Umxholo
- 1. Ukuzila ukutya
- 2. Ibhedi
- 3. IChuppah
- 4. Ukujikeleza kunye nezifungo
- 5. IKetubah
- 6. USheva B'rachot okanye iintsikelelo ezisixhenxe
- 7. Ukuqhekeka kweglasi
- 8. Yichud
Ubuhle bobudlelwane bendoda nomfazi kunye noxanduva lwabo komnye nomnye nakubantu babo buphawulwa luthotho oluntsonkothileyo lwezithethe namasiko alandelwayo ngelixa kuthathwa izifungo zomtshato zamaJuda.
Usuku lomtshato lubonwa njengenye yezona ntsuku zonwabisayo nezona zingcwele ebomini bomyeni nomyeni njengoko ixa labo elidlulileyo lixolelwe kwaye badibana nomphefumlo omtsha opheleleyo.
Ngokwesiko, ukonyusa uchulumanco kunye nolindelo, esi sibini sonwabileyo asibonani kangangeveki enye ngaphambi kokuba sithathe isifungo sabo somtshato samaJuda.
Nazi izibhambathiso zomtshato ezingama-8 ezimangalisayo kunye nemikhuba ekufuneka uyazi malunga nayo:
1. Ukuzila ukutya
Xa usuku lufika, esi sibini siphathwa njengokumkani nokumkanikazi. Umtshakazi uhleli etroneni ngelixa umyeni engqongwe ziindwendwe eziculayo nezimgcobisayo.
Ukuhlonipha ubukho bosuku lwabo lomtshato ezinye izibini zikhetha ukubamba ngokukhawuleza. Ngokufana neYom Kippur, usuku lomtshato lukwathathelwa ingqalelo njengosuku lokuxolelwa. Ukuzila kugcinwa de kube kugqityiwe umcimbi wokugqibela womtshato.
2. Ibhedi
Okulandelayo Isiko lomtshato ngaphambi komsitho kuthiwa yiBedken. Ngexesha leBedken umyeni uyasondela kumtshakazi aze abeke isigqubuthelo phezu komtshakazi wakhe ebonisa ukuthozama kunye nokuzibophelela kwakhe ekunxibiseni nokukhusela inkosikazi yakhe.
U-Bedken ukwabonisa ukuba uthando lomyeni kumtshakazi wakhe bubuhle bakhe bangaphakathi. Isiko lokuba umyeni agqume umtshakazi ngokwakhe livela eBhayibhileni kwaye liqinisekisa ukuba umyeni akaqhathwa ukuba atshate nomnye umntu.
3. IChuppah
Inkqubo ye- Umsitho womtshato emva koko wenziwa phantsi kombhede obizwa ngokuba yi-chuppah. Ishawl yokuthandazela okanye ubude belungu losapho zihlala zisetyenziselwa ukwenza i-canopy.
Uphahla ologqunywe kunye neekona ezine ze-chuppah luphawu lwendlu entsha esiya kuyakha kunye esi sibini. Amacala avulekileyo amele intente ka-Abraham noSara kunye nokuvuleleka kwabo ekwamkeleni iindwendwe.
Kwi Amasiko emveli omtshato wamaYuda aya kwi-chuppah umyeni uhamba ezantsi ngabazali bobabini elandelwa ngumtshakazi nabazali bakhe bobabini.
4. Ukujikeleza kunye nezifungo
Nje ukuba baphantsi kwe-chuppah, enye yesiko lamaJuda lomtshato womtshato kukuba umtshakazi uzakujikeleza umyeni nokuba kathathu okanye kasixhenxe. Oku kungumqondiso wokwakha umhlaba omtsha kunye kwaye inani lesixhenxe limele ukuphelela kunye nokugqitywa.
Ukujikeleza kubonisa ukwenziwa kodonga lomlingo olujikeleze usapho ukuyikhusela kwizilingo nakwimimoya emdaka.
Umtshakazi ke uhlala ngaphandle komyeni ngasekunene kwakhe. Oku kulandelwa ngurabi ecengceleza iintsikelelo zokuganana emva koko isibini sisela esokuqala kwiikomityi ezimbini zewayini ezisetyenziswa kwizifungo zomtshato zesiHebhere okanye izifungo zomtshato zamaJuda.
Umyeni ke uthatha umsesane wegolide ocacileyo awubeke kwisikhombisi somtshakazi wesandla sakhe sasekunene esithi, “Uyabona, undimiselwe ngale ringi, ngokomthetho kaMoses noSirayeli.” Le ngongoma ephambili yomsitho xa umtshato usemthethweni.
5. IKetubah
Ngoku isivumelwano somtshato sifundwa sityikitywe ngamangqina amabini emva koko iintsikelelo ezisixhenxe zifundwa ngelixa kuthathwa indebe yesibini yewayini. Isivumelwano somtshato sikwaziwa njenge I-Ketubah ngesiJuda sisivumelwano esiquka imisebenzi noxanduva lomyeni.
Ikhankanya iimeko ekufuneka zifezekiswe ngumyeni nomtshakazi kwaye ibandakanya isikhokelo ukuba isibini sithathe isigqibo sokuqhawula umtshato.
I-Ketubah sisivumelwano somthetho wamaYuda hayi uxwebhu lwenkolo, ke uxwebhu alukhankanyi thixo okanye iintsikelelo zakhe. AmaNgqina akhoyo ngexesha lokutyikitywa kweKetubah kwaye kamva ifundwa phambi kweendwendwe.
6. USheva B'rachot okanye iintsikelelo ezisixhenxe
USheva B'rachot okanye iintsikelelo ezisixhenxe ziluhlobo lweemfundiso zamandulo zamaJuda ezifundwa ngesiHebhere nesiNgesi ngabahlobo abohlukeneyo kunye namalungu osapho. Ukufunda kuqala ngeentsikelelo ezincinci ezijika zibe ziingxelo ezinkulu zokubhiyozela.
7. Ukuqhekeka kweglasi
Ukuphela komsitho kuphawulwa ngumzuzu xa kubekwa iglasi phantsi ngaphakathi kwesiqwengana somyeni kwaye umyeni uyityumza ngonyawo lwakhe efuzisela ukutshatyalaliswa kwetempile yase Yerusalem nokuchonga esi sibini ngesiphelo sabantu baso.
Izibini ezininzi zide ziqokelele neziglasi zeglasi eyaphukileyo kwaye ziyiguqule ibe sisikhumbuzo somtshato wabo. Oku kuphawula ukuphela kwamaYuda izibhambathiso kwaye wonke umntu ukhwaza "u-Mazel Tov" (Siyavuyisana) njengoko abo batshatayo besamkelwa ngolangazelelo.
8. Yichud
Emva komsitho ugqityiwe izibini zichitha malunga nemizuzu eli-18 zahlukene njengenxalenye yesiko labo le-yichud. Yichud lisiko lamaJuda apho isibini esisandul 'ukutshata sinikwa ithuba lokucingisisa ngobudlelwane babo ngasese.