Ngaba ukhe wadlala "Amakhadi ngokuchasene noBuntu?" Ngumdlalo onomdla ongena nzulu emphefumlweni wethu kwaye ufumane uburharha kwilishwa labanye.Nangona kunjalo, njengazo zonke iziqhulo, akufuneki ukuba zithathwe ngokungathí sina.
Abantu abasandul 'ukutshata kwimibuzo yomdlalo abazama ukungena nzulu kunye nokuzibandakanya nabantu abasandul' ukutshata. Nokuba ayifanele ithathwe ngokungathí sina, imibuzo yomdlalo osandul 'ukutshata yenzelwe ukunceda ubudlelwane njengoko isibini esitshatileyo siguga kwaye sikhula kunye.
Nalu uluhlu lweyona mibuzo ilungileyo yomtshato esandula ukutshata ekunzima ukuyiphendula, kodwa iyahlekisa kwaye iluncedo ngaxeshanye.
- Yintoni eyona nto yafika kuqala engqondweni yakho xa wawudibana neqabane lakho?
- Bubuphi ubuxoki bokuqala owakha wabuthetha kwiqabane lakho?
- Yeyiphi eyona nto ikruqulayo ngeqabane lakho?
- Chaza iqabane lakho ngegama elinye.
- Chaza izalamane zeqabane lakho ngegama elinye.
- Lithini usuku lwakho lokuzalwa?
- Chaza elinye lamaqabane onomdla kuwo.
- Yintoni eyoyikwa liqabane lakho?
- Yeyiphi eyona nto ineentloni oyenzileyo njengesibini?
- Ngawaphi amagama asetyenziswa liqabane lakho xa benomsindo?
- Lenza ntoni iqabane lakho xa linxilile, elingenakwenza ngenye indlela?
- Leliphi ilungu lomlingane wakho elineentloni ngalo?
- Sesiphi esona sipho sitshiphu sakha saphiwa liqabane lakho?
- Umlingane wakho umchaze njani umntu wakhe wakudala phambi kwakho?
- Ngubani oleqa ngubani?
- Eyona ndlela yokuvusa iqabane lakho?
- Ngubani onama-ex angaphezulu?
- Luhlobo luni lweemovie / zikamabonwakude ezibonisa ukuba iqabane lakho ulithiyile?
- Umlingane wakho ebengasabela njani kwiqhude elibhabha?
- Ngubani umntwana omkhulu xa egula?
Nalu uluhlu lwemibuzo emdaka emitsha yomdlalo enokunceda ukuphucula ubomi bakho ngokwesondo. Ikwathathwe njengehlaya elithetha isiqingatha.
- Ngubani othanda ukuba ngaphezulu?
- Ngubani oqhubeka ecela ukuqhubeka?
- Ngubani othanda ukuzama izinto ezintsha?
- Ngubani owayenento zokudlala ngesondo ngaphambi kokuba batshate?
- Ngubani oqhubeka ebuza kuqala?
- Yeyiphi indlela ekhawulezayo yokurhwebesha iqabane lakho?
- Yintoni ongakhange uyizame kunye neqabane lakho, kodwa ufuna?
- Ngaba wena neqabane lakho ningu-S okanye M?
- Yeyiphi eyona nto ingalunganga oyenzileyo ngelixa uthandana?
- Biza igama lomntu omnye ongcono kuneqabane lakho ebhedini?
- Wakhe wacinga okanye walala nomntu wesini esifanayo?
- Yintoni eyona nto iphambeneyo uyenzileyo?
- Ngaba iqabane lakho liyazi malunga nephupha lakho elimnyama?
- Wakhe walala nabantu abangaphezulu kwesinye ngexesha elinye?
- Wakhe wasebenzisa igrisi?
Imibuzo yomdlalo osandul 'ukutshata yenzelwe ukuvula imigca yonxibelelwano ezinye izibini ezikufumanisa kunzima ukuxoxa ngelixa bethandana. Ngoku batshatile ukufunda okuninzi malunga neqabane lakho lobomi kunokwenzeka yenye yezona zitshixo kulonwabo kunye nobudlelwane bexesha elide.
Nantsi eminye imibuzo ekhokelayo enokukunceda ekuvuleni izihloko ezinzima kunye nokuthintela ezinye iingxaki kwixesha elizayo.
- Uyakholelwa ukuba iqabane lakho lichitha ixesha elininzi phambi kweTV okanye iifowuni?
- Ucinga ukuba ngubani onoxanduva lwemisebenzi yasekhaya?
- Bangaphi abantwana ongathanda ukuba nabo?
- Wenza ntoni umntu otshate naye ekungafanelekanga ukuba bayenze esidlangalaleni?
- Yeyiphi eyona nto ingenakwenzeka kwiqabane lakho?
- Sisiphi isakhono iqabane lakho elizidlayo ngaso kodwa ngokucacileyo kukuzingca?
- Yeyiphi eyona nto imbi ayenzileyo xa utshatile?
- Nguwuphi umsebenzi onqwenela ukuba iqabane lakho liwenze ubomi bakho bonke kunye?
- Wakhe wacinga ngokulalana?
- Ukuba umntu othile ukunike isigidi seedola kwaye uneveki yokuchitha, ubuya kukwenza njani?
- Ukuba ungatshata nawuphi na umlinganiswa wasentsomini, ngubani kwaye ngoba?
- Ukuba ungahamba ungaboni mntu kunye nosaziwayo, ibiya kuba ngubani?
- Ngaba wakha wathandana ngaphezu komntu omnye ngexesha elinye?
- Yintoni oqhele ukuyenza ukonwabisa umntu?
- Ngubani oqhele ukuqala umlo?
- Ngubani umntu wokuqala othi ndiyaxolisa?
- Yeyiphi eyona nto ibukhali awakha wayithetha kuwe?
- Sesiphi esona sithembiso simnandi esenziwe liqabane lakho ngaphandle kwezifungo zakho?
- Sisiphi esona sizathu sokugqibela osivileyo kwiqabane lakho?
- Kukuphi ukutya / amayeza iqabane lakho elingadibani nawo?
Le midlalo idla ngokudlalwa zizibini kunye nabahlobo babo abasondeleyo kunye nosapho ukonwaba. Imibuzo yomtshato esandul 'ukutshata kwizibini ezisetyenziselwa ukuvula izihloko ezingathandekiyo abasandul' ukutshata abanokuthi baziphose ngexesha babethandana.
Kuyenzeka ukuba udlale imibuzo yomdlalo osandul 'ukutshata kwishawa yomtshato apho bobabini umtshakazi nomyeni banokuthatha inxaxheba. Imidlalo yeshawa yomtshato iyadlalwa ukuqinisekisa ukuba umyeni uyamazi umtshakazi ukuba anele ukwazi ukuba uzifaka entwenini, Ikwasebenza ngenye indlela. Nayi eminye imibuzo yomdlalo osandul 'ukutshata weshawa yomtshato.
- Yintoni oyithandayo iqabane lomlingane wakho oyithandayo?
- Kukuthini ukutya / isiselo seqabane lakho?
- Yeyiphi into ebalulekileyo iqabane lakho elihlala lilibale ukuyizisa?
- Yeyiphi imuvi ezisa iqabane lakho kwiinyembezi?
- Yintoni iqabane lakho lokuzala?
- Ngaba iqabane lakho liyinja okanye ikati?
- Yintoni egxeka iqabane lakho loyike kakhulu?
- Umntu wakho angathanda ukuhamba okanye ukuhlala phi ngaphambi kokuba abe nabantwana?
- Yintoni eyona nto uzisola ngayo iqabane lakho ukuza kuthi ga ngoku?
- Yeyiphi eyona nto ibalulekileyo iqabane lakho eliyincamayo emtshatweni?
Imibuzo yomdlalo osandul 'ukutshata ityhila kakhulu kwaye iyonwabisa. Kukwacetyiswa ukuba udliwanondlebe arekhode yonke imibuzo kunye nenxalenye yokuphendula ukuze isibini sikwazi ukuphinda siyiqwalasele rhoqo emva kweminyaka emihlanu okanye elishumi kwaye sibone ukuba sitshintshe kangakanani.
Ukudlala imibuzo yomdlalo osandul 'ukutshata kunokubonisa izinto okhe wafuna ukuzithetha okanye wazi malunga neqabane lakho, kodwa ungazange ube nethuba lokuxoxa, ngoku sele ubandakanyekile okanye utshatile, akusekho kubuya mva. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuthembeka yeyona migaqo ilungileyo.