Umxholo
- 1. Chaza into oyifunayo
- 2. Ukuqonda ukwahluka kwe-intanethi
- 3. Qonda "inkcubeko yewebhusayithi"
- 4. Funda ngendlela yokuzibonakalisa kwi-intanethi
- 5. Funda ukubhala
- Musa ukuzilahlela
- Thetha ngqo “Kodwa ungathethi”
- Akukho migca yeveni (yamadoda)
Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, ukufumana ii-hookups kufuna umgudu. Uyenzile uhlala, nokuba uwedwa, okanye ngoncedo lomhlobo.
Namhlanje, unokufumana ikhonkco ngaphandle kwexesha. Ungayenza ngokuthandana kwi-Intanethi. Kwaye unokwenza oko ukusuka kwinduduzo kwigumbi lakho lokulala. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyayenza kwi-Intanethi, uqonde ukuba yahluke kakhulu kwilizwe lokwenyani. Kwaye oku kuthetha ukuba icebo lokuthathwa ngokwesiko alisebenzi (ubukhulu becala).
Ke, ndenza ntoni? Qhubeka ufunda, kwaye siza kukunceda.
Apha ngezantsi kukho amanyathelo asisiseko ama-5 ngendlela yokufumana i-hookup engaqhelekanga kwi-Intanethi (nokuba kokokuqala)!
1. Chaza into oyifunayo
Ngokumangalisayo, ayingabo bonke abantu abachaza ii-hookups ngendlela efanayo. Nangona kunjalo, kuyaqondwa ukuba kubandakanya uhlobo oluthile lomzimba. Ke ukwanga, isini, njl. Phambi kokuya kwi-Intanethi, chaza imida yakho (ibaluleke kakhulu kubafazi).
Qonda ukuba kutheni unxibelelana, kwaye uyichaza njani. Umzekelo, ngaba uyenzela ukufumana umntu onokuthetha naye? Okanye uyenzela "umhlobo onezibonelelo?"
2. Ukuqonda ukwahluka kwe-intanethi
Ewe, akukho hlobo lunye kuphela lokukhangela indawo. Unayo "indawo yokukhangela i-niche," eyenzelwe iimfuno ezahlukeneyo. Umzekelo, unokuzama indawo ezithandanayo zokuthandana. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuthanda kwakho kunokuba yinto exotic, okanye, ungazama iisayithi ze-BDSM (ukuba yinto yakho leyo).
Akukho Ntloni-yiBuffet evulekileyo. Kwaye yenye yezinto ezintle kwi-intanethi.
Xa ufunda indlela yokufumana i-intanethi ngokungaqhelekanga, akukho mfuneko yokufihla nantoni na. Fumana iiwebhusayithi ezifanelekileyo, kwaye uthethe ukuba ungubani. Kwaye kwangoko, uyakufumana abantu ababelana ngezinto ozithandayo.
Kwaye uthetha ngokufumana iwebhusayithi ...
3. Qonda "inkcubeko yewebhusayithi"
Ayizizo zonke iisayithi ezenzelwe ii-hookups. Ezinye zezobudlelwane bexesha elide kunye nomtshato. Abanye bakhethekileyo (basebenzela uluntu njenge-LGBTQ).
Khetha iindawo ezifanelekileyo. Awufuni ukuchitha iiveki uzama ukufumana indawo engafanelekanga.
Imizekelo -
Unayo iwebhusayithi efana neTinder. Ayisiyo iwebhusayithi yolwalamano lwexesha elide. Ukuba ikhona into, kufana nomthengisi "wokutya okukhawulezayo" wokuthandana. Yaziwa ke kwihlabathi lokuthandana online njengenethiwekhi yokungena.
Khangela ekuhlaleni! Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uhambe ungena kwindawo ekungena kuyo. Qinisekisa ukuba xa ukhangela, kungaphakathi kwidilesi ekufutshane. Uya kuzigcinela imali kunye neeyure ezingeyomfuneko kwiinkqubo zothutho.
4. Funda ngendlela yokuzibonakalisa kwi-intanethi
Esi sisitshixo sokufumana umdlalo. Ukuba ujongeka udidekile kwaye unenceba, akukho mntu uya kufuna ukuba nawe. Kodwa ukuba unomdla, abantu baya kudibana nawe.
Kuthekani ukuba andinamdla? Emva koko sebenza ngokwakho ngaphambi kokukhangela ii-online hookups. Ukuba uphelelwe yimilo, sebenza kuloo nto. Okanye, ukuba uziva ngathi awunazinto zokuzonwabisa ezinomdla, sebenzela kuloo nto.
Inqaku yile, xa ulala phezulu, wenza njalo ngenxa yezinto ezi-1 kwezi-2-
- Inkangeleko yakho
- Indlela ophila ngayo
Ukuba awuzange usikelelwe ngenkangeleko yosaziwayo, yazi ukuba indlela yakho yokuphila iphinda iqale. Kwaye ukungabikho kwendlela yokuphila enomdla kuya kugxotha uninzi lweekhonkco ozama ukuzifumana.
5. Funda ukubhala
Ewe ukuthumela imiyalezo (njengolwimi lomzimba) sisakhono sokufezekisa. Kukho ixesha, indlela obhala ngayo, kunye nethoni ngasemva kweetekisi zakho. Apha ngezantsi kunemithetho embalwa elula ukuyigcina engqondweni xa ubhala imiyalezo ...
Sukuphendula kwimizuzwana yokuthunyelwa umyalezo. Awunguye umsebenzi wabathengi. Endaweni yoko, yinike ixesha. Imizuzu embalwa (okanye iyure) phambi kokuba impendulo ilungile. Vary ixesha lakho lokuphendula. Kwaye kwinkqubo, thetha ukuba uneshedyuli, apho ukwi-Intanethi ngamaxesha athile.
Yiba ngqo. Nyaniseka, kwaye uthethe ngokucacileyo. Kukuzisela imbeko ngakumbi kumathemba. Ukuthe ngqo kubeka ulindelo olucacileyo phakathi kwakho nomnye umntu. Ke kulula ukuziqonda iimfuno zabanye kunye nokuseta imihla.
Okokuqala, azisebenzi kwincoko. Basebenza kuphela ngoku (ukuba bakhe bakho).
Okwesibini, zi-corny kwaye zinomntwana. Ukuthathwa licebo elidala elisetyenzisiweyo kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo kwaye bekuyindlela yokufa kangangeminyaka.
Ayizukukunceda ufumane i-hookup, ngaphandle kokuba elinye icala linxunguphele.