuqinisekileyo luya kuvuma ukuba olona hlobo loyikekayo lokungahoywa kwabantwana kufuneka luphathwe ngenqanaba elifanayo lobukhali.
Imbalwa imizekelo yokungahoywa komntwana
Yintoni ukungahoywa komntwana? Ukungahoywa kwabantwana kunokuthatha iindlela ezininzi kwaye kubonakale ngeendlela ezininzi. Kwaye, njengoko kunokukhutshelwa ngaphandle kwinkcazo engentla, ubudala apho umntwana efumana ukungahoywa kunokumisela isiphumo malunga nentlalontle yomntwana.
Umzekelo -
ukuba umntwana oneminyaka emithandathu akayifumani idinala kude kube sebusuku kakhulu, akukho ngozi iya kuhlala ikho. Kwelinye icala, ukuba umntwana oneentsuku ezintandathu akondliwa kangangeeyure ezininzi ngenxa yokungakhathalelwa, kunokubakho iingxaki ezinzulu.
Ukuba abazali bachitha ixesha elininzi bexabana bodwa de umntwana angakhathalelwa, nako oko kukungahoywa. Ukuba umntwana wenzakele nangayiphi na indlela ngenxa yokungabikho kwengqwalaselo yomzali okanye yomkhathaleli, nako oko kukungahoywa komntwana.
Iindidi zokungahoywa komntwana
Ngaba kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokungahoywa kwabantwana?
Ewe, zininzi iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokungahoywa kwabantwana. Oku kulandelayo ziindidi ezintlanu eziqhelekileyo-
1. Ukungahoywa ngokwasemzimbeni
Kukho ukungakhathalelwa ngokwasemzimbeni apho umntwana angangcola khona, iinwele ezinamathambo, ucoceko olubi, ukutya okunesondlo, okanye iimpahla ezingalunganga ngokwamaxesha onyaka.
Amaxesha ngamaxesha, ngutitshala womntwana oqala ukukubona oku.
2. Ukungahoywa kwezonyango kunye namazinyo
Kukho ukungakhathalelwa kwezonyango kunye namazinyo.
Umntwana akanako ukufumana ugonyo ngexesha okanye konke konke, okanye angangafumaneki ukuba unombono okanye iingxaki zokuva okanye naziphi na ezinye izigulo zomzimba. Umntwana wakho unokufumana ukwaliwa okanye ukulibaziseka kunyango ngokunjalo. Ke, kubaluleke ngokulinganayo kubantwana ukuqeshwa kwamazinyo rhoqo.
3. Ukubekwa esweni ngokungafanelekanga
Uhlobo lwesithathu lokungahoywa komntwana kukungabikho kweliso.
Ukushiya umntwana yedwa ixesha elide, ukungamkhuseli umntwana kwiimeko ezinobungozi okanye ukushiya umntwana engafanelekanga (omncinci kakhulu, ongakhathaliyo, ongafanelekanga, njl.njl.) Lolunye uhlobo lokungahoywa komntwana.
4. Ukungahoywa ngokweemvakalelo
Yintoni ethathwa njengokungahoywa komntwana, ngokutsho kwakho?
Ukuba umzali okanye umkhathaleli akaboneleli ngenkxaso yeemvakalelo okanye ingqalelo, umntwana unokufumana ubunzima ebomini. Abantwana abakhuliswa ngabazali babo ngabona basesichengeni sokungahoywa ngokweemvakalelo.
5. Ukungahoywa kwezemfundo
Okokugqibela, kukho ukungahoywa kwezemfundo.
Ukusilela ukubhalisa umntwana esikolweni, kunye nokusilela ukuvumela umntwana ukuba avavanyelwe iinkqubo ezithile kwimeko yemfundo enje ngenkqubo yesiphiwo okanye ukufumana inkxaso eyongezelelweyo yokukhubazeka ekufundeni ziindidi zokungahoywa kwezemfundo.
Ukuvumela umntwana ukuba aphoswe ziintsuku ezininzi zesikolo, kwaye utshintsho olwenzeka rhoqo ezikolweni yimizekelo embalwa yokungahoywa kwezemfundo. Olu hlobo lokungahoywa komntwana, njengazo zonke ezinye iintlobo zokungahoywa kwabantwana, lunokubangela ubomi obungaphantsi kweemeko ezifanelekileyo.
Ngaphandle kwesiseko esisemgangathweni semfundo, abantwana baya kujongana nobunzima kwiindawo ezininzi ezantsi kwendlela, kanye ekufumaneni ukwamkelwa kwiikholeji ukuya kukhuphiswano kuyo nayiphi na imakethi yomsebenzi.
Zithini iimpawu zokungahoywa komntwana?
Iimpawu zokungahoywa komntwana ziyahluka ngokobudala bomntwana.
Masikhankanye umzekelo wokungahoywa komntwana apha ukuqonda iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ezibonisa ukuba omncinci ulixhoba lokuxhatshazwa nokungahoywa komntwana.
Kumntwana ohamba isikolo, abalawuli kunye nootitshala banokukrokrela ukungahoywa komntwana ukuba umntwana mncinci ngokumangalisayo, akaziphethe kakuhle, ubonakalisa ucoceko olubi okanye unerekhodi yokuhamba isikolo. Ukuba umntwana uvela kwigumbi lokufundela enxibe ihempe engenamikhono kwaye engenayo ijezi okanye ibhatyi ngoJanuwari, oku kunokuba luphawu lokungahoywa komntwana.
Yiyiphi eminye yemiphumo yokungahoywa kwabantwana?
Iziphumo zokungahoywa emntwaneni zininzi, nangona ezinye zisenokuba zezokwexeshana, ngelishwa, uninzi lunokuhlala ubomi bonke.
Abantwana banokuba nobundlobongela okanye barhoxe.
Ngenxa yokungahoywa, indlela aqhuba ngayo umntwana ezifundweni isenokubandezeleka, kwaye oku kungakhokelela kwimfundo engeyiyo, ukuwela kwisihlwele "esingalunganga" kwangethuba, ukusebenzisa iziyobisi notywala usemncinci, kunye nezinye iindlela zokuphila ezingalunganga.
Ukhetho lobugcisa lunokuba mbalwa, kwaye amathuba okuphumelela imfundo yaseyunivesithi anokuncitshiswa okanye angabikho. Impilo yomzimba nayo inokubandezeleka ngenxa yokuba ezinye okanye zonke iibenchmarks zempilo efanelekileyo (ukujonga kakuhle umntwana, ukuvavanywa komntwana rhoqo, ukugonywa, ukuvavanywa kwamazinyo rhoqo) ngekhe kwenzeke.
Ukushwankathela, umntu unokuthi iziphumo ezibi zokungahoywa komntwana kunokuhlala ubomi bonke.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ukrokrela ukungakhathalelwa kwabantwana?
Nabani na angaxela ukungakhathalelwa kwabantwana. Kodwa, umntu kufuneka ayazi indlela yokuxela ukungakhathalelwa kwabantwana?
Onke amazwe aneenombolo zasimahla zokufowuna; kwamanye amazwe, kunyanzelekile ukuxela ukungakhathalelwa kwabantwana, kodwa nabani na okrokrela ukungakhathalelwa kwabantwana kufuneka axele, kuba ukubika ityala lokungahoywa komntwana kunokubusindisa ubomi bomntwana.
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