Umxholo
- Kunjani ukuba kubudlelwane obude
- Isebenza njani kwizibini ezisoloko zikunye?
- Ukuhlala engqondweni nasentliziyweni kuthetha ukuhlala ebomini
- Kutheni umgama kunye nokungabikho kubalulekile?
- Lunceda njani unxibelelwano ngelixa ukude?
- Bulala ukungazithembi
- Umgama awunqamli, kuyahlaziya kuphela
Ngaba ungumntu oku ubudlelwane obude?
Kwaye ubudlelwane obubonakalise bomelele kwaye bude kunokuba ubulindele?
Kodwa awungekhe ungazibuzi ukuba izakuphila ixesha elingakanani?
Kwaye awunqweneli ukuba nobabini ekugqibeleni nikwazi ukuhlala kunye kwaye nilahle oku kungabikho rhoqo?
Ngaba ukwindawo apho uwuthiyile umgama omde ome ngenkani phakathi kwakho nobabini?
Kwaye xa nina nobabini niza kudibana kwakhona, ngaba niyayoyika kakhulu loo fowuni okanye umyalezo obhaliweyo othi ukuhlala kwakhe kungathatha ixesha elincinci?
Ngaba ukhe uzibuze rhoqo ukuba kufanelekile, xa ubona ezo zibini zixhomekeke kunye, zihleka kwaye zincokola ngokungapheliyo, ngelixa uqhubeka ujonge kwiscreen sakho, ulinde umyalezo ukuba uvele kuye?
Kwaye ngelixa sele ilubudlelwane obukude, uziva ungenanto kwaye ungenanto xa kukho ukungabikho ngamanye amaxesha kwaye awukwazi ukufikelela kuye ngokusebenzisa imiyalezo ye-Intanethi esekwe kwi-Intanethi kunye nokufowuna iiNkqubo, ukanti uhlawula zonke iindleko zenyanga zeselfowuni.
Kunjani ukuba kubudlelwane obude
Ewe, ndinokuhambelana ngokupheleleyo nemeko ojamelene nayo kuba, ngaphandle kwemfuneko yoku, bendikwenye. Umyeni wam wayefudula elwandle kwaye wachitha iminyaka emfazweni e Afghanistani. Khange sikwazi ukuthetha omnye nomnye ixesha elide kule minyaka mibini, kamva siye saya kweminye iminyaka emibini.
Ngoku xa ndithatha uhambo ndisiya kwindlela yememori, ndincuma ngokoqobo ndicinga ukuba yonke le minyaka izisondeze njani iintliziyo zethu kwaye zomeleza ubudlelwane bethu. Besikuxabisa ngakumbi ukuzincama kwethu kwaye sihlonipha iimvakalelo zomnye nomnye.
Ngoku ndiziqhelanisa nokuba ngumcebisi kwizibini ezitsala nzima kubudlelwane bemigama emide, ndiye ndaqonda kudala ukuba lo mgama ubangela njani ukuba abantu basondele kwaye bazimanye njengamaqabane angcono.
Masikhe sijonge nzulu kwindlela ubudlelwane obukude, ukungabikho okunene komeleza ulwalamano enabelana ngalo.
Isebenza njani kwizibini ezisoloko zikunye?
Ukuba uyasokola kubudlelwane obukude kwaye ucinga 'umgama' njengethambo lembambano kunye nengcambu yazo zonke iingxaki ebomini bakho, mandikukhanyisele ngethamo lokwenyani.
Amaqabane ahlala kunye kwaye awazange abone umgama kunye nokungabikho (onokuba nomona suku ngalunye xa uvuka mhlawumbi) awonwabanga zizibini kumaxesha amaninzi.
Nangona bekunye emva kokufumana iimvakalelo ezinzulu kunye neemvakalelo omnye komnye, uninzi lwazo luyasilela ukugcina umtsalane ongenakuphikiswa ababewuva ekuqaleni kweminyaka.
Kuba ndikwanikezela ngengcebiso kwizibini ezinengxaki ezingonwabanga, zisokola ukugcina ubudlelwane bazo buqinile, mandikuxelele ukuba uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo bakhalaza ngokungabinakho ukubandakanyeka, ingqalelo, kunye nomtsalane.
Uninzi lwabasetyhini kwanamadoda akhalaza ngokuthathwa kancinci kwaye kwenzeka njani ukuba izinto zingahambelani nolindelo lwabo.
Ke, ayisiyiyo indlela ekubonakala ngathi izibini ezidibene ngayo.
Akukho nasinye kwizikhalazo esele sikhankanyiwe esakhe senziwa ngumntu onobudlelwane obude obude. Endaweni yoko, banqwenela ukuba kwicala lomnye kwaye kungoko inqanaba lokuzibandakanya kunye nokutsala kuhlala kuphezulu.
Ukuhlala engqondweni nasentliziyweni kuthetha ukuhlala ebomini
Ubudlelwane bumalunga nokuzibandakanya kunye neemvakalelo abantu ababelana ngazo. Ukuba mva nje, ubukhe wacinga ngendlela ezinye izibini ezixhonywe kunye, beqhayisa ngothando lwabo kwaye bejongeka bonwabile kwaye benelisekile, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba ayingomgama owenza ukuba iimvakalelo ziphele.
Ke, nokuba ubudlelwane bakho yeyona ibikude ukusuka ekuqaleni okanye ibubudlelwane bexesha elide obuye kamva baba bubudlelwane obude ngenxa yezibophelelo ezithile, yazi nje ukuba yile umgama ngokwenyani okugcina unendawo kwaye zonke ezo mvakalelo onazo omnye komnye ziye zandiswa kuphela ngalo mgama.
Zibuze. Ngaba awufumani bhuma xa ucinga ngokudibana naye kwakhona? Oko kubonisa ukomelela kolwalamano lwakho.
Kutheni umgama kunye nokungabikho kubalulekile?
Xa iimvakalelo zomelele kwaye zinamandla, iintliziyo zisondele, imigama yejografi ayinamsebenzi!
Nantsi indlela esebenza ngayo.
Umgama kwaye ukungabikho ukunceda uhlalutye kakhulu malunga nolwalamano lwakho. Kwenza ukuba uqaphele imizamo yeqabane lakho kunye nothando eninalo nobabini. Kukwenza uzixabise ngakumbi izinto. Kwenza ukuba nirhalele ubukho bomnye nomnye bokuhlala kunye ixesha elingenasiphelo akunakukwenza uzive.
Ngelixa ungekhoyo kwaye unqanyuliwe, kuvakala ngathi luvavanyo lokomelela kwakho, ukuthembeka kunye nokuzinikela kwakho kwaye uyaqonda ukuba zibaluleke kangakanani zonke ezi zinto kubudlelwane.
Lunceda njani unxibelelwano ngelixa ukude?
Unxibelelwano kwi-Intanethi okanye kwifowuni luluncedo ngokwenene ngelixa ubudlelwane bukude, ngakumbi emva kwento engekhoyo ngamaxesha athile.
Ngombhalo wenoveli kunye nokubiza ii -apps kunye namancedo afana nokubizwa kwevidiyo kuye kwenza ukuba ukuhlala uxhulumene kube lula.
Xa usiya kubona iqabane lakho kwisikrini segajethi yakho, zonke ezo mvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ziyavuseleleka kwaye uzive usondele kakhulu. Kwakhona uthando luhlala luvuselelwa ngonxibelelwano oluqhelekileyo.
Bulala ukungazithembi
Yeka ukukhathazeka malunga nobudlelwane bakho obude kunye nokuziyeka zonke iingcamango malunga nokukhohliswa okanye nayiphi na into engathandabuzekiyo. Ukungazithembi kuhlala kusiza xa kukho into esilelayo ngokwezinto ezisisiseko kubudlelwane bakho, ezinje ngothando, ukuzibophelela, umtsalane, ukuthembeka njalo njalo.
Akusoze kube ngumgama nangona. Gxila kwiimpawu kunye nokuzincama okwenziwe liqabane lakho ngenxa yakho. Kwaye kwakhona, ukuziva unganqabisekanga kuyinto eqhelekileyo.
Umgama awunqamli, kuyahlaziya kuphela
Umgama wenza ukuba uthandane kwakhona kwakhona. Uyayiqonda ngokwenene ukuba iqabane lakho libaluleke kangakanani kuwe. Ewe uya kuba nakho konke ukuyila kubomi bakho bothando ngenxa yomgama oye wadibana nawo.
Ke, vele ubhiyozele oku kungabikho njengezandulela ezinamandla zothando olomeleleyo kunye nokudibana. Ndinqwenela ulwalamano lobomi bonke!