Umxholo
- Amanqanaba amahlanu onxibelelwano
- Isibini asifane sisebenzise amanqanaba amane anesihlanu
- Iimpawu ezichazayo zenqanaba lesithathu
- Umgangatho wonxibelelwano lwegolide-Inqanaba lesine
- Inqanaba lesihlanu-Indlela eyonelisayo yokunxibelelana
Sonke siyayiqonda indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukunxibelelana emtshatweni, kodwa ingaba uyawazi amanqanaba ohlukeneyo ezimbo zonxibelelwano emtshatweni?
Ixesha elidlulele, izibini ezitshatileyo zikhulisa indlela yazo ekhethekileyo yokunxibelelana. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abatshatileyo banokunxibelelana ngenkangeleko nje — uyayazi wena loo nto — kwaye umyalezo ucaca gca.
Kodwa uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo bazobe kumanqanaba amahlanu onxibelelwano emtshatweni xa bethetha bodwa.
Kuxhomekeke kumxholo ekuxoxwe ngawo, izibini zinokusebenzisa inqanaba elinye, ezimbini, okanye zonke ezihlanu, zixubeke ngokwendlela isibini esifuna ukuveza ngayo.
Umahluko kunye nokuhamba rhoqo la manqanaba onxibelelwano aphunyezwa kwincoko kuchaphazela ukusonjululwa okanye ukukhula kwemiba yonxibelelwano emtshatweni.
Jonga kwakhona:
Amanqanaba amahlanu onxibelelwano
- Ukuthetha amabinzana aqhelekileyo asetyenziswa: Amabinzana angathethi kangako, kodwa asebenzela ukugcoba amavili entetho. Umzekelo woku iya kuba kukutshintshiselana okufana nokuthi "Unjani?" okanye "Ube nosuku oluhle!" La mabinzana sonke siwasebenzisa yonke imihla, intlalontle ekungekho mntu ucinga nzulu ngayo, kodwa thina njengoluntu siyayixabisa.
- Ukunxibelelana nezicelo ezisekwe kwinyani: Eli lelinye lawona manqanaba axhaphakileyo kunxibelelwano emtshatweni phakathi kwabantu abatshatileyo njengokuba beqala usuku lwabo: “Ungaphinda uluthathe ubisi xa usendleleni egodukayo ngokuhlwanje?” “Imoto ifuna ukulungiswa. Ungafowunela igaraji uyilungise? ” Eli nqanaba lonxibelelwano lenzelwe ukuba likhawuleze kwaye libe lula. Akukho ngcinga ininzi inikiweyo yokufaka nayiphi na imvakalelo okanye imvakalelo kwisicelo. Kuyanceda kwaye ngqo kwaye uyawenza umsebenzi.
- Ukuchaza izimvo okanye izimvo, nokuba yinyani okanye kusekwe kwiimvakalelo: Umzekelo woku ungathi, “Ndicinga ukuba iyakuba yimpazamo ukukhupha uKatie kwisikolo sabucala. Uqhuba ngcono kakhulu esikolweni ngoku kunokuba wayefunda kwisikolo sikarhulumente. ” Xa uvula incoko kunye neqabane lakho ngombono, ungawugcina ngenkxaso (kule meko, ingxelo yamakhadi) okanye iimvakalelo (kwakhona, kule meko, ungakhomba kulonwabo lomntwana wakho ngokubonakala kuye isikolo esitsha). Eli nqanaba lonxibelelwano lenzelwe ukuvula ingxoxo engakumbi.
- Ukwabelana ngeemvakalelo ezisekwe kwiimvakalelo: Apha, sisondela kwinqanaba lokunxibelelana ngaphakathi kwesi sibini, njengoko eli nqanaba lithetha ukuba bafikelele kubunzulu bokunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo, okubavumela ukuba bavuleke kwaye babe sengozini omnye komnye.
- Ukuvakalisa nokumamela iimfuno zomnye nomnye: Njengakwinqanaba lesine, izibini ezisebenzisa eli nqanaba lonxibelelwano emtshatweni wazo zinobuhlobo bokwenene bokuthembana phakathi kwazo, ezibavumela ukuba bamamelane kwiimfuno zomnye nomnye ngokukuko, kwaye bavume ukuba bazivile kwaye baziqondile. Eli linqanaba elanelisa kakhulu ekunxibelelaneni ngalo.
Sinokucinga ngezi ndidi zintlanu njengeleli yokufikelela kwinqanaba elonwabisayo, izibini ezonwabileyo ngokweemvakalelo.
Isibini asifane sisebenzise amanqanaba amane anesihlanu
Isibini esineendlela zokunxibelelana ezihleli kumanqanaba okuqala kunye amabini, umzekelo, iya kuba sisibini esinokuthi sixhamle ixesha elichithwe yokufunda indlela enzulu yokunxibelelana.
Hayi indlela ekungonelisi ngayo ukuba unciphise incoko kunye neqabane lakho ukuze ubambe amabinzana kunye nemiyalelo.
Ukanti zikhona izibini eziwela kumgibe wokusebenzisa inqanaba lokuqala nakwelesibini ngexesha lokuxakeka, yitsho iveki ephambeneyo emsebenzini, okanye indlu egcwele inkampani ngeeholide.
Amaqabane aba njengeenqanawa ezidlulayo ebusuku, kunye nokutshintshiselana ngomlomo phakathi kwabo.
Kula maxesha oxakekileyo, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba nangona unexesha elincinci lokuhlala phantsi nincokole kamnandi, ujonge kwiqabane lakho, nokuba yimizuzu emi-5 ukuya kweli-10, ukubona ukuba babambe njani kungahamba ixesha elide indlela yokungena ukubonisa uthando lwakho kunye noxabiso kwiqabane lakho.
Iimpawu ezichazayo zenqanaba lesithathu
Ihlala isetyenziselwa ukuvusa ingxoxo elungileyo kwaye inokuba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuvula incoko eya kuthi iqhubele phambili iye kumanqanaba anzulu apho kwabelwana khona ngeemvakalelo, kwaye wena neqabane lakho nimamelane ngenyameko nenkathalo.
Uya kufuna ulumke ungahlali kwinqanaba lesithathu, njengoko inokuthi ifane nokufundisa iqabane lakho kwaye ingabi yingxoxo elungileyo yokubuyela umva.
Khumbula, xa uvakalisa uluvo, kuhlala kungumbono olungileyo ukufaka ezimbalwa "Ucinga ntoni?" Kwaye "Ngaba oko kuvakala kusengqiqweni?" ukuze unikezele incoko kwiqabane lakho.
Umgangatho wonxibelelwano lwegolide-Inqanaba lesine
Yinto abantu abatshatileyo abafuna ukuyizama. Ukufikelela kweli nqanaba kuthetha ukuba wakhe ubudlelwane obunqabisekileyo, obukhuselekileyo nobomeleleyo, obuhlonipha iimfuno zomnye nomnye kunye nokunyaniseka.
Ngelixa kungekho sibini sinokunxibelelana ngokukodwa kwinqanaba lesihlanu, ungasiqonda isibini esifikelele kweli nqanaba ngendlela ecingayo yokumamelana, kunye nendlela abazenza ngayo izinto kwintetho yomnye nomnye, ebonisa ukuba bebemamele ngenyameko kwinto enye Ukwabelana.
Inqanaba lesihlanu-Indlela eyonelisayo yokunxibelelana
Inqanaba lesihlanu bubungqina bokusondela kunye nentuthuzelo emtshatweni. Eli linqanaba eliluncedo onokulisebenzisa xa usiva ukuba ungquzulwano luyaqala, kwaye ungathanda ukonyusa uxinzelelo olukude.
“Ndiyakuxelela ukuba ukhathazekile, kwaye ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndinganceda njani. Kwenzekantoni?" Le yindlela elungileyo yokubuyisela incoko kwinqanaba lesihlanu xa izinto zishushubeza.
Nokuba uthetha luphi ulwimi lwakho lwabucala neqabane lakho, yenza umgudu wokusebenzisa amanqanaba onxibelelwano amane anesihlanu kwimizuzu engama-30 ngosuku.
Oku kuyakunceda ukuba nobabini nive ukuba niyaxhaswa kwaye niyaqonda, ezona zinto zibalulekileyo zomtshato owonwabileyo.
Ukuqonda ukuba kutheni unxibelelwano lubalulekile emtshatweni kwaye nini ukusebenzisa amanqanaba ahlukeneyo onxibelelwano emtshatweni kungahamba indlela ende ekomelezeni umanyano phakathi kwabantu abatshatileyo kunye nokwandisa ukoneliseka emtshatweni.