Umxholo
- Thetha, umamele kwaye uvume
- Ithatha ilali
- Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba athethe nabahlobo bakhe
- Ukuya phambili
Xa wena neqabane lakho nigqibe kwelokuba nihlukane, ngokucacileyo lixesha leemvakalelo eziphakamileyo kunye neemvakalelo ezinzima kumntu wonke obandakanyekayo.
Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi kubo nabaphi na abantwana abavela kwintsebenziswano okanye emtshatweni, abaya kuthi badinga ukuncediswa ngokwenkqubo ngokwasemoyeni nangokwasemzimbeni.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukukhangela uncedo ekwahlukaneni kwabazali kwaye uncede umntwana wakho akwazi ukujamelana nalo, ungakhangeli phambili.
Abantwana abakwishumi elivisayo ikakhulu bakwixesha lobomi apho befumana isixa esikhulu seenguqu esele bekwenzile kwaye kufuneka bajongane neemvakalelo zabantu abadala kunye nemicimbi.
Abakwishumi elivisayo bahamba ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo xa bejongana nemicimbi enzima.
Kunokuba yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba imeko yabo ijike ngokungalawulekiyo ukusuka kolunye usuku ukuya kolandelayo, okanye nakumaxesha amaninzi kwisithuba seeyure ezingama-24.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso malunga nokuthetha nabantwana malunga nokwahlukana
Thetha, umamele kwaye uvume
Ukuthetha kuhlala kuyeyona ndlela ilungileyo yonyango kunye nokufaka iimvakalelo ebhotileni kunokukhokelela ekukhuleni kokukhathazeka kunye nokuziphatha okuyonakalisayo kamva.
Ukuthetha nomntwana wakho malunga nokwahlukana noqhawulo-mtshato kubandakanya imiceli mngeni emininzi.
Usenokungafuni ukuthetha malunga nento oyibona njengenqanaba elibuhlungu kakhulu ebomini bakho, kodwa abantwana bakho baya kudinga ukwazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni, bahlala phi kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kukuba nobabini nisabathanda kwaye ukwahlukana asikuko impazamo.
Ungacinga ukuba abantwana abadala sele beyiqondile le nyani, kodwa isidingo sabo sokuqinisekiswa siza kuba namandla ngeli xesha lokuhamba.
Baphulaphule kwaye ungazami ukugweba into abayithethayo, okanye ukhawuleze uzikhusele ngokukhawuleza.
Yigcine ilula, bayeke babuze imibuzo kwaye bangakwenzi izithembiso ongenakukwazi ukuzigcina. Yazi ukuba baya kuba neemvakalelo ekunzima ukujongana nazo, ezinokujoliswa ngqo kuwe, njengomsindo, uloyiko okanye usizi.
Musa ukusola iqabane lakho ngokwahlukana okanye wenze umntwana wakho azive enetyala ngokuba esabathanda.
Njengokuba abakwishumi elivisayo besiya ebudaleni, kuya kufuneka bagcine ubudlelwane babo nawo omabini amaqela ahlukeneyo kwaye kuya kuba sempilweni ngakumbi ukuba olo lwalamano luhlala luqinisekile.
Ithatha ilali
Njengokuba wonke umntu efuna inkxaso evela kwabanye abantu xa bekhulisa abantwana bakhe amaxesha ngamaxesha, ke nabanye abantu banokwenza lula inkqubo yokwahlukana kunye noqhawulo mtshato kunye nokujongana nomntwana wakho ofikisayo.
Oomakhulu nootatomkhulu, oomalume, oomalume kunye nabazala banokunika uzinzo oludingeka kakhulu kunye noluvo lokuba usapho luza kuqhubeka, nangona kunamalungiselelo okuhlala ahlukeneyo okuhlala amalungu amabini okanye nangaphezulu.
Bacele ukuba bakhuphele ngaphandle ulutsha lwakho lolo suku ukuze lubancede baphume kuxinzelelo lwasekhaya kwaye ubanike indawo yokuqhubekeka neemvakalelo zabo ngelixa besenza into eyonwabisayo.
Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba athethe nabahlobo bakhe
Uninzi luya kudlula, okanye ludlule kwimeko efanayo kwiintsapho zabo kwaye banokunika ulwazi oluxabisekileyo, inkxaso kunye nethuba lokuphuma kunye nokuzonwabisa kunye.
Thetha nesikolo okanye ikholeji nayo, njengoko baya kukuxabisa ukwazi izizathu zaluphi na utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha, imo yomoya okanye inkuthazo.
Banokukwazi ukubonelela ukufikelela kumcebisi okanye kwinkxaso yobungcali yokujongana neemvakalelo ezinzima ezibandakanyekileyo. Okanye, kwinqanaba elisebenzayo, nika abafundi abachaphazelekayo ixesha elongezelelweyo lomsebenzi, wesikolo njl.
Ukuya phambili
Abakwishumi elivisayo bathanda ukuba nobomi entsonkothileyo, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba nangona ubomi bakho bunokutshintsha kakhulu, uninzi lwabo luza kuhlala lunjalo, xa kuziwa esikolweni, kubuhlobo, kwiminqweno yomsebenzi, kwizinto ezithandwayo, njalo njalo.
Ke, qiniseka ukuba unika le nto kuzo naziphi na izicwangciso zokufikelela, iiholide kunye namalungiselelo okuhlala.
Bamba isikolo sakho sakwishumi elivisayo okanye ithayimthebhile yekholeji, kunye nayo nayiphi na imihla ephambili yezinto abazithandayo, njengemidlalo yebhola ekhatywayo, iimviwo zomdaniso okanye ukuphela kwexesha lentlalo.
Buza umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo malunga nawaphi na amatheko okuzalwa, ukuzibophelela ngokuzithandela njl.njl.
Sukuvumela iimvakalelo zakho zingene kule nto, okanye uzame ukufumana amanqaku ngokwenza umntwana wakho azive ngathi omnye umzali uyabanqanda ekwenzeni izinto abazithandayo.
Oku kuya kugcina ingqumbo kuphela kwaye kwenza intsebenziswano eqhubekayo kunye nokuthembela kunzima kakhulu ukufezekisa.
Ukuba uphatha umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo kwaye uyaziqonda iimvakalelo zabo kunye neemfuno zabo, le iya kuba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubanceda baphathe eli xesha linzima.