Umxholo
- "Xa usiva umntu wasetyhini esithi:" Ndilungise xa ndiphazama, kodwa ... "- ungaze umlungise!"
- "Ababini abatshintsha isimo sabo kuFacebook" bodwa "emva komlo omncinci bafana nomntu oza kulwa nabazali bakhe abeke" iNtandane "njengendawo yabo"
- Ubudlelwane bufana nendlu - ukuba isibane siyatsha, awuphumi uyokuthenga indlu entsha; ulungisa ibhalbhu ”
- “Xa ex-exela ukuba awusoze ufumane umntu onjengaye, sukuba noxinzelelo- yiyo loo nto”
Kukho iingcebiso ezimbalwa zobudlelwane obuhlekisayo phaya, uninzi lwenzelwe kuphela ukuhlekisa ngento enokuthi ikuphazamise. Njengalowo ucebisa abantu basetyhini ukuba bafumane indoda ehlekisayo, fumana indoda enomsebenzi olungileyo kwaye ephekayo, eya kuthi imnike izipho, ezothusa ebhedini kwaye ngubani oza kuthembeka- kwaye aqiniseke ukuba ezi amadoda amahlanu zange adibane. Sisikhumbuzo nje sokuba asinakulindela ukuba sivele kumntu omnye. Kodwa, kukho iziqhulo ezimbalwa ezibambe inyani kubo kwaye kufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo. Nantsi ke.
"Xa usiva umntu wasetyhini esithi:" Ndilungise xa ndiphazama, kodwa ... "- ungaze umlungise!"
Eli cebiso linyanzelekile ukuba lenze bobabini isini bahleke iminqwazi yabo, kwaye ngenxa yokuba kuyinyani- kubudlelwane, ukulungisa umfazi, nokuba usebenzisa ibinzana, kuhlala kuyisiqalo sempikiswano ende kakhulu. Kwaye oku akubangelwa kukuba abantu basetyhini abanako ukugxeka. Banga. Kodwa, indlela abanxibelelana ngayo abantu ababhinqileyo namadoda, ngakumbi xa ukugxekwa kujinga emoyeni, yahluke kakhulu.
Amadoda zizidalwa ezinengqiqo. Nangona le ngcamango ingaqhelekanga kwamanye amabhinqa, bathambekele ekungathobeli imiqobo yokucinga okunengqiqo. Ngamanye amagama, xa owasetyhini esithi: "Ndilungise" akathethi oko. Uthetha ukuthi: "Andinakuba ndiphosakele". Kwaye xa umntu esiva: "Ndilungise" uyaqonda ukuba uza kulungisa naziphi na iingcinga okanye iingxelo. Akanguye. Hayi xa uthetha nabasetyhini.
Funda ngokugqithisileyo: Ingcebiso yomtshato oMnandi kuye
Ke, kwixesha elizayo xa umntu esiva intombi yakhe ixelela ukuba iyakwamkela ukulungiswa ukuba ayilunganga, akufuneki iwele emgibeni. Madoda, nangona inokubangela uvakalelo oluncinci lwengqondo egobileyo, nceda uthathe eli cebiso ulithathele ingqalelo, kwaye uyazi-into oyivayo xa kuthethwa ayisiyiyo le ithethwayo.
"Ababini abatshintsha isimo sabo kuFacebook" bodwa "emva komlo omncinci bafana nomntu oza kulwa nabazali bakhe abeke" iNtandane "njengendawo yabo"
Kweli xesha langoku, utyekelo lwethu lwendalo ekuboniseni nasekubeni sisidalwa sentlalontle safumana indawo efanelekileyo - imidiya yoluntu! Kwaye kuyinyani ukuba uninzi luhlala lukhwaza yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini babo emhlabeni phantse ngexesha lokwenyani. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo eli cebiso, njengoko ubudlelwane buhleli, nokuba bangaphi abantu abazi ngabo, yinto yabantu ababini kuphela.
Funda ngokugqithisileyo: Ingcebiso yomtshato oMnandi kuye
Akukho buhlobo bufumana imbeko ebufaneleyo xa ubhengeza kwihlabathi ukuba ubukhe wanomlo omncinci (okanye omkhulu). Nokuba uyintoni na unobangela kunye neqela elinetyala, kuya kufuneka usombulule umba ngokupheleleyo kubucala ngaphambi kokuba ubhengeze okwenzekayo ebomini bakho. Ukuba ayikukhuthazi ngokwaneleyo loo nto, cinga indlela oza kuziva uneentloni ngayo xa kufuneka uyitshintshe ibuyele ku "Kubudlelwane" wakube uphuzile kwaye wenza neqabane lakho kwaye ufumana ukuvuyisana noluntu ngokuba ngumtshintshi onje ngobume.
Ubudlelwane bufana nendlu - ukuba isibane siyatsha, awuphumi uyokuthenga indlu entsha; ulungisa ibhalbhu ”
Ewe ikhona nenye inguqulelo yeli cebo kwi-intanethi, ehamba into enje: “Ngaphandle kokuba indlu ilele * * * apho ke uyitshise indlu uyothenga entsha, ebhetele” . Kodwa masiqwalasele kule, sicinge ukuba kuphela ibhalbhu engalunganga endlwini.
Kuyinyani, akufuneki ube ngqongqo kwaye ulindele ukuba iqabane lakho liya kuba lililo. Nawe awunguye. Ke, ukuba kukho ingxaki kubudlelwane bakho, khangela iindlela zokuyilungisa, endaweni yokugxeka ubudlelwane obupheleleyo. Njani? Unxibelelwano ngoyena ndoqo, asinakuze sikwazi ukugxininisa ngokwaneleyo. Thetha intetho yentetho, kwaye uhlale uzithemba.
“Xa ex-exela ukuba awusoze ufumane umntu onjengaye, sukuba noxinzelelo- yiyo loo nto”
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, nantsi enye eya kukunika into oyifunayo xa usophula umntu. Ukwahlukana kunzima, njalo. Kwaye, ukuba ubudlelwane babunzulu, uya kuhlala unamathandabuzo ngokushiya iqabane lakho. Kwaye, iqabane lihlala lisabela kwiindaba ngale ndlela ichazwe apha ngasentla, ezinokwenza kube nzima kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, xa uthathe isigqibo sokwahlulahlula izinto, usenokukhetha ukhetho njengesiphumo sokuqwalaselwa ngononophelo kwaye ngenxa yomehluko ongenakukunyamezela. Inqaku leli-kukungafumani isoka / intombi efanayo neyakho yakudala, enemicimbi efanayo, ke sukuba noxinzelelo kuyo!