Umxholo
- Okulindelweyo
- Yinyani
- Ukunyamezelana
- Ukuxhomekeka
- Ukuthetha ngesondo
- Imali
- Ubomi bokuhlala
- Iimbambano
- Ubomi bangaphambili
- Ubukho bedijithali
Sonke sinemida.
Jonga ngeenxa zonke kuwe, uya kubabona kuyo yonke indawo. Ngexa usendleleni unelungelo lokuqhuba kwicala elithile lendlela. Ukuba uya kwelinye icala, uya kugcina uyitshayisa imoto yomnye umntu.
Ngokufanayo, indlu yakho inemida, udonga olwahlula ipropathi yommelwane wakho kweyakho.
Sonke sinemida yobuqu; umda ochaza ukuba singobani. Kuyasikhusela kwabanye. Yindawo yethu yobuqu esiyonwabele kakhulu. Kakhulu, siyonwabela imida yobuqu ekhaya apho siqinisekile ukuba akukho mntu unokungena ngaphakathi kwaye aqale ukuhlala nathi.
Ukuba awunayo imida yobuqu umhlaba uya kukuthatha kancinci. Kuya kufuneka usete umda othile ngelixa ulwalamano ngokunjalo.
Okulindelweyo
Esinye sezizathu eziphambili zokuba ubudlelwane busilele kukungazichazi izinto esizilindeleyo kwiqabane lethu. Unelungelo lokwazi ukuba silindele ntoni kubo.
Ukuba ungena kubudlelwane ungenathemba lokuba uyaxoka kuwe.
Sonke singabantu kwaye sinyanzelekile ukuba silindele izinto kwabanye. Nje ukuba ube liqabane lakho licacile kulindelo, izinto ziya kuba lula kuwe. Ke, setha umda wolindelo kwaye uhlale wonwabile.
Yinyani
Kukangaphi unyaniseka kwisiqu sakho. Hayi ikakhulu, akunjalo?
Xa ulungiselela ubudlelwane okanye uthandana nomnye umntu, musa ukugqitha ngento. Kukho amathuba okuba ungabandakanyeka emntwini kwaye ekugqibeleni uza kwenzakala kuba bengabandakanyekanga njengawe.
Kuphephe ukunika ingqalelo engaphezulu okanye ukubaluleka komnye umntu, ngakumbi xa usazi ukuba abaxakekanga kangako ngayo.
Ukunyamezelana
Sonke sinezinga elithile leemvakalelo kunye nomqobo.
Ingxaki iza kubudlelwane xa singayixoxi loo nto neqabane lethu. Akuphosakalanga ukuba nenqanaba lokunyamezelana, ayilunganga ukungazisi abanye malunga nayo. Ukuba abazi ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo baya kungena kwimida yakho kwaye izinto ziya kuqhuma zingalingani.
Ngokuqinisekileyo iqabane lakho alifuni ukukwenzakalisa okanye likubeke kwindawo engathandekiyo. Ke, mabazise ngenqanaba lakho lokunyamezelana.
Ukuxhomekeka
Ukuxhomekeka kubi akulunganga. Uyakukhubaza ngendlela.
Okwangoku uxhomekeke kwikhowudi kwiqabane lakho, ngaphezulu kokufuneka, awunakwenza nto ngaphandle kwabo, okanye vise-versa. Kulungile ukuba uxhomekeke kancinane kwiqabane lakho, ngokweemvakalelo nakwezinye izinto, kodwa ungaweli umda kwaye uxhomekeke ngakumbi.
Ngokwenza njalo uya kungena ngokungazi kwindawo yabo kwaye izinto zinokungapheli.
Ukuthetha ngesondo
Awunakho ukuba neentlobano zesini kodwa iqabane lakho linokuba njalo.
Banokuyithanda isondo lasekuseni kodwa awuyithandi. Ukuba awumiseli imida yakho, uyabavumela ukuba bangene kwindawo yakho ngaphandle kokuthandabuza.
Ke thetha nabo. Cwangcisa umda kwaye ubazise malunga naloo nto. Kuya kukunceda ube nobudlelwane obusempilweni.
Imali
Imali inokonakalisa naluphi na ulwalamano oluhle phakathi kwaso nasiphi na isibini.
Kude kube yiminyaka embalwa ibuyile, izibini bezisebenzisa ukugcina iakhawunti yebhanki edibeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo, bakhululekile ukugcina iiakhawunti zebhanki ezahlukileyo. Ngale ndlela, bayakwazi ngokulula ukugcina imali kude nolwalamano lwabo kwaye bayakwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo nobomeleleyo.
Ubomi bokuhlala
Utshatile okanye usebudlelwaneni kodwa okwangoku unokuba nobomi bakho boluntu. Unabahlobo bakho abasemsebenzini kunye nabahlobo bakho obathandayo othanda ukuhlangana nabo rhoqo ngoku.
Ubomi bakho boluntu ngumda wakho kwaye kungcono ukuba ungagcina kude nolwalamano lwakho.
Ngaphandle kokuba kubudlelwane unelungelo lokudibana nabahlobo bakho kwaye uphume nabo uye kwindawo oyithandayo. Kungcono ukugcina iqabane lakho linolwazi ngale ndawo ukuze bangangenisi indawo yakho.
Iimbambano
Abantu benza izinto zobuyatha xa benomsindo. Oku kwenzeka kuye wonke umntu. Nangona kunjalo, inye into ekufuneka uyigcinile engqondweni ukuba awufanelanga ukuba uwele imida yomntu ngegama lomsindo.
Ungquzulwano okanye umlo kunokuba malunga nantoni na, kodwa kuya kufuneka ugcine umgama ukusuka kwimida yomntu kwaye wenze ngengqiqo.
Ubomi bangaphambili
Wonke umntu unembali. Yinxalenye yabo ebalulekileyo.
Awufanelanga ukuba uziphande ngokwakho kwaye uzame ukwazi ngembali yeqabane lakho okanye ngobomi obudlulileyo. Baza kwabelana nawe nanini na bekhululekile. Kude kube ngoko, wonwabele nje ngoku kunye nabo.
Ubukho bedijithali
Namhlanje, kulula ukuba ngumhlobo wabahlobo kwiqonga ledijithali eyahlukeneyo. Ke, kubalulekile ukuba uxoxe malunga nokufikelela kwabo kubukho bakho bedijithali.
Ngokungamiseli umda wobukho bedijithali, unokumema ingxaki kubomi bakho. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ulwalamano alunakuhlala kodwa unyawo lwedijithali ngokuqinisekileyo luyenzeka.