Umxholo
- Ukufumana i-Therapist kufana nokufumana umsebenzi
- Kuya kufuneka uzive ukhululekile kwaye uxhaswe
- Abanyangi abanobuchule abanazintandokazi okanye bakhethe amacala
- Khangela omnye ugqirha
Ukufumana i-Therapist efanelekileyo akubalulekanga nje, yeyona nto inegalelo elibaluleke kakhulu ekubeni ube namava onyanga ngempumelelo. Lonke uphando endikhe ndadibana nalo lucacisa gca ukuba olona phawu lubalulekileyo malunga nonyango olufanelekileyo yinto esiyibiza ngokuba "ngumanyano lonyango", ekwabizwa ngokuba yi "rapport" okanye indlela onxibelelana ngayo nonyango lwakho. Olu nxibelelwano ligqithise kwezinye izinto ezinje ngenqanaba loqeqesho kunyangi okanye uhlobo lonyango olusetyenzisiweyo.
Ukufumana i-Therapist kufana nokufumana umsebenzi
Kuya kufuneka uqale ube neseshoni yokuqala, ethi ngeendlela ezithile ifane nodliwanondlebe. Uthetha nonyango, wabelana ngemicimbi yakho, kwaye ubone ukuba "ucofa njani" kunye nabo. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokuthatha iiseshoni ezimbalwa ukuzinza kunye nonyango olutsha, kwaye kulungile, kodwa ukuba unamava okuqala wokubeka okanye ukuba awuziva ukhululekile okanye ukhuselekile xa uthetha nabo, ke ngumqondiso wakho thatha udliwanondlebe ukusilela kwaye uqhubeke nokujonga unyango olulungele wena.
Kuya kufuneka uzive ukhululekile kwaye uxhaswe
Ixesha lakho kwiofisi yonyango kufuneka likhululeke, likhuthaze, kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, uzive ukhuselekile. Ukuba awuziva ukhuselekile kwaye ungaxhaswanga, uya kuba nobunzima ekwabelaneni ngeengcinga neemvakalelo zakho, nto leyo inyanzelekile ukuba ibe neziphumo eziyimpumelelo. Yile ntuthuzelo kunye nokukwazi ukunxibelelana ngokukhululekileyo nto leyo eyenza ukuba ezo manyano zihambelana kakhulu zonyango ziphumelele.
Kwababini, le meko inokuba nzima ngakumbi. Kungenzeka ukuba umntu omnye azive edibene ngokuqinileyo nonyango, kodwa elinye iqabane alinalo. Okanye elinye iqabane linokuziva ngathi i-Therapist ithanda omnye umntu ngaphezulu komnye, okanye "kwelinye icala". Ngaphandle kwaxa iimeko zokuphathwa gadalala ngokucacileyo okanye ezinye izenzo ezimbi, akunakufane kwenzeke.
Abanyangi abanobuchule abanazintandokazi okanye bakhethe amacala
Injongo yethu yenye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu esizizisayo kumava onyango. Nangona kunjalo, ezo ntlobo zeemvakalelo, ukuba azisingathwa, zinokubulala kuwo nawaphi na amathuba okuphumelela. Ukuba uziva ngathi ugqirha wakho ujonge ngokungalunganga kwiqabane lakho, okanye ukuba uziva ngathi "uxhomile", yinto leyo ekufuneka ujongane nayo kwangoko. Kwakhona, nawuphi na ugqirha onobuchule uya kuba nakho ukujongana naloo nkxalabo kwaye ngethemba lokubonisa ukungabikho komkhethe ekwanelisekeni komntu wonke.
Iingcali zonyango zihluka ngohlobo lwazo, ubuntu bazo, kunye nohlobo lonyango abalusebenzisayo. Oku kubizwa ngokuba “luqhelaniso lwethiyori”, kwaye kuthetha nje ukuba zeziphi iingcinga zengqondo nokuziphatha kwabantu abazamkelayo nabathanda ukuzisebenzisa nabaxumi babo. Kunqabile kumaxesha anamhlanje ukufumana abantu ababambelela ngokungqongqo kwithiyori ethile. Uninzi lweengcali ngoku zisebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zethiyori, esekwe kubathengi, iimfuno zabo, kunye noko kubonakala kusebenza ngokugqwesileyo. Kwaye, kwiimeko ezininzi, wena njengomntu ongaqhelekanga uya kuba nomdla omncinci kwesi sikhokelo sethiyori, ufuna nje ukufumana okusebenzayo kuwe!
Khangela omnye ugqirha
Ukuba uya kunyangi amaxesha ambalwa, kwaye awukhe ucofe kunye nabo, unokufuna ukuqaphela ukukhangela entsha. Abanyangi abanobuchule bayaqonda ukuba abazukucofa wonke umntu, kwaye abayikukhathazeka xa ufuna umntu ofanelekileyo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, unokude ubuze nonyango lwakho ukuba ulugqithisele.
Ukuba ugqirha wakho uphazamisekile okanye unomsindo ukuba ufuna ukufuna omnye ugqirha, eso sisalathiso esihle sokuba wenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo ekushiyekeni. Umzekelo, ndiyazingca ngokwenza ubudlelwane obuluqilima kunye nabathengi abatsha ngokukhawuleza. Ewe, enyanisweni, yenye yezinto endihlala ndinconywa ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, oko akuthethi ukuba wonke umthengi omtsha uyandithanda. Abanye abantu abacofisi kum, kwaye kufuneka ndikulungele ukuyiqonda kwaye ndiyamkele loo nto. Ndihlala ndibuza ekupheleni kweseshoni yokuqala ukuba umntu ukhululekile ukuthetha nam, kwaye ukuba banomdla wokubuyela kolunye utyelelo. Ndiqhuba iiseshoni zam ngendlela engacwangciswanga, encokolayo, enobuhlobo neyaziwayo. Ukuba umthengi onokubakho unokhetho oluluqilima lokunxibelelana ngokusesikweni, ukufundisa, kunye nokungenazintsholongwane, ngekhe ndibalungele, kwaye ndingabakhuthaza ukuba bafumane umntu olungele iimfuno zabo.
Ukushwankathela, ukufumana "ukulunga" okufanelekileyo kunye nonyango yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekukhetheni kwakho ukuya kunyango. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba ugqirha ngumntu obhinqileyo okanye oyindoda, omncinci okanye okhulileyo, iMasters okanye iPh.D. okanye i-MD, ekusebenzeni ngasese okanye kwi-arhente okanye kwiziko. Imicimbi kuphela kukuba ukhululekile kubo, kwaye uziva ngathi unxibelelwano oluyimfuneko kunye nabo apho unokuzithemba khona ukuze uvule kwaye wabelane ngokwakho ngokupheleleyo.
YILEYO indlela eya empumelelweni!