Umxholo
- Irrationality
- Umdla wokuzingca
- Ukulindela okungekho ngqiqweni
- Ishishini kuphela kwengqwalaselo namandla
- Ukhuphisana naye ukuze umqwalasele
- Ibipolar njengomlinganiswa
Umtshato uqala kubudlelwane, emva kokuvavanya iimpawu ezibonakalayo zomntu oza kuba liqabane, umsebenzi ubaluleke kakhulu. Ayinguye wonke umntu obhinqileyo onokwazi ukumelana nosomashishini. Lo ngumntu osoloko enzulu ngengcinga malunga noluvo lweshishini eliphambeneyo kwaye ulindele ukuba umceli mngeni kwisikolo sakhe sokucinga. Kuhlala kungcono ukuba uqhawule ubudlelwane kunomtshato. Amaqabane anothando anika konke okusemandleni awo ngexesha lobudlelwane ngaphambi komtshato, ukunqongophala kwamaxesha amnandi othando kweli nqanaba, lindela iimeko ezimbi emtshatweni. Makhe sijonge eminye yemiba yosomashishini eyingozi kubudlelwane-
Irrationality
Impumelelo kwishishini ayisosiqinisekiso sokuphumelela kubudlelwane. Iipesenti ezingama-60 zoosomashishini abaphumeleleyo banemitshato engasebenzi kakuhle. Esona sizathu soku kujonga kwiziko lomtshato njengeshishini. Ungayithathi ingqalelo into yokuba emtshatweni, ngabantu ababini abangafezekanga abazama ukudala imeko-bume enoxolo ngokuzincama nangolungelelwaniso, ngokungafaniyo kuseto lweshishini apho ujongana kuphela nabantu abafezekileyo emsebenzini.
Umdla wokuzingca
Usomashishini akaze alalanise kwishishini lakhe. Ukuba kufuneka ucwangcise umhla, kufuneka ube lula kuye. Akaluqwalaseli uluvo lwakho kwizicwangciso zakhe. Nguwe onokulingana kwisicwangciso sakhe kwaye kungenjalo akunjalo. Emva kwexesha elithile, uzifumana ukwimeko enzima; imisebenzi yakho ilindele ukudala ixesha leqabane lakho. Ubudlelwane yindlela yokuhamba ngeendlela ezimbini; Sonke senza ukulalanisa ukuze sizuze ubudlelwane. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uqhuba umboniso kuphela, lixesha eliphezulu lokuba usithathele ingqalelo isigqibo sakho.
Ukulindela okungekho ngqiqweni
Ukulawula ubudlelwane lishishini ngokwalo; Utyalo-mali ecaleni lufuna ukuzincama. Usomashishini ujongana nawe njengeqabane lakho. Xa ebambekile, ulindele ukuba ube secaleni kwakhe ngokunika ingcebiso kunye nezisombululo kwiprojekthi engaphumelelanga. Ngaba ungumphathi wombono? Uza kuqala njani ukubandakanyeka kweli shishini xa ungazi nenjongo kunye neenjongo zalo? Kuqhelekile ukuthatha isihlalo sangasemva ubukele njengoko iziganeko zisenzeka, kulapho udibana khona nezithuko ngenxa yobuvila nokungabinamsebenzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ulapho ngenxa yothando hayi intsebenziswano yeshishini. Ngapha koko, oosomashishini abalumkileyo bazinza kumashishini ngaphambi kokuba bazinikele kubudlelwane ukunqanda ukuphoxeka.
Ishishini kuphela kwengqwalaselo namandla
Usomashishini ubeka imali kwishishini. Ngumsebenzi onzima ofuna ukuhamba imayile eyongezelelweyo ukuyalela isabelo sentengiso esiphezulu. Okwangoku iqabane lakho lingenakho nokuthumela umyalezo ngefonti ekuhambeni kwemini kuba wayexakekile emsebenzini emva koko awuthethi nto ebomini bakhe. Kuya kufuneka akuphathe ngendlela efanayo angaze asilele ukubiza umncedisi wakhe kuyo nayiphi na imicimbi yeshishini esalindelweyo xa use-ofisini.
Ukhuphisana naye ukuze umqwalasele
Nobabini niyavuma ukuba kubudlelwane. Usomashishini oneemvakalelo ezizinzileyo uyayazi indlela yokulinganisa phakathi kokwakha ishishini lakhe kwaye onwabele amaxesha anomdla nawe. Ngaba nguwe omele umkhumbuze usuku lwakho lokuzalwa okanye umsitho? Kuya kufuneka akothuse ngezipho kwaye ahambe ngendlela yakhe ukuze abeke yonke into emsebenzini ukuze ibekhona nawe.
Ukuba nobudlelwane obuhle nomrhwebi; udinga inqanaba eliphezulu lomonde, ukunyamezelana, kunye nokuqonda. Ukuzinza ngokweemvakalelo kukasomashishini kumisela impumelelo kulwalamano.
Xa ifika kwinqanaba lokuba arhoxise usuku lwakho ukuba aye "kungxamiseko" emsebenzini emva koko afune ixesha elingakumbi lokuzilungisa ngaphambi kokuzibophelela kuwe. Aba ngabantu abaya kufumana umnxeba embindini wento yokwenza uthando. Baleka mhlobo wam baleka!
Ibipolar njengomlinganiswa
Indima yakho kukudibana ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasemzimbeni. Amahla ndinyuka eshishini aqhekeza usomashishini ukuya kwinqanaba lokuncama. Jonga indlela akuphethe ngayo kuzo zonke ezi meko. Ngaba ubukho bakho bunefuthe lokuphelisa uxinzelelo okanye luyenza mandundu imeko? Ngaba ukuphatha ngothando, inkathalo, nothando ukuya kwindawo ongayi kuqaphela ukuba kukho ingxaki kwishishini? Kwimeko apho, ulonwabo lobudlelwane bakho luxhomekeke kwimpumelelo yeshishini ulunge ngakumbi wedwa. Awuyi kukhululeka xa uqikelela umsindo. Ubudlelwane obulungileyo nosomashishini kufuneka bube ngcono ngaphandle kokujongana nemiceli mngeni kwishishini lakhe. Ingcinga yakho kunye nobukho kufuneka ziphakamise umoya wakhe.