Umxholo
- Ukucinga kunokuba yingozi
- Akukho nto iluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka!
- Ulwalamano alupheli ngaphandle kohlaza
Uxinzelelo kunye nosizi kuza ngeendlela ezininzi kwaye banokuthatha ubomi babo. Uninzi lwethu luzula zula ngemini ngokuhamba yedwa ukuya kumnyhadala olandelayo, intlanganiso elandelayo, ukuqeshwa okulandelayo okanye indibano yosapho elandelayo, ngaphandle kokukhupha okushiyekileyo kweenwele zethu. Ezinye zeentsuku zenziwe mfiliba kunye kwaye umgca ocacileyo womda usenokungabonakali kunye neenkcukacha zomzuzu zezinye, imisebenzi yesiqhelo yobomi ibonakala ngathi iyanyamalala ngaphandle komkhondo. Ngamanye amaxesha uye uzibuze ukuba uphele phi endleleni.
Ukucinga kunokuba yingozi
Umboniso unokuba likrele elintlangothi-mbini ukuba awuphathwanga ngononophelo, ngexesha elililo nakwisimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo. Nangona usenokukwazi ukutyibilika kumhla wokusebenza kwakho, unokuzibona ungabinakho ukutyibilika ebomini; ngakumbi ubomi obugcwele iziqendu ezinzima zosizi. Olona lusizi lukhulu lulo oluhlala phantsi, phantsi kwe-radar, kodwa ubuncinci likuvumela ukuba ube nembeko yokuba ngumntu osebenzayo.
Ndibona uninzi lwabasetyhini eofisini yam abazijonga njengabagwebi abalungileyo besimilo kwaye abanye banentambo efanayo. Andizange ndiyibone isiza! ”
Ukuba bendine-nickel ngalo lonke ixesha ndiva le ngxelo! Ngaba kuyinyani ukuba sibona kuphela into esiyifunayo? Mhlawumbi ngamanye amaxesha. Ngaba kububuxoki ukuba ngenxa yokuba singayiboni, ayikho? Ayenzeki?
Abasetyhini bakholisa ukuphatha inani elinetyala lokujongana netyala xa bejamelana nento ephuma eblue, abangazange bayibone isiza.
Akukho nto iluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka!
Nje ukuba inkqubo yokubonisa yenzeke, ezo nkcukacha zemizuzu ebezityeshelwe ngequbuliso ziye zaqaqamba.
"Ndiyakuxelela ukuba wayenxibe ntoni okokuqala ndabona ukuba ujonge omnye umfazi kwindawo yokutyela ..."
"Khange ndiqonde ukuba iakhawunti yeyamakhadi etyala afihliweyo kude kube ...."
"Wayesezintlanganisweni ngezo ntsuku zintathu ..."
Oku kuphuma kwingqondo eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kukusabela kwisiseko seemvakalelo.
Akukho mntu ufuna ukucinga ukuba baphose zonke izikhombisi ezazilengiswe phambi kobuso babo.
Akukho mntu ufuna ukuziva ngathi usisidenge. Akukho mntu ufuna ukucinga ukuba ukuzinikela kwabo akubuyiswanga. Le pilisi kunzima ukuyiginya nakubani na.
Ulwalamano alupheli ngaphandle kohlaza
Ukuphazamiseka kweemoto kwenzeka ngaphandle kohlaza okwesibhakabhaka, ufumana umkhuhlane ngaphandle kohlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kwaye ungawa kwaye uqhekeze ingalo yakho ngaphandle kohlaza.
Ubudlelwane abonakalisi bubumnyama. Kukho imiqondiso efihlakeleyo endleleni, ezinye zigqithile, ezinye ziyimfihlo.
Nokuba yeyiphi na, imiqondiso ikhona, ingumba nje wexesha xa indawo yokufihla intloko izakubuyisela intloko yayo embi.Isiphelo sisiphelo sokufa okucothayo okude ngenxa yento ongayibonanga kunye nento ongakhange uyamkele xa wawuzisiwe.
Kukho isizathu sokuba sithi "uthando aluboni."
Ukuthwala ityala lokungaziboni iimpawu akusebenzi kwaye akuyi kukunceda ukuba uphilise ngokukhawuleza. Ukuphilisa kuthatha ixesha kwaye nguwe kuphela onokugweba ukuba injani na le thayimthebhile. Akukho mntu uyazi ukuba wenzakele ngale ndlela wenza ngayo, akekho omnye umntu obotshelelwe yimvakalelo kwimeko yakho njengawe. Ke ukuba uzifumana ukwi "ngaphandle kweblue", nanga amanyathelo ambalwa onokulandela ukuze ubuye.
1. Musa ukuzibek 'ityala. Ayisebenzi njongo kwaye iya kukhuthaza kuphela ukugxeka.
2. Fumana iindlela zokulawula iimvakalelo zakho ezixhalabileyo zomsindo, usizi, uxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo malunga nekamva.
3. Yamkela ukuba bangcatshe wena. Ke ngoko awuzukujikeleza umthwalo wempazamo yezenzo zomntu ezingalunganga.
4. Ngaba uzamkele? Zikhumbuze ukuba unexabiso kwaye unexabiso kwaye thintela oku "ukuba bendilunge ngakumbi ..." okanye "ukuba bendenze ..." Zama ukungazithelekisi. Khumbula, ukuba iqabane lakho kukungcatsha, ngewenze konke okungcono kwaye baya kukungcatsha.
5. Fumana ugqirha olungileyo oza kukunceda kwinkqubo yokunyanga.
6. Thenga ibhakethi lepeyinti. Peyinta igumbi lakho olithandayo umthunzi ozolileyo oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.