Umxholo
- Amava am
- Ke, angenza ntoni amadoda? Banokujongana njani nabafazi babo abakhulelweyo?
- Yiba bhetyebhetye
- Yiba nomonde kwaye uqonde
- Rhoqo mxelele ukuba mhle kwaye uyamthanda
Ukukhulelwa, elo xesha lihle kubomi bomfazi xa siva imizimba yethu isenza izinto ezithile ezimangalisayo; sikhula ubomi ngaphakathi kwethu! Kwabo bethu banabantwana, siyazi ukuba '' imilingo '' ayisiyiyo eyona nto ichazayo; Sinqwenela iintlobo zokutya ezahlukeneyo kwaye siye sathandeka kakhulu ngaso.
Umzimba womfazi udlula kutshintsho olumangalisayo ngexesha elifutshane kakhulu.
Amanqaku okwelula awamnandanga, kodwa ngokwenene lolona tshintsho lwangaphakathi lolona lungaqhelekanga. Sijika kwimood siye kwiimood ezifana neTarzan emdiliyeni kwaye uninzi lwabasetyhini luba nesicaphucaphu esikhubazayo ubuncinci iinyanga ezintathu zokuqala ukuba azikho ngaphezulu. Siyadinwa, sibuhlungu kwaye siqale ukuhamba.
Mhlawumbi eyona nto imangalisayo kuzo zonke yiminqweno yokukhulelwa kunye nokuzonda ukutya. Kuyo yonke le nto, abayeni bethu abahluphekileyo kufuneka basikhathalele kwaye banelise iinkanuko zethu.
Kodwa, umbuzo apha ngowokuba uqala nini umnqweno wokukhulelwa? Kuyaphawuleka ukuba ukugula kwasekuseni kunye neminqweno yokukhulelwa ivela ngaxeshanye, ihlala iiveki zokuqala ezi-3-8 zokukhulelwa.
Ngoku, uninzi lwabasetyhini, ukuthanda ukukhulelwa kwehla ngokwamacandelo amane-amnandi, athambisa, anetyuwa, kwaye amuncu. Phantse, i-50-90% yabasetyhini base-US banomdla wokukhulelwa ongaqhelekanga.
Ke, ungayenza njani indoda ukuba ikuqonde ukukhulelwa kunye neminqweno yokukhulelwa eqhelekileyo eza nayo?
Amava am
Xa ndandikhulelwe unyana wam, kwasekuqaleni ndandifuna ukutya okuhambisa amanzi.
Ngombulelo, ibinguJuni ke umyeni wam bekufuneka rhoqo eze nevatala yasekhaya kunye neekomkomere xa ebuya emsebenzini. Babukuphela kokutya okunokuzolisa isicaphucaphu (ngaphandle kokugula kwasekuseni, enkosi kuThixo). Malunga neenyanga ezimbini, iiveki ezimbini bendinokutya imacaroni kunye netshizi.
Iminqweno yokukhulelwa yatshintsha rhoqo kwaye yayiza kusuka ekufuneni isinamon yonke into ngolunye usuku iye kubisi yetshokholethi elandelayo; Ikota yesithathu yayiyimbiza eyosiweyo ngendlela enkulu.
Ngethamsanqa, andinguye omnye wabo bafazi babefuna indibaniselwano yokutya engaqhelekanga (njenge-cream cream kunye ne-pickles okanye isosi eshushu kwi-vanilla ice cream) okanye i-pica (umnqweno onamandla wokungadli njenge-ice, itshokhwe, okanye ukungcola) kwaye Umyeni ebezoqinisekisa ukuba ndiyayifumana le nto ndiyifunayo kuba ngamanye amaxesha isicaphucaphu siya kuba sibi kangangokuba nantoni na endiyirhalelayo ibiya kuba yiyo kuphela into endiza kuyitya ngala mini.
Ke, angenza ntoni amadoda? Banokujongana njani nabafazi babo abakhulelweyo?
Eyona nto intle ukuba indoda iyenze xa umfazi wabo ekhulelwe kwaye unqwenela okanye unqabile kukufumana indlela yokuhlala.
Nantsi indlela yokujongana nomfazi wakho okhulelweyo:
Yiba bhetyebhetye
Elona khondo lilungileyo lesenzo kukuba ubhetyebhetye.
Uya kuyifumana loo mnxeba xa ubuya emsebenzini ngenxa yobisi lweMcDonald okanye uvuswe ezinzulwini zobusuku ukuba ubalekele eWalmart ngesaladi yeziqhamo kunye neMarshmallow Fluff.
Thatha yonke into ngokungxama kuba izinto ziyatshintsha ngokukhawuleza.
Amathuba okuba uphuhlise iimpawu zovelwano- kubandakanya ukuthanda kwakho (umyeni wam wayefuna iSour Patch Kids kakhulu ukukhulelwa).
Mhlawumbi eyona nto kunzima ukujongana nayo kukuthintela ukutya. Andikhumbuli ndinayo nayiphi na into (echaza ukuba kutheni ndifumene i-40lbs.), Kodwa uninzi lwabasetyhini luyayenza-ngakumbi kwikota yokuqala. Madoda, yibani nomonde apha kuba kunokwenzeka ukuba kuphekwe inyama / intlanzi / amatswele / imifuno ebethelelweyo / ioyile / amaqanda aya kuthumela umfazi wakho ukuba aye kwigumbi lokuhlambela. Inokwenza ukuphuma nzima kwaye umyeni athethe ngexesha lokukhulelwa akunakunceda. Umhlobo osenyongweni wenza inzondo kwiBuffalo Wild Wings, ke ayibange isaya kuba yimidlalo yeHockey okwexeshana.
Ukukhulelwa kudala imo yendalo yokujoja. Ivumba lenjini yedizili enesiqingatha semayile phambi kwakho emotweni linokusenza ukuba isisu sayo sijike. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu, asazi ukuba sinokuthiyile kwinto ethile de sidibane nayo.
Yiba nomonde kwaye uqonde
Ukujongana nomfazi wakho okhulelweyo kubandakanya ukuba nomonde, ubhetyebhetye, kunye nokupha.
Khumbula ukuba konke kufanelekile, kwaye emva kwesiphithiphithi sokuba nomntwana omtsha uhleli phantsi, wena kunye nenkosikazi yakho ninokuhleka kamnandi xa nithanda ibhekoni esongelwe ngejalapeno poppers.
Rhoqo mxelele ukuba mhle kwaye uyamthanda
Madoda, yazini ukuba inkosikazi yakho iyatshintsha emzimbeni ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwayo. Yongeza kuyo, konke ukugula kwasekuseni, isicaphucaphu kunye neminqweno. Ukukhulelwa akukho lula kuye kwaye uyayidinga yonke inkxaso nothando lwakho. Mqinisekise ukuba ucinga ukuba mhle kwaye umthanda kakhulu. Phinda uqiniseke kuye kangangoko unakho ukuze azi ukuba uyakhathala.
Kwakhona, bambalwa abanye abantu basetyhini abangenakunqwenela ukukhulelwa. Kodwa, akukho nto inokukhathazeka malunga nemeko enjalo kwaphela. Kuyatshiwo ukuba ukuthanda ukukhulelwa kwenzeka ngenxa yokusilela kwezimbiwa okanye iivithamini ezithile ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Ziqwalasele ukuba usikelelekile ukuba umfazi wakho ungoyena unethamsanqa!