Umxholo
- Izizathu zokuba kutheni umhla wobusuku ubalulekile
- 1. Ukwakha unxibelelwano lwakho
- 2. Vuselela uthando olulahlekileyo
- 3. Khululeka kwaye wonwabele imvakalelo yobunye
- 4. Misela umzekelo
- Izimvo zomhla wobusuku onomdla
Ukubaluleka komhla wobusuku ngamanye amaxesha emtshatweni akunakujongwa. Uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo khange bathandane ixesha elide. Balibele nje ukuthandana, ukudlala ngothando komnye nomnye, kwaye bakhulisa umanyano olubahlanganisa kwasekuqaleni.
Bavame ukulibala ukubaluleka "kobusuku bomhla" emtshatweni kwaye abanalo ixesha lokuchitha kunye nabanye.
Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo ezithintela ubusuku bomhla kodwa ezo zizathu akufuneki zibaluleke ngakumbi kunobuhlobo ngokwabo. Nangona unganalo ixesha ngeveki ukwenza ukubhukisha kwindawo yokutyela entle okanye ubone ikonsathi, ubusuku bomhla akufuneki bube sebusuku, abanayo imihla "yesiqhelo" kwaphela.
Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba yintoni injongo yobusuku bomhla? Ngokucacileyo, ukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kwinkampani yomnye nomnye kwaye ngenxa yoko kuya kufuneka uqonde ukubaluleka kobusuku bomhla kube kanye emtshatweni wakho.
Izizathu zokuba kutheni umhla wobusuku ubalulekile
Kutheni ubusuku bomhla bubalulekile emtshatweni? Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuqaqambisa ukubaluleka komhla wobusuku kubudlelwane nokuba izibini zitshatile ixesha elide.
1. Ukwakha unxibelelwano lwakho
Ubusuku bomhla neqabane lakho likuvumela ukuba nibe nonxibelelwano olungaphazamiseki phakathi kwenu nobabini.
Ukutshata emva komtshato, abantu abatshatileyo bayaphazanyiswa luxanduva olwahlukileyo olushiya phantse naliphi na ixesha lokuba bahlale phantsi babenencoko efanelekileyo. Kodwa, ubusuku bemini buzisa izibini kunye apho zinokushiya khona amaxhala kwaye ziyonwabele ukuhlala kunye.
2. Vuselela uthando olulahlekileyo
Ngaba ukuthandana nokuthandana kubalulekile kubudlelwane? Impendulo ithi, 'Ewe, kunjalo!'
Obo busuku bobusuku kunye neqabane lakho busisikhumbuzo rhoqo sothando lwenu olulahlekileyo kunye nezizathu zokuba nobabini nithandane kwasekuqaleni.
Kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ubomi bebunjani ngaphambi komtshato kunye nabantwana. Kwaye, ngomtshato kuza uxanduva olongezelelekileyo kunye noxinzelelo olukhulu oluqokelelana yonke imihla wakuba ungabazali.
Ngoku, uxinzelelo luzisa okona kubi kuye wonke umntu. Rhoqo, uxinzelelo olunjalo luchaphazela uxolo kunye nemvisiswano enakha nabelana. Ke, ubusuku bokuthandana bukunika ithuba lokulibala uxinzelelo kwaye uzame ukugxila kwizinto ezintle ngomtshato wakho endaweni yezingalunganga.
Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukubaluleka kobusuku bomhla ngaphambi kokuba uxinzelelo lonakalise lonke ithuba lakho lokonwaba, noxolo lomtshato.
3. Khululeka kwaye wonwabele imvakalelo yobunye
Nangona ubathanda abantwana bakho kwaye wonwabele ixesha losapho kunye, kukho amaxesha apho uziva ufuna ukuhlala phantsi uthathe ikhefu elipheleleyo kuyo yonke into.
Kuhlala kumnandi ukuthatha inyathelo emva koxanduva lwakho, imisebenzi yasekhaya, kunye nalo lonke uxinzelelo oluza nokuba ngumzali, ukonwaba kunye neqabane lakho.
Yonke into oyifunayo yifilimu enkulu, ezinye iipopcorn kunye neqabane lakho ecaleni kwakho kunye nesicwangciso sakho sosuku lomhla wothando senziwe.
4. Misela umzekelo
Abantwana bafunda kubazali babo kwaye babalingise xa bekhulile.
Rhoqo ukucwangcisa ubusuku bemini kunye neqabane lakho liseta umzekelo obalaseleyo wabantwana bakho. Izenzo zakho ziya kubafundisa ukuba ubudlelwane kubalulekile. Oku kuya kubanceda kwikamva. Baya kufunda kuwe kwaye baya kubeka phambili ubudlelwane babo namaqabane abo ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Ke, yiba nobusuku bomhla!
Izimvo zomhla wobusuku onomdla
Kuba sele icacile ukuba kutheni ukuthandana kubalulekile kubudlelwane, lixesha lokuba uqonde ezinye zemibono yasebusuku enomdla kuwe nakwiqabane lakho.
Ngalo lonke ixesha khumbula! Ukucinga ngaphandle kwebhokisi kunokugcina uthando luqhubeka xa abantwana, amakhondo emisebenzi kunye nolunye uxanduva zingena endleleni.
Ingcezu yeengcebiso kwezi zibini yeyokuqala ukuqonda ukubaluleka kobusuku bomhla kwaye emva koko uzame ukubeka iingcebiso zabo kwisitya. Banokuba nomzobo weveki, okanye umzobo wenyanga kwaye benze ukuba ubusuku benzeke. Yenze iphambili.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso kwisitya -
- Umhla kusasa. Yiya kwiipanekuku kwindawo yokutyela ongazange waya kuyo.
- Shayela iyure enye ngaphandle kwedolophu kwaye uyeke kwindawo yokutyela yokuqala kwiidessert kwaye ubuze umlungiseleli ukuba yintoni enye ekufuneka yenziwe edolophini.
- Cwangcisa ipikniki kwaye undwendwele ipaki yaseburhulumenteni ekufuphi ngeveki.
- Zimase umboniso comedy. Ngobomi obuxakekileyo siyalibala ukuhleka.
- Ukutyelela kwiimarike zamafama kunye neresiphi engqondweni yokwenza isidlo sangokuhlwa.
- Gcina igumbi kwindawo yokulala kunye nesidlo sakusasa kwaye wenze ngathi useholideyini.
- Bhalisela iklasi yokupheka kunye.
- Dlala umdlalo webhodi yesibini esitsha; Ilahlekile kufuneka ibe kwabanye beck kwaye ibize ubusuku.
- Ishedyuli yokuthanjiswa kwesibini kwi-spa yendawo.
- Ndwendwela i-winery yendawo kunye neengcinga zengqondo ukuze ugcwalise isitya somhla wobusuku kwakhona!
Ukuthandana Ngovuyo!