Umxholo
- Ngaba unazo izixhobo zokukhulelwa ukhulise umntwana?
- Ngaba ukulungele ukukhulelwa nokuba ngumama?
- Ngaba ukulungele kangakanani ukutshintsha komzimba okhulelweyo?
- Ngaba imeko-bume yakho kunye nendlela ophila ngayo ikulungele ukukhulisa umntwana?
- Ukukhulelwa ayisosigqibo ekufuneka sithathwe kancinci
Ukukhulelwa sisigqibo esinzulu efuna ukuqwalaselwa ngokucokisekileyo kwaye icingwe nzulu.
Ukukhulelwa kuzisa malunga utshintsho olukhulu kumfazi naye ubomi bomlingane. Ukulungela ukukhulelwa kubandakanya ukulungiselela uluhlu lokuhlola lokukhulelwa, ingcaciso eyakho umtshato, kunye nokucwangcisa izinto zokwamkela ilungu elitsha kusapho lwakho.
Enye, i Umama ozayo Ngaba zininzi iinguqu emzimbeni Ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwakhe, kubandakanya ukutyeba okuninzi, amanqaku okolula, ukugula kwasekuseni, kunye neentlungu zomqolo. Ayisiyiyo yonke loo nto, nangona kunjalo. Abafazi nabo amava okutshintsha ngesiquphe kwaye rhoqo, ziziswa ziihormone ezenza umonakalo kwimizimba yazo ekhulelweyo.
Uhlengahlengiso aluyeki emva kokubeleka.
Ukuba ngumama kuthetha utshintsho olwahlukileyo noxanduva.
Kukho imibuzo eliqela ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uzibuze yona kwaye uyiphendule, ngokuqiqa nangokucacileyo (mhlawumbi ngendlela ebhaliweyo), ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukulungele ukukhulelwa kunye nokuzisa umntwana kulo mhlaba.
Ngaba unazo izixhobo zokukhulelwa ukhulise umntwana?
Ngaba ucinga ngokukhulelwa? Khumbula! Ukukhulelwa kubiza imali eninzi.
Kufuneke u ubhatalele ukuvavanywa kwezonyango okubizayo, ukuhlolwa kwe-ultrasound kunye nezinye iimviwo, kunye Ukutya Okusempilweni kunye nezongezelelo, Izinto zokubeleka neempahla, nezinye izinto ezinxulumene nosana.
Kwaye ukuba eyakho Inkampani ayiboneleli ngamagqabi okubeleka, kuyakufuneka uncame umvuzo wakho weenyanga ezimbalwa kwaye uthathe amagqabi angabhatalwanga kufutshane nomhla wokuhambisa kwakho nasemva kokubeleka. Okanye usenako Kufuneka uyeke umsebenzi kwaye uphulukane nomthombo wakho ophambili wengeniso ngokupheleleyo.
Emva kokubeleka, kuya kufuneka chitha ngaphezulu ukukhulisa umntwana wakho. NgokweSebe lezoLimo laseMelika, indleko eziphakathi zokukhulisa umntwana okwangoku zii- $ 233,610, ngaphandle kwendleko zekholeji.
Ukuba unemithombo eyaneleyo yosana, ke inyathelo elinye ukusondela kukulungele ukukhulelwa nokuba ngumama.
Ngaba ukulungele ukukhulelwa nokuba ngumama?
Ukulungiselela njani ngengqondo ukukhulelwa?
Ngoku, kukho inqanaba lokukhula ye onke amabakala obomi babantu, Kwaye kunjalo ayimiselwanga bubudala bomntu. Nokuba abafazi bakwiminyaka yabo yokuqala yokukhulelwa, akusoloko kulandela ukuba bakwimeko efanelekileyo yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo.
Yiyo loo nto kuya kufuneka uvavanye kwaye vavanya imeko yakho yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokukhulelwa.
Ngaba ukulungele ukujongana nazo zonke iinguqu-emzimbeni, engqondweni, ngokweemvakalelo, kwindlela yokuphila, njl-ukukhulelwa nokuba ngumama kuya kukuzisela ebomini?
Fumana ulwazi oluninzi kangangoko unako. Thetha neqabane lakho, usapho, abahlobo, abacebisi ngabazali, kunye noomama abanamava.
Kuya kufuneka uyazi into ongena kuyo, onokuyilindela ukukhulelwa nokuba ngumama, kunye nento ekufuneka uyenzile ngaphambi nasemva koko. Kungoko kuphela apho unokuvavanya ngokupheleleyo ukuba ulilungele inyathelo elilandelayo.
Ngaba ukulungele kangakanani ukutshintsha komzimba okhulelweyo?
Ngoku, kukho amanyathelo athile ekufuneka uwathathe ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe.
Nje ukuba unqume ukuba ukulungele ngokwezimali, ngokwengqondo nangokweemvakalelo ukulungela ukukhulelwa nokuba ngumama, inyathelo elilandelayo kukuba lungisa umzimba wakho malunga nento ezayo. Thetha nogqirha wakho ngaphambi kokuzama umntwana neqabane lakho.
Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba kulula kangakanani okanye kunzima kangakanani ukuba umzimba wakho ukhulelwe nokuba ikulungele na ukuthwala kwaye gcina omnye umntu iinyanga ezisithoba. Kuya kufuneka uyazi nembali yakho yezonyango kunye neengxaki ezinokubakho ukuba uneemeko ezikhoyo.
Emva kokufumana ibhilikhwe ecocekileyo yezempilo, Inyathelo elilandelayo ku lungiselela umzimba wakho ubunzima (kuba ukukhulelwa akukho kuhamba epakini) sele kuza kwenziwa. Ukutya kwakho kufuneka kulungelelaniswe ukuze ubenexabiso elifanelekileyo lokuxhasa wena nosana lwakho.
Kuya kufuneka uyeke ukuthatha i-caffeine, utywala, kunye nezinye izinto ezinokuba yingozi.
Olunye unyango kunye namayeza owathathayo ngoku kunokubangela ukukhubazeka kokuzalwa komntwana, ke kuya kufuneka uthethe nogqirha wakho kwaye ucele iingcebiso zonyango. Kuya kufuneka uphinde uhlaziye ucoceko, amazinyo, ukucoca kunye nezinye iimveliso ozisebenzisayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Yenza uphando lwakho kuqala, kunye thetha kwimisebenzi yezonyango kunye neengcali malunga nokukhulelwa nokuba ngumzali ukwazi ukuba ungazilungiselela njani ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zempilo nezomzimba, kunye nokujongana notshintsho oluziswe kukukhulelwa nokuba ngumama.
Ngaba imeko-bume yakho kunye nendlela ophila ngayo ikulungele ukukhulisa umntwana?
Imeko-bume okhulele kuyo inesandla ekubumbeni njengomntu, kwaye kunjalo nakubantwana.
Ukukhula kwi imeko-bume yekhaya elibi unako baneziphumo ezibi ezingapheliyo emntwaneni, kubandakanya ukukhula gwenxa kolwimi, iingxaki zokuziphatha zexesha elizayo, ukungonelisi esikolweni, ubundlongondlongo, unxunguphalo noxinzelelo.
Kwelinye icala, a imeko entle yasekhaya, apho umntwana abonelelwa ngokwaneleyo ngeemfuno zabo, ingqalelo, uthando kunye namathuba, ineempembelelo ezintle ekukhuleni komntwana — emzimbeni, engqondweni, ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasentlalweni.
Ngaphambi kokuba wamkele umntwana kweli hlabathi, kuya kufuneka ulungiselele ukubanika imeko-bume abayidingayo ukuze bakhule babe ngabantu abaphilileyo, abonwabileyo, nabadala abahlengahlengisiweyo.
Inxalenye yokunika umntwana imeko entle yasekhaya kukuba ngumzali okhoyo kunye nophethe izandla. Ukuba awukwazi ukunika umntwana wakho oko, kuya kufuneka ucinge kabini ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe.
Ukukhulelwa nabantwana abaxabisi mali kuphela; bakwadinga ixesha lakho namandla.
Ukuba uneqabane, nobabini ninako cwangcisa kunye kwaye yabelana ngoxanduva Yokukhathalela umntwana.
Kodwa ukuba uzikhulisela usana wedwa kwaye usebenza ngokusisigxina, kuya kufuneka ujonge izinto ngononophelo ngaphambi kokuba uqhubekele kwinqanaba elilandelayo.
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Ngubani oza kukusa esibhedlele xa uza kubeleka? Uzakumgcina njani umntwana xa usemsebenzini?
Ukukhulelwa ayisosigqibo ekufuneka sithathwe kancinci
Ke, owona mbuzo ubalulekileyo apha ngulo, 'kufuneka ulungiselele ukuba ukhulelwe kungekudala kangakanani?' Ukukhulelwa ayisosigqibo sokwenza ngokungxama.
Ukuba awukulungelanga ukwamkela okanye awulungelanga kuxanduva kunye notshintsho kwindlela umntwana azokuzisa ngayo ebomini bakho, thatha ixesha elingakumbi ukuqaphela. Ngcono okwangoku, sukuya phambili de ube ukulungele ngokupheleleyo.