Umxholo
- Mkhulu kakhulu kwisini esothusayo?
- Ukoyisa ukungazithembi
- Esona sikhundla sesini sabasetyhini esityebileyo
- Yithande loo sofa
- Intombazana eguqulweyo
- I-pretzel
- Ukwahlula ukumkanikazi
- Iingcebiso ezongezelelweyo!
Ngelixa wonke umntu ethetha malunga ne-Fifty Shades craze kunye nendlela onokuyilukuhla ngayo indoda yakho kumaqhinga aphembelela ingqondo, sihlala silibale ukuba kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zabafazi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, siyamazi umntu otyebileyo, onoburhabaxa, nakwigama lama-layman atyebileyo nabafazi abakhulu.
Asidli ngokubabona bethetha kakhulu malunga nokwabelana ngesondo okanye indlela abanokuyonwabisa ngayo indoda kunye nendlela abafuna ukuyonwaba ngayo ngenxa yehlazo kubungakanani babo.
Ukungabi nabulungisa, awucingi? Ngoku lixesha lokuba uphume uye kwazi i ezona ngcebiso zilungileyo zesini kwabasetyhini abatyebileyo kunye nendlela abanokuzithemba ngakumbi ngayo.
Mkhulu kakhulu kwisini esothusayo?
Umfazi omkhulu ufana naye wonke umntu kwaye mhlawumbi nangaphezulu. Rhoqo, abantu banokungakhathali babuze ukuba abantu ababhinqileyo abatyebileyo balala kanjani okanye kunjani ukuba neentlobano zesini nomntu otyebileyo - kuyacaphukisa oko.
Ukwabelana ngesondo okanye ukwenza uthando, nokuba ubiza ntoni kuyafana. Akukho mntu uya kuhluthwa ukuba onwabele isini esoyikekayo ngenxa yobungakanani bazo nezinye izinto. Ukuba ungomntu obuzwe ukuba, "ulala njani nomntu otyebileyo”, Ke lixesha lokuba ubenakho kwaye ubaphendule ukuba unganika eyona nto ilungileyo, eyona yesondo yoyikekayo banokuyicinga.
Ingenzeka?
Ewe kunjalo! Iingcebiso zesondo kwabasetyhini abanamafutha ziqala ngokwamkelwa. Sukucinga ngegama ukutyeba njengokuthoba isidima okanye ube neentloni xa ubizwa njalo. Yeyakho ngokwakho kwaye ucinge, "Ke uza kuthini ukuba ndityebile?"
Ukwabelana ngesondo nabafazi abatyebe kakhulu kunamathuba akhethekileyo athandwa ngamadoda! Nangona kunjalo, abasetyhini abakhulu ngakumbi bayoyika ukunikela ngako konke kwaye benze ngenxa yokungaqiniseki.
Ukoyisa ukungazithembi
Ukuba ngcono kwisini kwaye ngaphambi kokugxila kwi ezona ngcebiso zilungileyo zesini kwabasetyhini abatyebileyo, Kuya kufuneka kuqala ufunde indlela yokuzithemba ebhedini. Ukuzithemba ngobukhulu bakho kunye nobuchule kuya kutshintsha yonke into. Qala ngezi ngcinga ziluncedo kunye nengqondo.
- Sukuvumela abo bantu bathetha amazwi arhabaxa kuwe beze kuwe "wena". Nokuba ungakanani na ubungakanani bakho, nokuba ubhityile, unomdla, kwaye ukhulu- abantu baya kuhlala benento yokuthetha. Ukuba uyazivumela ezi zinto zifike kuwe, uya kuqala ukubonisa ukuthintela ikakhulu ngesondo. Kungcono ucime izibane, okanye mhlawumbi wenze ngeempahla zakho. Oku akuyi kwenza ukuba iqabane lakho lingakhululeki nje kodwa kuya kunika nobabini imvakalelo engathandekiyo. Khumbula, into ocinga ngayo ngawe iya kubonakala kwindlela osebenzisana ngayo nabantu kunye nendlela olala ngayo.
- Thanda ubungakanani bakho! Ungumnini wee curve zakho kwaye uziqhayise! Qala ngokukhetha iimpahla ezifanelekileyo eziza kuncoma iiasethi zakho. Emva koko jonga indlela iimodeli ezinobungakanani obudityanisiweyo ezihamba ngayo kunye nendlela abanesimo sengqondo esithi "Andikhathali".
- Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nentombazana etyebileyo kunye nokwenza ekhethekileyo Vumela umntu wakho onwabele umzimba wakho. Musa ukuba neentloni! Unaye ngoku kuba uyakuthanda. Khawufane ucinge ngale ndlela, nokuba ungakwenza konke okusemandleni akho kwaye umbonise indlela abahle ngayo abantu besetyhini ebhedini okanye ukuba neentloni kwaye wenze isini sakho sikruqule-ukhetha!
Esona sikhundla sesini sabasetyhini esityebileyo
Ngoku ukuba siyayazi indlela yokuzithemba ngakumbi, lixesha lokuba sizazi ezona ngcebiso zibalaseleyo zesini kubafazi abatyebileyo kunye ezona ndawo zesondo zibalaseleyo kwabasetyhini abatyebileyo ngubani ofuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba indoda yakhe iyakumkhumbula.
Yithande loo sofa
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuba neentlobano zesini kunye nentombazana etyebileyo kukuba ngumdla. Ubungakanani bamantombazana awadinisi! Ziyonwabisa kwaye zinokwenza ubomi bakho bobulili bube mnandi. Yeka ukusebenzisa loo bhedi kwaye uyinike ikhefu! Endaweni yoko, zama ukhuko, beka umzimba wakho kwaye ugobe. Le engile ilungile ukuba umntu wakho angene kuwe!
Intombazana eguqulweyo
Ungavumeli ubungakanani bakho bukoyikise ngokwenza inkomo yenkomo kwaye kulungile, kutheni ungangcono kwaye wenze inkomo ebuyela umva. Indoda yakho ayinakukhathazeka ukubona loo sexy emva kwakho ngelixa umkhweleyo, akunjalo?
I-pretzel
Kulabo bacelwa umngeni kancinci indlela yokwenza uthando kumfazi otyebileyo, emva koko unokuzama le. Umntu wakho makaphakame uyokulala emaphethelweni ebhedi. Ukusuka apho, jika kwicala lakho kwaye mvumele angene kuwe. Kukhululekile kuni nobabini nto leyo eyenza ukuba ibeyinto entle kakhulu!
Ukwahlula ukumkanikazi
Uya kudinga umqamelo olungileyo onokumelana nokubetha. Nyusa isinqe sakho usebenzisa imiqamelo de ube ufumana indawo efanelekileyo. Ezinye iingcebiso zesini sabasetyhini abatyebileyo kukunika konke kunye nokwahlulahlula! Vumela umntu wakho angene kuwe kwaye wonwabele umzuzu. Angathanda ukubona amabele akho njengoko engena kuwe.
Iingcebiso ezongezelelweyo!
Ngoku ekubeni sisendleleni elungileyo yokuba nguthixokazi wesini kunye nesayizi, lixesha lokuba ulilinganise inotshi.
- Musa ukoyika sebenzisa iithoyi zesini! Yinyani leyo inomdla kwaye inokwenza nokwenza uthando lwakho kube mnandi ngokwenene! Musa ukoyika ukuzama.
- Dlala indima? Yicinge njengenyathelo lokuhamba kwenqanaba. Nje ukuba uqiniseke malunga nenqanaba lokuzithemba kwanendlela owenza ngayo uthando, zama oku. Kuyonwabisa ngokwenene kwaye kunokukwenza uphume kunye nesibheno sesini ekungekho mntu unokumelana naso.
- Gweba! Jonga iqabane lakho ngamehlo ahendayo, uhlebeze amagama agangileyo, kwaye uqalise ukumchukumisa. Ukuhlekisa kumnandi kakhulu kwaye kunganyusa naluphi na uthando.
Iingcebiso zesondo zabafazi abatyebileyo azikho apha nje ukuze uzive ungcono okanye zikwenza ukhululeke malunga nobungakanani bakho. Ezi ngcebiso zilapha ukwenza ukuba ubone ukuba ungakanani onakho ekuqinisekiseni ukuba ayisiyo iqabane lakho kuphela elonelisekileyo kodwa nawe ngokwakho.
Nje ukuba uzamkele uwonke, akukho gumbi lokungazithembi kodwa igumbi lolonwabo, ukuzithemba, kunye nolonwabo.