Umxholo
- Ingcebiso malunga neengxaki zobudlelwane
- 1. Yithathe lula
- 2. Ulonwabo lwakho lusezandleni zakho
- 3. Yeka ukulinda kwaye uphile ubomi bakho
- Iingxaki zobudlelwane ziyanceda
Ukuba nomhlobo unako kukuvumela ukuba uphumle nasebunzimeni obunjani. Bahlala bekulungele kunye noluhlu lwabo lweengcebiso kubudlelwane kubahlobo kunye ndikunike iingcebiso ngokuzithandela xa uyifuna kakhulu.
Nanini na xa ulwalamano lwakho lukukhathaza, abahlobo bakho bakhona ukukunceda. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba ufuna ingcebiso ngothando okanye ufuna ingcebiso malunga nokwahlukana, abahlobo bakho bakhona bazokulanda kwaye kukunceda uqhubeke.
Iingcebiso zobudlelwane kubahlobo kufuneka zibe zezona zithandwa ngumntu wonke.
Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungamnika njani ingcebiso umhlobo onengxaki yobudlelwane, okanye udidekile malunga nokwabelana ngeengxaki kunye nabahlobo, funda apha ngezantsi.
Eli nqaku liza kukwazisa ukuba kwaye zithini iingcebiso ezimbalwa zobudlelwane kubahlobo onokubanika, kwaye ziya kukubonelela ngesisombululo sengxaki yobudlelwane.
Ingcebiso malunga neengxaki zobudlelwane
Xa umhlobo wakho efika eze nezoluleko, wena zama ukuqina isibindi ukuya mnike inyani. Awufuni kumlahlekisa, kwaye ufuna ukulandela izikhokelo zendlela onokuba ngumhlobo oxhasayo ngayo.
Nangona kunjalo, xa usiva ibali malunga nokwenzekayo, lenza igazi lakho libile, kwaye ufuna ukukhusela umhlobo wakho.
Kwiimeko ezinje ngezi, eyona nto unokuyenza kuku hlala emva uphefumle nzulu. Ukuba ufuna nyani ncedisa umhlobo kubudlelwane obubi, emva koko nika ingcebiso kubudlelwane njengoko kuchaziwe apha ngezantsi -
1. Yithathe lula
Ungamnika njani ingcebiso kumhlobo onengxaki yobudlelwane?
Thetha nje, yenza lula!
Le yeyona ilula kwaye enye yeengcebiso ezilungileyo kakhulu zobudlelwane inikwe umntu. Zama oku ngengcebiso yobudlelwane kubahlobo.
Amaxesha amaninzi unokufumana uloyiko-olusekwe kwimfuno yokulawula enye ebalulekileyo. Oku kukhokelela kwi ukunyanzelwa okwonakalisayo inako gungqisa iziseko zengqibelelo ulwalamano lwakho lonke.
Iingxabano zihlala zithatha indawo yenceba nentlonelo ngenzondo nangomsindo.
Eli cebiso liyanceda kwi ukunciphisa izinga lokuphinda usebenze kwakhona kuwo omabini amaqela kungoko ke kugcina uxolo, uthando kunye nolonwabo ziphila.
2. Ulonwabo lwakho lusezandleni zakho
Ingcebiso entle ukunika umhlobo malunga nobudlelwane kukuba ulonwabo lwabo lusezandleni zabo ndedwa.
Abantu abaninzi bacinga njalo iqabane labo linokubenza bonwabe. Kulapho bayaphazama. Ayingomsebenzi wamaqabane akho ukukugcina wonwabile; Ewe banokukwenza uzive ulungile, kodwa awudingi ukuba bahlale bonwabile lonke ixesha.
Nje ukuba uyiqonde loo nto unoxanduva lwezenzo zakho, awusayi kuphinda ulwe nokuqwalaselwa kwabo.
Le ngcebiso nayo kunciphisa ireyithi yeempikiswano kubudlelwane okoko wena zigcine uliqhulo kwaye kuphephe ukukhetha iimfazwe nokubetha iingcango.
3. Yeka ukulinda kwaye uphile ubomi bakho
Le yeyona ngcebiso yobudlelwane ilungileyo kubahlobo.
Xa isiza kunceda umhlobo wakho, ukunika Ingcebiso kubudlelwane inokuba yinto ekhohlisayo ukwenza. Awuqinisekanga nokuba bafuna ukuqala ukungatshati okanye ukunamathela kubudlelwane.
Ukuba neengxaki zobudlelwane kuqheleke kakhulu, kodwa xa zidlula kwizinto eziqhelekileyo ukuya kwezinkulu, kulapho le ngcebiso yobudlelwane kubahlobo ingena khona.
Endaweni yokuba noxinzelelo lokuba ungatshatanga kwaye ufumane uthando kwakhona, umhlobo wakho kufuneka aphumle kwaye onwabele ixesha lokudibana kwabo. Eli xesha lokuphuma liza kubanceda ukuba bazifumane kwakhona. Amaxesha amaninzi xa abantu bebudlelwane obude kunye nokungalunganga, banokulahleka.
Nangona kunjalo, ngeli cebiso, bangalonwabela ikhefu kwaye bafumane kwakhona.
Into efanelekileyo yokwenza kukuzithanda. Xa uzithanda kwaye ucoce ecaleni kwendlela, unokufumana umntu ozimisele ukunamathela kuwe ebunzimeni nasebubini.
Iingxaki zobudlelwane ziyanceda
Nini ukubaleka ukucebisa umhlobo kubudlelwane obubi, kufuneka uyazi ukuba nokuba kwenzeka ntoni, ngekhe ulazi lonke ibali. Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni, uya kuhlala uhleli cala kumhlobo wakho kwaye iyakuxhasa kwaye bacebise ngokwesigqibo sabo.
Nangona kunjalo, oku kulapho unokuhamba gwenxa.
Ngamaxesha athile, abantu Abathanda abahlobo babo banako bagqibela ngokubakhuthaza into engeyiyo.
Ngeli xesha, umhlobo wakho angaphela eshiya iqabane lakhe naxa iqabane lakhe belingenatyala. Umhlobo wakho uya kuphulukana nomntu olunge kakhulu ngenxa yokuba bathathe ingcebiso ephosakeleyo kuwe.
Xa unika ingcebiso, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba uyazazi zonke iinkcukacha ngokwenyani; akukho nto ifanele ifihlwe, kwaye akufuneki ifakwe iswekile. Nezinto ezincinci ezenzekileyo phakathi kwabo kufuneka zaziwe nguwe.
Kuya kufuneka uzibeke endaweni yabo ngaphambi kokunikezela ngengcebiso kwaye uyazi ngokucacileyo ukuba ngewenze ntoni kwimeko enjalo.
Sukusuka nje uphalaze izisombululo zomsindoUmsindo nengqumbo. Cinga ngokucacileyo kwaye ngengqondo ecacileyo ukuze Nika umhlobo wakho elona cebiso lililo ungapha.