Umxholo
- 1. Khumbula izinto ezincinci
- 2. Ukuncoma akupheli
- 3. Thatha ixesha lokuphumla ngobusuku bomhla
- 4. Sukuvumela ukuba umlo uqhekeze amadama aneemvakalelo
- 5. Khumbula ukuba isenzo sokulinganisa
Uyakhumbula ukuba uzibone njani iimpawu zokuqala, zokulumkisa xa babesesikolweni esiphakathi? Ngequbuliso, umntwana wakho waqala ukukuhlwaya kancinci. Ukuqwalaselwa kwabo kuwe kuphele xa babephakathi kwento abacinga ukuba ibaluleke kakhulu.
Kwaqala.
Uhambo oluya kwishumi elivisayo laliqalisile.
Xa ukufikisa kubetha, oko kwakukade kuyinyanda yekerubhi yovuyo kujika kube zihormoni, iziqhu ezingaqondakaliyo zokungaqiniseki. Ngeenjongo ezintle endaweni, wena kunye neqabane lakho nijongise onke amandla enu ekukhuliseni abantwana benu.
Ukuba ngumzali kuya kuqhubeka nokuba ngamava alingayo. Uyifumene kwangoko kwangoko.
Kodwa, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ujolise kuyo yonke ingqalelo yakho kubo kwaye ushiye iqabane lakho lilele ecaleni. Ngapha koko, ukwenza oko kunciphisa oko kufunwa ngaba bantwana: ababini abanothando, abazali abanomdla abanokubanika uthando, uthando kunye nolwalathiso olululo.
Nazi iingcebiso ezi-5 zokomeleza umanyano lwakho neqabane lakho ngelixa nisilwa nemiceli mngeni yokuba ngumzali kulutsha.
1. Khumbula izinto ezincinci
Ngaba uyalikhumbula iqabane lakho lithetha ngokungathandekiyo ukuthanda kwabo into encinci kodwa ebalulekileyo kubo? Mhlawumbi yayilekese okanye izimuncumuncu. Qiniseka ukuba uyabasusa abo bemini enee mvula. Unokuba uqhuba umyalezo kwaye ubone ithuba lokunganiki iqabane lakho isipho abaza kulithanda, kodwa uya kubonisa ukuba ubumamele ngokunjalo.
2. Ukuncoma akupheli
Kuthatha yonke imizuzwana embalwa ukwenza umntu azive onwabile. Emva komsebenzi onzima wosuku onengxaki yokutshintsha kweemvakalelo zomntwana wakho, kulula ukuba uzifumane usendaweni yokulahla. Inikiwe into yokuba iqabane lakho lijamelene nemizabalazo efanayo.
Umzuzu olula wokubulela ngokwenza ubomi nokuba kude kube lula kuwe unokuhamba indlela ende ekuqiniseni iqhina lakho lomtshato.
Ukuncoma yenye indlela yokuphinda-phinda ukuba awuphumeleli ukuqaphela ukuzama kweqabane lakho kwizinwele ezintsha okanye ulongezo lwamva nje kwimpahla yabo.
3. Thatha ixesha lokuphumla ngobusuku bomhla
Uthando luyaguquka kwaye luhlala lulwelo. Oko kwathethi, kuhlala kukho ixesha lobusuku bomhla nokuba umdala kangakanani. Ulutsha lwakho lunokuzinakekela ingokuhlwa ngelixa wena neqabane lakho nizenzela okuthile. Kungaba lula njengesidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nomdlalo bhanyabhanya, ukuthatha iklasi yokupheka obusoloko ufuna ukuba kunye, okanye ukunxiba kunye nokuba nobusuku edolophini.
4. Sukuvumela ukuba umlo uqhekeze amadama aneemvakalelo
Ukukhumbula ukuba ulungile kungathatha umzamo, kodwa ukungalichithi iqabane lakho phantsi xa kuhamba ubunzima akukho nzima kangako ukuziqhelanisa. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uyaphapha kwijugular yeemvakalelo zomlingane wakho, thatha ithuba lokuhamba ushiye umva ubushushu kunye nokuhamba kwexesha ekuvunyelwene ngalo.
5. Khumbula ukuba isenzo sokulinganisa
Gcina ukhumbula ukuba nawuphi na umtshato uliqabane lokwenyani. Ngenxa yoku, nobabini nizokwazi ukubonelela ngomzamo odibeneyo weepesenti ezili-100. Ngeentsuku ezithile omnye wenu uya kuba nakho ukuya kwiipesenti ezingama-70 ngelixa elinye linokulawula i-30 kuphela.
Ngezinye iintsuku, iya kuba yinto efanelekileyo yokuhlukana kwama-50-50. Kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba unxibelelwano lubalulekile. Kulungele ukuthatha izinto usuku olunye ngexesha.
Ukuba unako ukuhamba ngeli xesha iqabane lakho lichithwe ngamanye amaxesha, thatha elo thuba ukwenza njalo. Inceba iya kubuyiselwa ezantsi emgceni.
Yise kude
Ngenxa yokuba abantwana bakho abakwishumi elivisayo benemvakalelo kunye noxinzelelo lwentlalo abangazange babe nalo ngaphambili, oko akuthethi ukuba umtshato wakho kufuneka ubandezeleke ngenxa yoko. Ukugcina unxibelelwano olusempilweni yonke imihla kunye nokuba nomonde kwiqabane lakho sisitshixo kubambiswano olomeleleyo neqabane lakho. Ngokudibeneyo niyokwazi ukujongana nemiceli mngeni yobuzali ngaphandle kokunikezela kuxinzelelo.