Umxholo
- 1. Isimemo esihehayo
- 2. Ukunyaniseka - iintyatyambo kunye nenqaku elibhaliweyo
- 3.Yila i-VLL esuka entliziyweni (ileta yothando lweVidiyo)
Usuku lukaValentine phantse ukuba selufikile, usuku olwenza ii-singles ezininzi zihlanye kukuxhalaba kunye nolindelo. Kwelinye icala, yenza ukuba uphuphe ngamathuba angenasiphelo wokuba ukutyumza kwakho kunokukubuza njani ngomhla, kwelinye, kukwenza ukhathazeke uphele wedwa ngaloo mhla. Ewe, ukuba uqhubeka uphupha kukho amathuba okuba usuku lwakho lweValentine aluyi kwahluka kwezinye iintsuku (kuphela kukucaphukisa kancinci mhlawumbi).
Ukuba ubuchoboza intombazana, yeka ukucinga kwaye uthathe inyathelo lokuqala. Usuku lukaValentine lixesha elifanelekileyo lokumbuza. Lahla uxinzelelo kwaye unyuse ulonwabo. Sebenzisa ithuba, wenze intshukumo, cela ukutyumka kwakho kube ngumhla wakho.
Ukucela umntu ukuba abe yiValentine yakho akukho umdlalo olula nangona. Inokuba noxinzelelo kwaye inokude ikhokelele kwintlungu yentliziyo. Kodwa kungcono kunokuqagela ukuba “ngekuyintoni” ukuba ubuzityhile iimvakalelo zakho. Ukuba uceba ukucela intombazana ukuba ibe yiValentine yakho, silapha ukukunceda. Nazi iingcebiso ezi-3 ezinomdla ziingcali zobudlelwane: -
1. Isimemo esihehayo
Ingcali kwezomtshato yamagqala, uMary K. Cocharo uthi, “eyona ndlela yokubuza intombazana ngomhla weValentine kukwenza isimemo esihehayo esimazisa ukuba ukhathalele ngokwaneleyo ukwenza isicwangciso.” Zama into enje, “Ndingathanda ukukubona ngoSuku lweValentine. Kutheni ndingakulandi ngo-7: 00 ndikuse kwindawo ekhethekileyo? ” Ngubani onokuthi hayi kuloo nto? Emva koko, mthabathe kwindawo ethile ekhethekileyo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibize, ucinga nje.
2. Ukunyaniseka - iintyatyambo kunye nenqaku elibhaliweyo
Ugqirha wezifo zengqondo uSaraKay Smullens uthi, “Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubuza umntu omkhathaleleyo ukuba abe yi-valentine yakho kukunyaniseka.” Kwaye ngale holide ingaqhelekanga, imithombo yeendaba zentlalo kufuneka ithathe indawo yonxibelelwano lwakudala-ukuhanjiswa ukuba kunokwenzeka kwiofisi yakhe okanye ekhaya. (Ukuba awuhlali kufutshane, sebenzisa 'iposi yamandulo' enomyalezo omfutshane wothando). Khetha intyatyambo enye entle ehamba nenqaku elibhalwe ngesandla:
“Ubaluleke kakhulu. Ingathetha lukhulu kum ukuba ubuza kuba yiValentine yam. Iinkcukacha zikaFebruwari 14 ukuba zilandele. Iyaqhubeka (ndiyathemba), ”kulandele ukuvalwa komntu, utyikityo kunye nendlela eya kwi-RSVP.”
Funda ngokugqithisileyo: 7 Izinto ezininzi zothando ezenziwa ngoSuku lweValentine
3.Yila i-VLL esuka entliziyweni (ileta yothando lweVidiyo)
Indlela yanamhlanje kodwa enobuchule yokubuza intombazana kukumenzela ividiyo. Umcebisi oqeqeshiweyo uGqirha LaWanda uthi, "Yenza ividiyo yam ube yiValentine." Kwividiyo, kulula ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakho ngaphandle kokuthintela. Kwakhona, iyanceda ukubetha unxibelelwano lomntu phantse kwangoko.
Thatha ulawulo lobomi bakho bothando. Landela ezi ngcebiso njengeplani yokukrola indawo ethambileyo entliziyweni yakhe. Kwaye ukuba konke kuhamba kakuhle, amathuba okuba ube nexesha elimnandi ngomhla weValentine kunye nentombazana oyithandayo.