Umxholo
- Imbali yomtshato weentlanga ezahlukeneyo
- Umtshato wobuzwe eMelika
- Iingxaki zomtshato wobuhlanga
- 1. Iinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo
- 2. Akukho kwamkelwa eluntwini
- 3. Unxibelelwano
- 4. Ukulalanisa
- 5. Ukwamkelwa lusapho
Uthando alunamda. Xa uthandana, uhlanga lomntu, inkolo kunye nelizwe alinandaba.
Kulula kakhulu ukuzithetha ezi zinto namhlanje kuba umtshato wobuhlanga uqhelekile. Nangona kunjalo, kumashumi eminyaka emva, oku kwakuthathwa njengehlazo. Ukutshata umntu wohlanga olwahlukileyo yayingumbandela weentloni, kwaye kwajongwa njengesono.
Ithini iBhayibhile ngomtshato weentlanga ezahlukeneyo?
Ebhayibhileni, umntu unokufumana imigca apho isithi ukuba bobabini bangamakholwa, ukutshata ngokobuhlanga akulolwaphulo-mthetho.
Olu luvo lude lude ekubeni luthathwe njengelinobungozi ukuya ekubeni liqheleke ngeli xesha langoku.
Makhe sijonge imbali yayo kwaye ithini imeko eseMelika.
Imbali yomtshato weentlanga ezahlukeneyo
Namhlanje, amanani abantu abatshatileyo abatshatileyo athi malunga neepesenti ezili-17 zabantu abatshatileyo bayathandana.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba wawusemthethweni nini umtshato weentlanga ezahlukeneyo?
Kwakungunyaka we-1967. YayinguRichard noMildred Loving ababelwela ukulingana kwaye bakwenza ukuba kube semthethweni. Ukusukela ngoko, kuye kwakho ukonyuka kwimanyano yomtshato kubuhlanga.
Umthetho wawuxhasa izibini, kodwa ukwamkelwa koluntu kwakufuneka. Kukholelwa ukuba ukuvunywa kwaku malunga neepesenti ezi-5 ngee-1950s, ezanyuka zaya kuma-80% ngo-2000.
Imitshato enqamleze inkcubeko yayiyekisiwe okanye ayamkelwa eluntwini ngenxa yokungafani kweenkolelo.
Kuyaqondakala ukuba xa abantu ababini beentlanga ezahlukeneyo kunye neenkolelo behlangana, kukho ukudibana kwabahlali ababini.
Ngale indibaniselwano, kuyakubakho ukungqubana kunye neeyantlukwano eziza kuvela, kwaye ukuba aziphendulwa ngobulumko, oko kungakhokelela ekuphelisweni komtshato.
Ngaphambi kokungena kwiingxaki zemitshato yenkcubeko eyahlukeneyo, makhe sijonge umthetho wase-US nokwamkelwa.
Umtshato wobuzwe eMelika
Njengoko bekutshiwo ngentla, imithetho yomtshato yeentlanga ezahlukeneyo yaqala ukubakho ngonyaka we-1967.
Ngaphambi koku, bekukho umthetho ochasene nokuziphatha gwenxa owawuthintela abantu ukuba bangatshati umntu wohlanga olwahlukileyo. Nangona kunjalo, zazimbalwa izibini ezazinesibindi ngokwaneleyo sokutshata nomntu emthandayo nokuba ungowaluphi na uhlanga kunye nenkolo yabo.
Ngaphandle kokutshatiswa ngokusemthethweni komtshato wobuhlanga, umthetho ochasene nokuziphatha gwenxa warhoxiswa, kwaye kusekho ibala elithile kwezentlalo elinxulumene nemitshato yabantu abamnyama abanenkcubeko. Nangona kunjalo, ubukhulu buncinci ngoku.
Kukho iintlobo ezintandathu ngokubanzi zemitshato enenkcubeko eyahlukeneyo: ama-Asiya anabaMhlophe, abaMnyama abaMhlophe, aboMthonyama baseMelika nabaseAsia, amaAsia abaNtsundu, amaMerika Omthonyama abaMhlophe, namaMerika Omthonyama abaNtsundu.
Iingxaki zomtshato wobuhlanga
Imitshato yoqhawulo mtshato phakathi kwabantu bezinye iintlanga iphakamile kancinci xa kuthelekiswa nenqanaba loqhawulo mtshato.
Yi-41% ngelixa inqanaba elifanayo loqhawulo mtshato luyi-31%.
Nangona imithetho yemitshato phakathi kwabantu isendaweni, kukho iyantlukwano ngokwenkcubeko ekhokelela ekwahlukaneni.
Makhe sijonge ezimbalwa kuzo.
1. Iinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo
Kumtshato wenkcubeko eyahlukeneyo, bobabini umntu ukhulele kwindawo eyahlukileyo kwaye baneenkolelo ezahlukeneyo.
Okwangoku, omnye unokungahoyi omnye nomnye, kodwa kungekudala xa beqala ukuhlala kunye, kukho izinto ezilindelweyo ngokwenkcubeko. Ngamnye wabo uya kufuna ukuba abanye bahloniphe kwaye balandele imigaqo ethile. Oku, ukuba akusombululeki ngexesha, kunokukhokelela kwimpikiswano nakuqhawulo mtshato kamva.
2. Akukho kwamkelwa eluntwini
Uluntu luqhele ukubona abantu bohlanga olunye bekunye. Nangona kunjalo, izinto zahlukile kwimeko yemitshato enenkcubeko eyahlukeneyo.
Nobabini ningohlanga olwahlukileyo, kwaye luyabonakala xa niphuma nobabini.
Abantu abakungqongileyo, nokuba yintsapho yakho eyandisiweyo, abahlobo, okanye noluntu ngokubanzi, bayakufumanisa kunzima ukubona ngobuhlobo. Kubo, owakho ngumdlalo ongaqhelekanga, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unokukubetha kakhulu ebusweni. Yiyo loo nto nobabini kufuneka nihlale nomelele ngalo maxesha.
3. Unxibelelwano
Xa abantu beentlanga ezimbini ezahlukeneyo behlangana, bobabini bajongana nengxaki yolwimi.
Ayilulo ulwimi oluza njengomqobo, kodwa intetho kunye nezimbo zomzimba ngokunjalo.
Kukho amagama athile kunye nezimbo zomzimba eziya kuba nokutolika okwahlukileyo kwiilwimi ezahlukeneyo okanye imimandla.
4. Ukulalanisa
Ukuyekelela yinxalenye yomtshato; Nangona kunjalo, oku kuyaphindeka kwimitshato yenkcubeko eyahlukeneyo.
Kwimitshato enjalo, bobabini abantu kufuneka bahlengahlengise kwaye balalanise ukuze bangene kusapho kunye nolindelo abanalo kulowo nalowo kubo.
Izinto ezincinci, njengokutya kunye nemikhwa, zinokudala inkathazo engenakucingwa phakathi kwazo zombini.
5. Ukwamkelwa lusapho
Kwimitshato enjalo, ukuvunywa kwamalungu osapho kubalulekile.
Xa iindaba zokutshata umntu ngaphandle komdyarho zivela, zombini ezi ntsapho zisabela ngokungxolayo.
Kufuneka baqinisekise ukuba isigqibo silungile kwaye baqale ukuphelisa zonke iimeko ezinokuthi zonakalise umtshato kwixa elizayo.
Kubalulekile ukuba abantu baphumelele ukuzithemba kosapho kwaye bafumane ukuvunywa kwabo ngaphambi kokuba batshate. Isizathu sokuba babeya kuba ngabokuqala onokufikelela kubo xa kunokwenzeka nayiphi na ingxaki kwixa elizayo, oya kukukhokela kwaye eme ecaleni kwakho.
Le mitshato iqhelekile kwezi ntsuku, ukanti umceli mngeni wokwamkela nokulungelelanisa uhlala unjalo. Bobabini abantu kufuneka bahloniphe iinkolelo kunye neenkcubeko zomnye nomnye kwaye kufuneka baqinisekise ukuba umtshato wabo uyaphumelela.