Umxholo
- Yenza uphando olubanzi
- Ngokufanelekileyo cela ukuhanjiswa
- Khangela imithombo ethembekileyo kwi-intanethi
- Udliwanondlebe olunokubakho ngabanyangi bomtshato
- Thenga ujikeleze
Ukufumana ingcali elungileyo yomtshato kufutshane nam 'kufana nokufumana i-hairstylist elungileyo-ayinguye wonke umntu oza kuthanda wonke umntu olapha phandle. Kwaye kulungile.
Yintoni ebalulekileyo kukuba esi sibini sifumana ukulunga okuhle. Xa ufumana ukulunga okufanelekileyo, ke kukho ukuthembana kunye nokukwazi ukufunda nokukhula kunye.
Ke, ungayifumana njani i-Therapist?
Xa ujonga ingcali yemitshato yasekuhlaleni, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela iziqinisekiso zomcebisi-waye waya phi esikolweni? Kananjalo, ngaba wena neqabane lakho ninokukhululeka xa nithetha nendoda okanye ibhinqa, okanye ngaba oko kubalulekile komnye wenu?
Enye into ekufuneka uyiqwalasele ngamava omntu kunye nesitayile sonyango. Ezo zinto ziyinto yokubuza kutyelelo lokuqala.
Mhlawumbi kuphando lwakho, uya kubetha igolide okokuqala, kodwa ukuba uya kwiseshoni okanye ezimbini kunye nolwalamano kunye kwaye ungaziva ngathi uyahambelana, ungaziva ungonwabanga ngokuzama umcebisi womtshato owahlukileyo .
Nazi ezinye zeengcebiso ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo ngelixa ukhangela 'abacebisi abatshatileyo abalungileyo kufutshane nam' okanye 'ingcali yosapho kufutshane nam':
Yenza uphando olubanzi
Eli linyathelo eliphambili ekufuneka lilandelwe xa ukhangela 'iingcebiso ngomtshato kufutshane nam' okanye 'iingcebiso kusapho kufutshane nam.'
Nangona eli lelona nyathelo libonakalayo, kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukuba ujonge ugqirha olungileyo xa unemicimbi kwaye ungekho kwimeko entle engqondweni ngokwakho.
Ke, nokuba unokuhendeka ukugqiba ugqirha wakho kwakamsinya, unganikezeli kuphando olunenkcukacha ukuze ufumane ezona ziphumo zibalaseleyo kunyango.
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Kwakhona, iindleko zonyango lomtshato okanye ukucebisa ngomtshato kuphezulu kakhulu, ke kuya kufuneka wenze isigqibo esisengqiqweni ngaphambi kokuba utyale imali yakho oyisebenzele nzima kwenye indawo. Inqaku elibalulekileyo lokukhumbula 'Uphando.'
Xa unengxaki enkulu yokufumana ugqirha olungileyo, ukufuna iingcebiso kubahlobo bakho kunye nosapho kunokuba yinto elungileyo.
Kodwa, khumbula ukuba ayinguye wonke umhlobo okanye ilungu losapho elisebenza kakuhle. Sebenzisa ingqiqo yakho ngokuphathelele abantu onokuzityand 'igila kubo.
Buza kuphela kwabo ubathembileyo, kwaye mhlawumbi abo ubaziyo banolwazi ngeengcali zemitshato kwindawo yakho okanye abo bathe bafumana iingcebiso ngomtshato ngokwabo. Awufuni ukunyathela nakuphi na iinzwane, apha, nyathela ngononophelo.
Unokukhetha nokucela ugqirha wakho ukuba akunike iingcebiso.
Mhlawumbi ugqirha wakho ukhe wasebenza nonyango ngaphambili kwaye uyazi ukuba zeziphi ezinye izigulana ezithanda ukuya kuye. Ezinye iikliniki zinabanyangi kubasebenzi.
Olunye ukhetho olulungileyo kukubuza abefundisi bakho okanye ezinye iinkokheli zecawa malunga nendlela yokukhetha unyango.
Oomabhalana abaninzi banikezela ngoncedo kwindawo yomtshato, ke ithuba lokuba bazi ezinye zeengcali kwindawo yakho.
Ukuba wenza uphando kuGoogle 'ngeengcebiso ngezibini kufutshane nam' okanye 'unyango kwizibini ezikufutshane nam,' uya kudibana nezinto ezininzi onokukhetha kuzo. Kodwa, ayizizo zonke eziyimithombo ethembekileyo. Ke, qiniseka ukuba ujonge kwimithombo ethembekileyo kunye nelayisensi
Isalathiso esiluncedo iya kuba sisayikholojikhthi okanye umbutho wonyango, onje ngeAmerican Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Inesixhobo sokufumana izixhobo esinceda kakhulu.
Kuya kufuneka ujonge iiwebhusayithi zabanyangi
Oku kubalulekile kuba apha, uya kufumana umbono wokuba yintoni le ngonyango, iziqinisekiso zabo, iilayisensi, uqeqesho olongezelelweyo, amava kunye nezinto abazibonelelayo.
Mhlawumbi baya kubandakanya uhlaziyo lwabathengi bangaphambili. Ke, ungakhangela uphononongo lwabathengi abajongane nemicimbi efana neyakho kunye namava abo kunyango.
Nje ukuba ugqibile ukukhangela 'unyango losapho kufutshane nam' okanye 'ukucebisa ngobuhlobo kufutshane nam' nangaphaya ngophando olunzulu, oko akuthethi ukuba umsebenzi ugqityiwe.
Kuya kufuneka udwelise uluhlu lwabacebisi ngomtshato abambalwa ngaphambi kokuba ugqibe omnye kwaye utyale imali yakho enkulu. Kuya kufuneka ukuba ube nengxoxo eneenkcukacha ngomnxeba okanye ubuso ngobuso kunye nonyango lwakho ukuze ufumane umbono omfutshane malunga nayo yonke le nkqubo.
Uninzi lweetheraphisti zinika ingcebiso yomtshato simahla kwiseshoni yokuqala. Eli lelona xesha lilungileyo lokuhlalutya i-Therapist yakho kwaye uqiniseke ukuba nobabini niyindwendwela i-Therapist kunye ukuze nifune iimpendulo kwimibuzo enikhathazayo.
Hlala phantsi ubuze imibuzo, enjengokuthi, “Ngaba niyasebenza nabantu abathandanayo rhoqo? Ujonga ntoni? ” Kukudibana ngobuqu apho uya kuthi uqokelele ngokwenyani ulwazi oludingayo ukwazi ukuba ngaba umcebisi wolwalamano ulungile kuwe njengesibini.
Jonga, kwaye uqinisekise ubungqina bomcebisi kunye nelayisensi. Kwakhona jonga ukuba banamava afanelekileyo okukunceda nina nobabini ngemicimbi yenu. Khumbula ukuba ayingabo bonke abanyangi abakulungeleyo kwaye banelayisensi yokuziqhelanisa, kungumsebenzi wakho ukukhangela ezi nkcukacha.
Bukela le vidiyo:
Zama ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokukhetha i-Therapist enye ukuze usebenze ixesha elide. Ukuba ugqirha wakho okanye umcebisi wakho akaboneleli ngeseshoni yasimahla, unokukhetha ukuhlawula iseshoni yokuqala kwaye uhlalutye inkqubo.
Zama ezimbalwa kuluhlu lwakho olufutshane olufanelekileyo kwaye uzame ukujonga ukuba ngaba unyango lwabo luyafana na. Zama ukubuza imibuzo emininzi kangangoko. Buza nonyango lwakho ukuba bakulungele na ukusebenzisa indlela eguqukayo ukuba indlela yabo yonyango ayikulungelanga.
Hlaziya kwiseshoni yakho yokuqala ukuba umcebisi wakho okanye ugqirha ngumphulaphuli olungileyo, akagwebi, kwaye ubambe indlela engenamkhethe kuni nobabini. Njengamaqabane, nobabini ninokuba nembono eyahlukileyo yengxaki efanayo.
Kodwa, ngumsebenzi wegqirha eligqwesileyo ukwenza ukuba nobabini nive ukuba nivile kwaye anigwetywa.
Kananjalo, nobabini kufuneka niziva nikhuselekile kwaye akukho ndlela yokophula xa nisenza unyango. Ke, intuthuzelo kunye nokhuseleko zezinye izinto ezinokuthi ziqwalaselwe ngelixa usiya 'kwiingcebiso ngezibini kufutshane nam.'
Ukufumana 'ugqirha olungileyo womtshato kufutshane nam' sisigqibo esibalulekileyo, ke thatha ixesha lokwenza ngokuchanekileyo. Okokugqibela, emva kokukhanyisa kakhulu malunga 'nendlela yokufumana ugqirha olungileyo' kunye nokuzama iindlela ezimbalwa onokukhetha kuzo ezinokuthenjwa, zikholelwe iimvakalelo zakho. Nguwe kuphela owaziyo into oyifunayo kunye neyona nto ikufanela.
Kananjalo, ukuba awuphumelelanga xa ujonga 'ugqirha olungileyo womtshato kufutshane nam,' ukucebisa ngomtshato kwi-Intanethi yenye indlela onokucinga ngayo. Nokuba kule meko, qiniseka ukuba ujonga zonke ezi zinto zingasentla ngaphambi kokuba uzigqibele.
Umnqweno omhle!