Umxholo
- Inkqubela phambili ukusuka kwezothando ukuya kuthando lokwenene kunye nenkxalabo
- Qhubeka ngezipho ezizodwa nezisuka entliziyweni
- 1. Igolide yatywinwa
- 2. Ifreyimu eyenzelwe wena
- 3. Ikhondom
- 4. Ikhekhe
- 5. Ibhokisi yeleta yothando
Uyayazi imincili ubudlelwane entsha? Xa yonke into iziva intle kwaye iyonwabisa? Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo uhleka ixesha elide kwiprank yabo, uthatha ixesha elininzi unxiba usuku, okanye uzame ukungangxengxi okokuqala kodwa ucinga ukuba uya kuyithiya.
Uzifumana wonwabile ngulo mntu mtsha, eguqula ilizwi lakhe ngalinye, ecamngca ngabo imini yonke. Kukulungele ukukhawuleza kwindawo yolwalamano.
Inkqubela phambili ukusuka kwezothando ukuya kuthando lokwenene kunye nenkxalabo
Nangona kwenye indawo iphumile indlela, ubutsha kunye nengxwabangxwaba ziqala ukuphuma. Inkqubela phambili yayo ukusuka kwezothando ukuya kuthando lokwenene kunye nenkxalabo. Eli lixesha apho imilingo idlula khona. Nangona usenokuzifumana ulukhumbula ngokungathethekiyo ulonwabo owawunalo xa wawuthandana ekuqaleni.
Sukuba nexhala lokuba kukho ezinye zeembono zesipho esimangalisayo esiya kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo sibuyise iintlantsi kubudlelwane bakho kwaye siphinde siqaqambe. Kuphela ngenxa yokuba iintlantsi zitshisile akuthethi ukuba abanakutshiswa.
Ukunikezela kwingcali yokuthandana uMadeleine Mason, ukugcina iintlantsi ziphila zifuna izinto ezimbini ezibalulekileyo ezizezi, ulwalamano kunye nokuphuculwa kobudlelwane.
Ukugcina ubudlelwane ngokusisiseko kuthetha izinto eziqhelekileyo ekufuneka uzenzile, njengokuthenga eziya kwiqabane lakho nangona abantu abaninzi bengazikhathazi malunga nophuculo olubaluleke kakhulu.
Ukucwangcisela uhambo lweholide, ukulungisa ikhaya kunye nomnye, ukuququzelela usuku lwendalo, ukubhengeza indima edlalwa kwigumbi lokulala, ukukhumbula imihla yokuzalwa okanye izikhumbuzo ngekhekhe elimnandi elilunge kakhulu uku-odola ikeyiki kwiivenkile ezikwi-Intanethi, ukwenza umsitho omncinci Ukubukela ukuzinkcinkca ngeCawa konke kunokubangela ukuphucula ubudlelwane bakho.
Qhubeka ngezipho ezizodwa nezisuka entliziyweni
Isitshixo kukwenza into ekufuneka ikhetheke ngokwaneleyo ukufaka uthando kunye nolonwabo kubudlelwane. Ke, ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungenza ntoni emva koko ungaqhubeka ngezipho ezizodwa nezisuka entliziyweni.
Izipho ngokuqinisekileyo ziya kwenza ukuba zivuselele ubudlelwane bakho kwaye zivuselele iintlantsi kwakhona.
Nazi izimvo zesipho esimangalisayo onokuthi ngaphandle kwesithandabuzo uzinike iqabane lakho ukubuyisa iintlantsi kubudlelwane bakho.
1. Igolide yatywinwa
Ukuba uzimisele ukufaka ngakumbi ukuthandana kubudlelwane bakho emva koko uthathe uncedo lweentyatyambo. Akukho nto ithetha ngothando ngokugqithiseleyo ngaphezu kweeroses. Isimboli ogqibeleleyo wothando, iiroses zizipho ezimangalisayo zeqabane. Ewe, ungathini ukuba ungadibanisa ubuhle berosi enye kunye nobungangamsha begolide?
Irose yigugu elihle elinokuhlala ngonaphakade. Esi sisipho esifanelekileyo onokuthi usibonise kwiqabane lakho ukuze uthethe ngeemvakalelo zakho ezisuka entliziyweni.
Sisipho esifanelekileyo esibonisa ukuba ubudlelwane abupheli ukuba uthando lukhona macala omabini. Ke ngoko, ngokungathandabuzekiyo ungasipha iqabane lakho ukuba lizise iintlantsi kubudlelwane bakho njengale golide igalelwe igolide.
2. Ifreyimu eyenzelwe wena
Isipho esenzelwe wena sibonisa imeko yokusondela.
Ibonisa ukuba umthumeli uncamathele kangakanani na ngokwasemoyeni kumamkeli. Phakathi kwezipho ezenzelwe wena, iifreyimu zeefoto yindlela enobulumko yokukhumbula onke loo mathuba amnandi athe izibini zachitha kunye.
Ke ngoko, unokulihlaziya idangatye lothando ngokunika iqabane lakho isakhelo sefoto esenzelwe wena. Fumana iifoto zenu nobabini ezibhalwe ngaphezulu kwesakhelo sezithombe ngokulandelelana kwazo.
Xa usipha esi sipho kwisiqingatha sakho esingcono, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuzikhumbula zonke iinkumbulo ekufuneka uzichithe kunye nomnye ngaphambili. Le ngcinga iya kunyanzela iqabane lakho ukuba livuselele ubudlelwane.
3. Ikhondom
Ukwabelana ngesondo yeyona nto ibalulekileyo xa kufikwa kumyeni-inkosikazi okanye intombi-ubudlelwane bobudlelwane. Nangona kunjalo, abantu basaziva beneentloni zokuvuma ukuba bafuna ukusondelelana neqabane labo.
Nangona kunjalo, ngokweengcali, isondo siyimfuneko kumyeni-inkosikazi kunye nentombi-ubudlelwane bobudlelwane. Ukuba bekukho umsantsa omkhulu ongakhange ube neentlobano zesini neqabane lakho, ke kukho amathuba aphezulu okuba ubudlelwane bakho bubonakala buthuntu.
Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka wenze into yokubuyisa ezo ntlantsi kubudlelwane bakho. Nika iqabane lakho ipakethe yeekhondom kwaye uxelele ukuba uyafuna nyani ukuvuselela idangatye esele liphelile ngoku.
Esi sipho ngokuqinisekileyo siya kuba sisiqalo esihle kubudlelwane bakho.
4. Ikhekhe
Xa kufikwa kwisipho ekufuneka sibalasele ngokwaneleyo ukuba inyibilikise intliziyo yeqabane lakho kwaye ifake ukonwaba ngakumbi kunye neentlantsi kubudlelwane, ke amaqebengwane sesona sipho sihle.
Yiphungule incasa yomlingane wakho ngokunika ikhekhe yokunkcenkceshela umlomo. Ungaya nakwikhekhe yezithombe njengoko ikhekhe lezithombe lihamba ngoku. Nokuba ukude kwisiqingatha sakho esingcono kwaye ufuna ukumvuyisa, kulula kwakhona kwikhekhe lesipho ngoku-odola kwi-intanethi kwivenkile yekhekhe ekwi-Intanethi.
Ke, qhubela phambili kwaye ufake i-spark kwi-bond yakho ngoku-odola ikeyiki emnandi kwiqabane lakho.
5. Ibhokisi yeleta yothando
Xelela iqabane lakho ukuba kutheni ubathandana ngokunzulu ngokubonisa ingqayi egcwele iileta zothando.
Bhala phantsi iimvakalelo zakho ezisuka entliziyweni kumaphepha ahlukeneyo kwaye ufake kwijagi. Yibonise le nto kwiqabane lakho nokuba kungasa okanye phakathi kobusuku kunye nesipho kwiqabane lakho. Iqabane lakho ngokuqinisekileyo liya kuya liyincome iinzame zakho zokubuyisa intlantsi kulwalamano lwakho.
Kuya kuba kuhle kakhulu ukuba ukubhala phantsi iimvakalelo emaphepheni yeyona ndlela iyeyakho yokubonisa ukuba umthanda kangakanani kwaye umkhathalele iqabane lakho.