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- Abalingane bethu baziva bengathandwa kwaye benganxibelelananga
- Abantwana bethu baziva bengathandwa kwaye benganxibelelananga
- Intsapho yethu iziva ingathandwa kwaye ingadibani
- Xa umtshato ungagqitywanga
- Xa umfazi eziva engathandwa kwaye enqanyulwe
Ngaphandle kobudlelwane obusondeleyo, umtshato uba lusizi, isini sizicingela, kwaye ibhedi iyangcoliswa. Imitshato emininzi kakhulu ichithakele kubudlelwane ngaphandle kothando kunye nothando. Basadlala indima, benza uxanduva lwabo, baqhubeke nokuzibophelela kwabo; kodwa njengoko besitshilo ngaphambili, uThixo ufuna ngaphezulu, kwaye ubudlelwane bethu bufanelwe ngaphezulu.
IsiTyhilelo 2: 2–4 (KJV) Ndiyayazi imisebenzi yakho, nokubulaleka kwakho, nomonde wakho, kwanokuba awukwazi ukubathwala abo bangendawo; ubunyamezele, ngenxa yegama lam ngenxa yoko, ungadinwa. Noko ke ndinale nto ngakuwe, yokuba uthando lwakho lokuqala walushiyayo.
Ukushiya uthando lwethu lokuqala kuthetha ukuba asisenalo uthando lokwenene okanye olona thando kubudlelwane bethu. Sinyanzelisa uthando, kodwa siswele iimvakalelo zothando. Ubudlelwane bethu kunye nemitshato, kwiimeko ezininzi, baphulukene nobuhlobo babo.
Ukuphulukana ngokubanzi kobudlelwane kunye nothando kube nefuthe elibi kuluntu lwethu.
Abalingane bethu baziva bengathandwa kwaye benganxibelelananga
- IGenesis 29:31 (Ke kaloku uYehova wabona ukuba uLeya uthiyiwe, wasivula isizalo sakhe; ke uRakeli ebengazali.
- ULeya utshatile kodwa akaluva uthando okanye unxibelelwano kumyeni wakhe
Abantwana bethu baziva bengathandwa kwaye benganxibelelananga
- KwabaseKolose 3:21 (KJV) boyise, musani ukubacaphukisa abantwana benu, hleze badimazeke.
- Kwabase-Efese 6: 4 (KJV) Nani boyise, musani ukubacaphukisa abantwana benu; bondleleni ekuqeqesheni nasekululekeni kweNkosi.
- Xa ootata besilela ukubonelela ngokusondeleyo kubantwana babo bayacaphuka kwaye benze loo msindo ngokuziphatha gwenxa.
Intsapho yethu iziva ingathandwa kwaye ingadibani
- EyokuQala kwabaseKorinte 3: 3 (KJV) Kuba nisengabenyama; oku nje kukhoyo phakathi kwenu umona, neenkani, neembambaniso, aningabenyama na? Anihambi ngokwabantu na?
- KwabaseRoma 16: 17 (KJV) Ke kaloku ndiyaniyala, bazalwana, balumkeleni abo benza iimbambaniso nezikhubekiso, ezinxamnye nemfundiso enayifundayo nina. uze ubaphephe.
- Sihlangana kunye emisebenzini yethu, ezicaweni nakwezinye iindawo, kodwa asiziva sithandwa okanye sidibene.
Kwaye ke, siluluntu lwabahlolokazi abatshatileyo neenkedama ezinabazali. Sitshatile, kodwa siphila ngokungathi asikho. Sinabazali bendalo nabasemoyeni kodwa sikhona ngokungathi asinabo. Sibona into enjalo kwisibhalo kwincwadi yesi-2 kaSamuweli.
EyesiBini kaSamuweli 20: 3 (KJV) Weza uDavide endlwini yakhe eYerusalem; Ukumkani wabathabatha abafazi bakhe abalishumi, namashweshwe; Bavalelwa ke kwada kwangumhla wokufa kwabo, behlala bengabahlolokazi.
Xa umtshato ungagqitywanga
UDavide wabathatha aba bafazi njengamashweshwe okanye abafazi bakhe, wabaphatha njengabafazi, wabalungiselela ukuba babe ngabafazi, kodwa akazange abanike ulwalamano. Kwaye ke bahlala ngokungathi balahlekelwe ngumyeni wabo nangona wayesaphila. Makhe sijonge esi sicatshulwa kwakhona kwiNew Living Translation.
EyesiBini kaSamuweli 20: 3 (NLT) Uthe akufika uDavide kwibhotwe lakhe eJerusalem, wathabatha amashweshwe alishumi awayewashiyile ukuba agade ibhotwe, wababeka bucala. Babenako ukubanika izinto abazidingayo, kodwa akaba salala. Bahlala njengabahlolokazi bonke wada wafa.
Ababhali abangamaJuda bathi ookumkanikazi abangabahlolokazi bookumkani bamaHebhere babengavumelekanga ukuba baphinde batshate kodwa babenyanzelekile ukuba badlulise bonke ubomi babo behleli bodwa. Wawaphatha ngaloo ndlela ke amashweshwe akhe uDavide, enomsindo omkhulu owenziwe nguAbhisalom kubo. Abazange baqhawule umtshato, kuba babengenatyala, kodwa babengasaziwa esidlangalaleni njengabafazi bakhe.
Aba bafazi bahlala betshatile, kodwa ngaphandle kobuhlobo obuvela kumyeni wabo. Babezitshatile iifestile.
KwiSahluko sama-29, sibona omnye umhlolokazi otshatileyo. Kule meko, nangona wayesabelana ngesondo (kuba wayehlala emitha), wayengumhlolokazi otshatileyo kuba wayengathandwa kwaye engadibananga nomyeni wakhe. Makhe sijonge ibali likaYakobi noLeya.
Xa umfazi eziva engathandwa kwaye enqanyulwe
IGenesis 29: 31-35 (NLT) 31 Akubona * uNdikhoyo ukuba uLeya akathandwa, wamzalela abantwana, kodwa uRakeli akamithi. 32 Wamitha ke uLeya wazala unyana. Wamthiya igama elinguRubhen, ngokuba ebesithi, UYehova uzibonile iintsizi zam; ngoku indoda yam iya kundithanda. 33 Wakhawuleza wamitha kwakhona wazala omnye unyana. Wathi: "Uvile uNdikhoyo ukuba undithandile wandinika omnye unyana." 34 Wabuya wamitha okwesithathu, wazala omnye unyana. Wathi igama lakhe nguLevi. Inene, okwangoku indoda yam iya kundithanda, kuba ndiyizalele oonyana abathathu.
Waphinda wakhulelwa uLeya, wazala omnye unyana. Wamthiya igama elinguYuda, ngokuba ebesithi, Ngoku ndiya kumdumisa uYehova. Kwaye wayeka ukuba nabantwana.
Ngoku nangona eli libali elinamandla loko kufuneka sikwenze nesingafanele kukwenza xa singathandwa, ayisiyisi into yokuba ukutshata nokungathandwa yindawo ebuhlungu kakhulu ukuba ube kuyo.
ULeya wayetshatile kwaye engathandwa ngumyeni wakhe (i-KJV yebhayibhile ithi wayezondwa). Nangona wayengenanto yakwenza nengxaki awayezifumana ekuyo, kodwa kwafuneka aphile nayo. UJacob wayethandana nodadewabo uRachael kwaye wakhohliselwa ekubeni amtshate. Ngenxa yoko, wamthiya.
Ngoku uThixo uvula isibeleko sakhe kwaye uyamvumela ukuba abenabantwana abane. Oku kusibonisa ukuba nakwiminyaka engamawaka amane eyadlulayo, abantu abatshatileyo babesabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kobuhlobo. Wayeyifestile etshatileyo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ebesabelana ngesondo, kodwa ebengafumani kufutshane.
U-Leah akazange amthande umyeni wakhe, kwaye obu bubungqina bokusondela kuThixo njengoko wenzayo, efunda ukuba uyamthanda ngalo lonke ixesha. Oko kuthethiweyo, asifuni ukuba iqabane lethu liphile ubomi bonke emtshatweni, kodwa sive ngathi ngumhlolokazi. Utshatile, mhlawumbi nokuba ubelana ngesondo, kodwa uzive ungadibananga kwaye ungathandwa.