Umxholo
- 1. Awunakho ukuphuma ngaphandle kwemvume
- 2. Kulindeleke ukuba usebenze kwaye uhlawule izinto
- 3. Kulindeleke ukuba unyaniseke
- 4. Lungiselela abantwana
- 5. Kulindeleke ukuba ubeke phambili usapho lwakho
- 6. Esi sibini kufuneka sabelane ngamaphupha
- Ukufumana utshintsho kuhlobo lwakho lobomi
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Ubomi obutshatileyo mhlawumbi yinto entsha kuwe, kodwa awunguye owokuqala, kwaye ngethemba lokuba ayiyondoda yokugqibela ukuze usebenze ngenkalipho yokucela umfazi ukuba amtshate. Kodwa-
Ayikho imitshato emibini efanayo.
Ke, apha ukwabelana nawe ngokulindelweyo kuwe.
1. Awunakho ukuphuma ngaphandle kwemvume
Iya kufana neSikolo samaBanga aPhakamileyo kwakhona. Ukhululekile ngakumbi okanye ngaphantsi ukuhlala ubomi bakho ukuba nje umama wakho uyakuvumela. Ngokobuchwephesha, awukhululekanga. Kutheni ucinga ukuba ibizwa ngokuba kukutsalwa?
Ukutsalwa yinkcazo kuthetha ukubopha into (wena) kwenye into (ungumphathi-mama-mfazi omtsha).
Ayinamsebenzi nokuba yindlu yakho kwaye yimali yakho ehlawula amatyala kunye nokugcina ifriji. Awunakwenza nto ngaphandle kwemvume yomfazi wakho. Sukuba nexhala, isebenza ngazo zombini ezi ndlela, ifuna imvume yokwenza nantoni na. Konke malunga nokunxibelelana nokuqonda.
2. Kulindeleke ukuba usebenze kwaye uhlawule izinto
Nokuba kubudlelane obuphambili nobukhoboka, omabini amaqela kufuneka atsale ubunzima bawo ukuze bahlale kunye. Kwintsebenziswano elinganayo efana nomtshato, iyafana, ngaphandle kokuba izigqibo ezinkulu zenziwa kunye njengamaqabane. Sebenza kunye ukuzisa i-bacon ekhaya, ukuyiphilisa, ukuyipheka, nokuhlamba izitya.
Iintsapho zesintu zithi kulula ukuba indoda izise ibhekoni ekhaya kwaye umfazi enze okunye.
Kodwa, iintsapho zale mihla zenza yonke into kunye.
Indlela oqhuba ngayo amandla osapho lwakho ixhomekeke kuwe, kwaye akukho ndlela ingcono kunenye. Yinto yokuzikhethela kunye neemeko. Zindlela ezimbini ezahlukeneyo kwindawo endala.
Kungcono ukuba neengxoxo ezinjalo neqabane lakho ngexesha lesigaba sokuzibandakanya kuba akunamsebenzi nokuba sisityebi sakho esicocekileyo okanye ukungcola kuhlwempuzekile, ngoku unyanzelekile ukuba unikele ixesha lakho elininzi kunye nezixhobo kwindlu yakho.
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3. Kulindeleke ukuba unyaniseke
Ewe wonke umntu uyazi ukuba sele ikho, kodwa ukwazi nokwenza izinto ezimbini ezahlukeneyo. Uya kumangaliswa ukuba bangaphi abantu abatshatileyo abakhohlisayo kumaqabane abo.
Ke, ngaphandle kokuba ufuna ukuchitha imali eninzi ukubhiyozela umtshato kunye noqhawulo mtshato, sukutshata ukuba awukwazi ukuhlala uthembekile kwiqabane lakho.Iyaqondakala into yokuba abanye abantu bakufumanisa kunzima ukuba neqabane elinye lokwabelana nabo ngesondo ubomi babo bonke, kodwa umtshato awufanelanga ukuba lula.
Ngoko ke thembeka. Kuphela emva koko unokulindela okufanayo kwiqabane lakho. Ukuba awubathembi ukuba bazigcine izithembiso zabo, ungabatshati nabo.
4. Lungiselela abantwana
Ukufumana i-hitched ayisiyiyo kuphela malunga nabantu ababini abadityaniswe ngokudibeneyo. Endaweni yoko, konke malunga nokwenza usapho olutsha kunye apho izalamane zabo zibe zezakho kwaye ziphinde zenzeke. Abasebukhweni banokuba ngumceli mngeni wokujongana nayo, kodwa leyo yinxalenye yempahla yomtshato.
Ngaphandle, esona sizathu sibalulekileyo sokuba abantu abatshatileyo baqale usapho. Wonke umntu ucinga ukuba nobabini ninabantwana. Akudingeki ukuba yenzeke kwangoko, kodwa yinto elindelwe ziintsapho zakho kumanyano.
Ukwenza iintsana kulula. Ukukhulisa enye luxanduva oluthabathe iminyaka emibini. Iyabiza kwaye ichitha ixesha. Kukwanomvuzo kakhulu okunokuzisa ulonwabo kunye nokuzaliseka kubomi bosapho xa lulonke.
5. Kulindeleke ukuba ubeke phambili usapho lwakho
Xa wawuthandana, kwakukho amaxesha apho wawuzifumana wonqena kakhulu okanye uxakeke kakhulu ukuba ungaphendula umnxeba wenkosikazi yakho yexesha elizayo. Lilo elo ilungelo lakho. Nje ukuba utshatile, izinto ziyatshintsha-Yimpendulo okanye uyafa! Musa ukuzikhathaza ngekratshi lakho njengendoda. Ayinyathelwa xa ukwikhonkco yomfazi wakho kwaye ubiza.
Indoda yokwenene imi ngokuzibophelela kwayo.
Wenza eso sithembiso xa utshata umntu. Ayithethi ngekratshi lomntu. Indoda engayihoyi inkosikazi yayo ayisiyo ndoda kwaphela. Uyi-jerk epheleleyo.
Kukho amaxesha apho umfazi enomona ngokungekho ngqiqweni, ekhusela kakhulu, kwaye enezinto. Lo ngumba owahlukileyo, awungekhe uguqule into ongeyiyo. Kodwa ukuba uyamthanda umntu, kuya kufuneka ubazi ngobuntu babo kude ngaphambi kokuba utshate naye.
Sukulindela ukuba abantu batshintshe kuba ubatshatisile. Ngaphandle kwefani yakhe, usengulaa mntu mnye. Nxibelelana kwaye uphinde umisele ubudlelwane bakho.
Abantu abatshatileyo bafanele ukuhamba kunye kwicala elinye.
Kuyanceda kakhulu ukuba ujonge kwimephu enye.
6. Esi sibini kufuneka sabelane ngamaphupha
Ukuthetha ngokuhamba kwicala elinye, ngoku niyinto enye. Emehlweni orhulumente nakwibhanki, uthathwa njengomntu omnye. Mininzi imithetho yasekuhlaleni ephatha isibini esitshatileyo njengeziko elinye.
Njengesibini, ukuba ufuna umtshato wakho ubenalo naliphi na ithuba lokusebenza, kuya kufuneka ube neenjongo ezifanayo zobomi. Kufuneka ibe sisicwangciso esithile nesineenkcukacha eninqwenela ukusiphumeza nobabini. Ukuba nobabini ninendlela eyahlukileyo yomsebenzi, qinisekani ukuba niyancedana ngakumbi xa usongeza uxanduva lokukhulisa abantwana kumxube.
Ukwabelana ngomthwalo weenjongo zakho kunye nokuba ngumzali kunyanzelekile ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasengqondweni.
Amadini ayimfuneko ukuze ilingane yonke into ngosuku. Ukuba unomdla malunga noko kufuneka kwenziwe idini ngako, funda icandelo elidlulileyo kwakhona.
Ukufumana utshintsho kuhlobo lwakho lobomi
Ukuba ufunda yonke into kwaye uyishwankathele yonke, wena nenkosikazi yakho nisengangumntu ofanayo emva kokuba nenze izifungo, kodwa indlela eniphila ngayo kufuneka itshintshe.
Ukudibana, ukutshata, ukubopha iqhina, okanye naziphi na izikweko esinazo, ekupheleni kosuku, kukuzibophelela nje. Senza isibhambathiso, sayisayina igama lethu, kwaye sathembisa ukuma neqabane lethu yonke imihla yethu.