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- Zeziphi ezinye zeenzuzo zokutshata ibhinqa eliselula?
- Zeziphi ezinye zeengxaki zokutshata umfazi omncinci?
Udibene nothando lobomi bakho. Uyinto yonke obusoloko uyiphupha kwiqabane: udlamkile, mhle, ulumkile, uyahlekisa kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukujonga ngothando nangokuncoma.
Umncinci kakhulu kuwe.
Namhlanje, ukuhamba phakathi kwesahlulo sobudala akuphakamisi amashiya amaninzi. Umbutho sele uqhele ukubona amadoda amadala ethandana kwaye etshata abafazi abancinci ngokwaneleyo ukuba babe yintombi yabo. UDonald Trump kunye noMelania, uTom Cruise noKatie Holmes, uCatherine Zeta-Jones kunye noMichael Douglas. Nokuba yeyothando okanye kukhuseleko lwezezimali, okanye zombini, ezi zothando zangoMeyi-Disemba ngoku ziqhelekile.
Zeziphi ezinye zeenzuzo zokutshata ibhinqa eliselula?
1. Isibonelelo esicacileyo: Ubutsha bakhe namandla kunye namandla
Amandla akhe kunye nenkanuko yobomi iya kuthi, ngokunokwenzeka, idlulisele kuwe, kwindoda enkulu. Oku kunefuthe elihle kwimpilo nakwintlalo-ntle yakho. Umfazi wakho omncinci ngekhe aneliswe kukuhlala ekhaya ene-binge-ebukele uthotho lwamva nje kwiNetflix. Uya kukuphakamisa uphume kwisitulo sakho aze abuyele emhlabeni. Ngaphambili, iimpelaveki zakho zichithe indawo yokuthenga kunye nabantu abadala-Kuphela sisihlwele. Ngoku, ufuna ukuba uhambe naye eCohella kunye naye, kwaye kutheni ungabhukisi uhambo kwiiHimalaya? Inzondelelo yakhe yokufumanisa kunye nokufumanisa umhlaba iyosulela, ikwenza ubone kwaye uzonwabele izinto ngamehlo amatsha.
2. Unomtsalane ngendlela emangalisayo
Uya kuba nomona kubo bonke oontanga bakho (abahlobo bakho abangamadoda, ubuncinci!) Kwaye ufumane ukubancoma. I-libido yakho, obuyicinga ukuba ilele ixesha elide, ivukile kwaye uphinde ufumane amava okuba ngathi uneminyaka eli-14 ubudala.
3. Uya kuqhubeka neendlela ezintsha
Kanye xa ufumana ukuxhoma kwikhompyuter, weza nalo mfazi. Ngoku uthumela i-tweeting, i-instagramming kunye ne-Snapchatting. Unobomi obubonakalayo obuphindwe kalishumi kunempilo obuphila ngaphambi kokuba udibane nenkosikazi yakho. Abantwana bakho-heck, abazukulwana bakho-abakholelwa ukuba unolwazi olutsha kwezobuchwephesha. Ugcina ubuchopho bakho busebenza kwaye ubandakanyeka njengoko usazi i -apps kunye nesoftware yenkulungwane yama-21.
4. Uya kuba nethuba lokuba ngutata
Ngomfazi omncinci ochumileyo, uya kuba nethuba lokufumana ukuba ngutata (kwakhona, ukuba sele unabo abantwana). Eli thuba lokuba ngumzali kunye linokuba bubomi obungakholelekiyo kunye namava okhulisa ubudlelwane. Ukuba ngutata ebudaleni kunokunika ithuba lokuhlala umncinci kwaye usebenza.
Zeziphi ezinye zeengxaki zokutshata umfazi omncinci?
Usenokukruquka nguwe
Ngokuqinisekileyo, unika ukhuseleko lwezezimali. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ulale kwangoko kunokuba ebethanda. Awungekhe ubaleke loo marathon ukhuphisana nawo, kwaye awunamdla wokugcina iiKardashians. Unganexhala lokuba akonwabanga ukwenza eminye yale misebenzi yamandla eyedwa, okanye ukhathazeke ngokuba akayedwa. Awunako ukumnika into umntu ongangaye.
2. Usenokudikwa kuye
Njengokuba kungakholeleki oku kunokuvakala kuwe ngoku, kwixa elizayo, unokufumana udikiwe yinkosikazi yakho encinci. Izalathiso zenkcubeko ekwabelwana ngayo azifani. Ukhetho lwakho lomculo lwahluke kakhulu. Uhlala kwi-iPhone yakhe ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye akanamnqweno wokufunda incwadi ebonakalayo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba akanalo nofifi lwendlela yokwenza uqingqo-mali. Ukungakhuli kwakhe kunokucaphukisa. Ungazifumana ulangazelela umntu wesizukulwana sakho onokuthi ukhumbule naye malunga "neentsuku zakudala ezimnandi" kunye nokuba kwakunjani ukuthatha iphepha leCawa kwaye wenze iphazili yamagama kunye.
3. Awunakukonwaba ngoluvo lwabanye ngobuhlobo bakho
Ngaba abantu bajonge kuni nobabini kwaye bayazibuza ukuba yintombi yakho na? Ngaba bacinga ukuba ukunye naye kuphela kuba ekwinto yobutsha kwaye ujonge ngokumangalisayo? Ngaba woyika ukuba bacinga ukuba ungutata wakhe weswekile, ukuba unawe kuphela kwimali yakho?
4. Abafana abancinci basongela
Ngelixa usazi ukuba umfazi wakho uyakuthanda, uhlala unelizwi elincinci entlokweni yakho likuxelela ukuba ngenye imini uyokukhohlisa nomntu okwimo engcono, onamandla angakumbi, iinwele zakhe ezingadibani nezimathandathu Iphakethe ye-abs inokubonwa kwisikipa sakhe esiqinileyo. Ngethuba lokuqala ebomini bakho, awuqinisekanga malunga nokukwazi ukugcina umfazi wakho onwabile. Uzibona uziva unomona, kwaye oku kuchaphazela ulwalamano lwakho.
5. Ukuba nomfazi omncinci kukwenza uzive umdala
Ufuna umfazi omncinci ukuze uzive umncinci. Kodwa eneneni, ikwenza uzive umdala. Umdala nyani. Ukuqala kwakho ukuthandana, amandla akhe aphezulu kunye nendalo yakhe yokuthambisa yahlikihla kuwe, kwaye kwakulula ukuqhubeka naye xa ukhwela i-adrenaline rush. Ukwenze waziva umncinci kwakhona, kwaye uyayithanda loo mvakalelo. Kodwa ngoku sele kudlule ixesha kwaye iimpawu ezingenakuthintelwa zokwaluphala azinakuhoywa. Uphume nabahlobo bakhe kwaye uyaqonda ukuba nguwe wedwa kwiqela okhumbula ukuba wawuphi xa kwakudutyulwa uJFK, kuba abahlobo bakhe babengazalwanga ngelo xesha. Okwangoku, iseti yabahlobo bakho bacwangcisa ukuthatha umhlala-phantsi, bekhalaza ngokuhlawulela iifizi zabantwana beekholeji zabo, kwaye becinga ngokufumana ukufakelwa kweenwele. Kuyenzeka kuwe ukuba ukutshata umfazi omncinci akwenzi mlingo ukuba ixesha libuyele umva. Ukuba kunye nomfazi osemncinci kuye kwenza ukuba uqaphele ukuba awukho, enyanisweni, ongafiyo.
Ngokubanzi, nokuba umahluko wobudala, bonke ubudlelwane buyafana. Ukuba ubudlelwane bakho busekelwe kuthando, ukuthembana kunye nonxibelelwano oluhle, wena kunye nenkosikazi yakho encinci niza kufana nezinye izibini ezonwabileyo. Yonwabelani; yeyona nto ibalulekileyo leyo.