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Umxholo
- Kutheni imitshato ingumnyhadala wenkolo?
- Ubomi bam bobam bodwa, abungobothixo okanye omnye umntu
- Yintoni umtshato weveki
- Sinokukwenza oko ngaphandle koncedo lomfundisi
Isenokungabi njalo kuwo wonke umntu, kodwa uninzi lwethu lwatshata kumsitho wenkolo. Ingabonakala njengesiko okanye into engenamsebenzi kuninzi, kodwa ngaba ikhe yafika kuwe into yokuba kutheni imitshato yenziwa endlwini kaThixo, okanye kutheni ummeli wakhe emhlabeni ingaligosa eliququzelelayo?
Umtshato sisivumelwano esisemthethweni.
Kungenxa yoko le nto ikwalungile ukuyenza nommeli karhulumente (uhlala eyiJaji). Kodwa kutheni, kwihlabathi lonke, imitshato ithathwa njengesiganeko senkolo? Kutheni le nto iDiety ibalulekile xa abantu ababini besenza isifungo sothando lwabo olungunaphakade kunye ukuze benze iyunithi yosapho olunye?
Siza kufika kuloo nto.
Wakhe waya kwintlanganiso yeveki yomtshato? Ngumnyhadala wamaKatolika, kodwa awunyanzelekanga ukuba ubengumntu oza kujoyina. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ukholelwe kuThixo.
Kutheni imitshato ingumnyhadala wenkolo?
Ukufungela ukunikela ngobomi bakho emntwini kude kube kukuphefumla kwakho okokugqibela uphume kwinto engabalulekanga njengothando luyinto yokomoya enzulu. Kuyisithembiso sokuba akukho mntu unokufa angalinganisela okanye abeke iliso ngentonga yokulinganisa.
Iinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo zafika kwisigqibo esinye sokuba isibambiso sokunika ezona zinto zibalulekileyo, lelo likamva lakho, umzimba wakho, nomphefumlo wakho luhlobo lwesithembiso omele ukusenza noThixo wakho. Kwaye amaKatolika ayililo kuphela iqela lenkolo elikholelwa ukuba imitshato ingcwele kwaye ingokomoya.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uluntu lwanamhlanje lunemithetho yokulawula imitshato, kodwa ukuba uyafunda le mithetho, uyakufumanisa ukuba uninzi lwale mithetho luhambelana nezinto ezitshatileyo zehlabathi hayi umtshato wabo uqobo. Kukho okumbalwa ngaphandle, kunjalo, kodwa ubukhulu becala kukucacisa ukuba ezinye izinto kwimitshato ziyachaphazeleka ngumthetho wolwaphulo-mthetho.
Umzekelo, ukubetha nabani na kude kube li-intshi yobomi bakhe lityala. Imithetho yomtshato ithi nje nabani na ubandakanya umntu otshate naye ngokusemthethweni.
Ke, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kutheni imitshato ithathwa njengesiganeko senkolo.
Kungenxa yokuba ubomi bakho nomphefumlo wakho awuzange ube ngowakho kwasekuqaleni. Uboleka nje kuThixo, kwaye unikezela ngento engeyoyakho kufuna imvume yomnini wayo oyinyani. Yinto eqhelekileyo.
Ubomi bam bobam bodwa, abungobothixo okanye omnye umntu
Ewe ngenene, yintoni kanye kanye oyenzileyo ukuzinika ubomi bendalo? (Kudos ukuya kuMarty McFly noJohn Conner) Ngaba ube negalelo nangayiphi na indlela ukuqinisekisa ukuba i-chromosome ye-X kunye ne-Y chromosome eye yaphela njengemfuzo yakho?
Ukuthetha ngalonto, ngaba ubunikwe ukhetho lokuhlala emhlabeni ngohlanga kunye nesini (hayi inkanuko yesini-eyahlukileyo) onayo ngoku? Ngaba uyifumene imali ngokwakho ukuzondla kwiminyaka emihlanu yokuqala yobomi bakho? Ngaba wena okanye uCharles Darwin ufundise usana lwakho iimolekyuli ozifuna rhoqo kwimizuzu emihlanu ukugcina iiseli zakho ziphila?
Ngokukwanjalo, ngaba umntu wakho omdala unokwenza nantoni na oyifunayo, nangaliphi na ixesha olifunayo, ngaphandle kweziphumo? Ngaba udlulile ukuze uphile ubomi obungadingi iimfuno zomzimba wakho?
Ukuba usakholelwa kuyo yonke into oyiyo nayo yonke into onayo kungenxa yakho kunye nawe wedwa, kwaye kuphela unelungelo layo, ke unekratshi, ungumbhali, SOB okungafanelekanga ukuba ubelapha, kuba akufuneki ubekhona Utshatile kwindawo yokuqala.
Yintoni umtshato weveki
Masiqale ngento engeyiyo-
- Ayisiyo ukubuyela umva
- Ayisiyo semina
- Ayisiyo yeAA kwizibini ezitshatileyo
- Ayisiyo ngcebiso
Ke, yintoni?
Yimpelaveki apho ubizo lwenkolo olukhokelwa nguMfundisi wamaKatolika lubonelela izibini ngendawo ethe cwaka yokucinga ngobomi babo kunye kunye nokuqinisekisa isithembiso sabo omnye komnye kubukho bukaThixo.
Siyakholelwa ukuba izibini kufuneka ziqhubeke zithandane kude kube sekupheleni kobomi bazo. Kanye kwithuba elithile, kuya kufuneka baye kwenye indawo yabucala ukuya kunxibelelana.
Ayenzeki ngalo lonke ixesha kuye wonke umntu, ngamanye amaxesha bafuna ukutyhilwa kancinci.
Ukuhlangana komtshato ngempelaveki kubeke inqanaba lonxibelelwano olunzulu lokomoya phakathi kwezibini.
Izinto ezingapheliyo zobomi kwixesha lethu namandla zithatha uninzi lobomi bethu. Amaqabane aphela encama ixesha lawo kunye.
Ukudibana kuya kukunika ithuba lokuthetha, thetha nyani. Ukubuyela kwixesha apho wawusemncinci kwaye ugcwele amaphupha uhleli nje engceni enengca enomqamelo womlenze kwaye unxibelelana ngokulula.
Sinokukwenza oko ngaphandle koncedo lomfundisi
Kulungile kuwe, kodwa uqinisekile? Luluvo lwakho, kodwa mhlawumbi iqabane lakho licinga ngenye indlela. Kodwa ukuba ukwinqanaba njengesibini emva koko siyavuyisana. Njengokucebisa ngomtshato kunye nokwabelana ngesondo nge-S & M, ayingabo bonke abantu.
Kodwa kukho izibini eziyifunayo, eziyifunayo, kwaye zifuna indawo ebonakalayo nefumanekayo yokuhlala yodwa ngaphandle kweziphazamiso zobomi bemihla ngemihla. Ihotele iyasebenza nayo, kodwa abanye abantu bayayidinga indawo ngaphandle kweziphazamiso kunye nezilingo.
Ukuhlangana komtshato ngeveki kwenzeka kwihlabathi liphela. Ngumnyhadala oxhaswe ngamaKatolika, kodwa uvulelekile kuwo wonke umntu. Ngenxa yokuba amaKatolika akholelwa kubungcwele bomtshato, yenza konke okusemandleni ukugcina izibini zihlangene.
Umtshato wakho uphakathi kwakho noThixo.
Ukudibana komtshato kubeka nje inqanaba, kuya kuba nongenelelo oluncinci kakhulu ngokuchasene neesemina, iingcebiso, nokunye okunjalo. Isebenza phantsi kwenkolelo yokuba abantu abadala abavumelekileyo abadala ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangatshata banembopheleleko eyaneleyo yokuyigcina injalo.
Abantu banokuthandana, kodwa ukuhlala kunye ixesha elide kudala iintanda ezincinci kulo naluphi na ulwalamano. Akukho mntu ugqibeleleyo, kwaye ngenxa yokuba imitshato yenziwe ngabantu ababini abangafezekanga, iya kuba neziphene.
Iintanda ezincinci ziyakhula ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye ngaphandle kolondolozo olufanelekileyo, iintanda ezinkulu ziba ngumonakalo ongenakulungiswa.
Ukuthandana kuyanceda ukuphinda umise ezo bond kwaye uzenze zomelele.
Ukuhlangana koMtshato ngeveki kufana ncam naloo nto. Yongeza nje uThixo kumxube, ngapha koko, uthembise ngegama lakhe izifungo ezigcina umtshato wakho kunye.