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Umxholo
- Ukuhlala nomyeni olinxila
- Iziphumo zotywala kusapho
- Uxinzelelo
- Ingxaki yonxibelelwano
- Ukungakhathali
- Ubundlobongela
- Unxibelelwano losapho
- Ungayinceda njani indoda enotywala-ukunika elinye ithuba
- Zama ukuthetha neqabane lakho
- Sebenzani kunye
- Iingcebiso ngokuqhawula umtshato nendoda enxila
- Ukhuseleko losapho
- Fumana igqwetha elilungileyo
- Qokelela bonke ubungqina obufunekayo
- Ubomi emva koqhawulo-mtshato
Kuphantse ezinzulwini zobusuku kwaye ulindele ukuba umyeni wakho abuye ekhaya. Emva kweeyure ezimbalwa, uyenza kodwa uyaliva ivumba elinamandla lotywala kuye, uyanxila- kwakhona.
Utywala yingxaki exhaphakileyo namhlanje ingakumbi phakathi kwabantu abatshatileyo. Ukonyuka okukhwankqisayo kotywala kunike indlela ukwanda kwesicelo soqhawulo mtshato ngesizathu esinye.
Uqhawulo mtshato aluzange lube lula kodwa kunzima kabini ukuba uqhawula umtshato notywala. Ukuba ucinga ukuba wenze konke ukusindisa umtshato wakho kwaye ekuphela kwendlela onokuyenza kukufaka uqhawulo-mtshato, kuya kufuneka ulungele ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwengqondo, ngokwezimali nangokweemvakalelo.
Ukuhlala nomyeni olinxila
Ukuba utshatile ulikhoboka lotywala, ke uyazazi iingxaki ezinzulu ezibangelwa kukusetyenziswa gwenxa kotywala emtshatweni nakusapho lwakho.
Ngapha koko, oku kunokuba sele kukubangele uxinzelelo, iingxaki zemali, abantwana bakho bayachaphazeleka, kwaye abanye bade badandatheke.
Ukuhlala nomyeni olinxila yinto kwaye ngekhe kube lula kodwa into elungileyo apha kukuba kukho iindlela apho elinye iqabane linokuthi libonise oku njengobungqina ukuze ithathelwe ingqalelo njengesizathu sokuqhawula umtshato neqabane elinxila.
Iziphumo zotywala kusapho
"Umyeni wam ulinxila", ayothusi le nto kwabanye. Ngapha koko, yinto eqhelekileyo namhlanje apho iintsapho, imitshato kunye nabantwana bachaphazeleka ngenxa yotywala.
Ukutshata Iqabane lotywala ikubeka kwimeko enzima kakhulu ingakumbi xa sele unabo abantwana. Iziphumo zokuba nomyeni onxilisayo ayizizo izinto ezimele ukungahoywa njengoko zinokuya kwingxaki enzulu ngakumbi.
Nazi ezinye zeziphumo eziqhelekileyo zokuba neqabane elinxila:
Uxinzelelo
Ukujongana neqabane elinxila luxinzelelekile. Ayizukujongana neqabane lakho eligodukayo lingena ekhaya linxilile kodwa kufuneka ulinyamekele kwaye ujongane nezinto anokuzenza.
Ukubona abantwana bakho beshumayela le mihla yonke ayisiyiyo eyona ntsapho ifanelekileyo esinokufuna ukuba nayo.
Ingxaki yonxibelelwano
Ukuba ukwimeko apho uhlala neqabane lakho lotywala, kunokwenzeka ukuba, sele ukhathele yonke into esemandleni akho ukuthetha nalo mntu kwaye usahleli unengxaki efanayo.
Ukunqongophala konxibelelwano, ukuzibophelela kunye nephulo lokutshintsha liza kuyenza mandundu imeko.
Ukungakhathali
Uninzi lwabantu abanengxaki yokusela utywala baya kuba bangakhathali ngeendlela ezininzi. Njengomlingane kunye nomzali, ukubeka utywala njengeyona nto iphambili ebomini bakho kuya kwenza ukuba umntu angabikho ngokwezemali nangokweemvakalelo kweli qabane nakubantwana.
Ubundlobongela
Okulusizi kukuba ukuhlala nomntu ophethwe butywala kukwathetha ukuzibeka engozini kunye nabantwana bakho.
Zininzi abantu ababa nobundlobongela kwimpembelelo yotywala kwaye oku kuya kubeka wena nabantwana bakho emngciphekweni omkhulu. Esi sesona sizathu sixhaphakileyo sokuba uqhawulo-mtshato oluthe kratya lolona khetho lulungileyo kwabanye.
Unxibelelwano losapho
Wonke umntu ufuna ukuba nosapho olonwabileyo kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, Ukuqhawula umtshato neqabane elinxila yeyona nto unokuyenza ngakumbi xa ubona ukuba usapho lwakho luyawa ngenxa yokusetyenziswa gwenxa kotywala.
Xa ubona ukuba unxibelelwano lwakho njengendoda nomfazi alusalawulwa luthando nentlonipho, xa ubona ukuba iqabane lakho alisengomzekelo kwaye lingumzali wabantwana bakho, lixesha lokuba uthathe isigqibo.
Ungayinceda njani indoda enotywala-ukunika elinye ithuba
Ngamaxesha amaninzi, Ukuqhawula umtshato nomyeni onxila ayisiyiyo indlela yokuqala yokukhetha abantu abatshatileyo. Njengengxenye yokuba yindoda nomfazi, kusengumsebenzi wethu ukwandisa uncedo esinokukunika ukulungisa umtshato.
Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo sokushiya ikhoboka lotywala kufuneka kuqala zama ngako konke okusemandleni akho ukunceda njani umyeni olikhoboka lotywala.
Zama ukuthetha neqabane lakho
Yonke into iqala ngonxibelelwano. Thetha neqabane lakho kuba yonke into iqala ngokuzimisela ukunxibelelana.
Ukuba kukho ingxaki ngobuhlobo bakho ebangela ukuba iqabane lakho libuyele etywaleni, lixesha lokuba ulungise ingxaki.
Nika uncedo kwaye ubuze oko akufunayo
Ukuba kukho ukuzimisela, kukho indlela yokoyisa utywala. Yiba neenjongo ezithile ebomini - yiya kwiinjongo ezincinci kunye neziqinisekileyo onokuzifikelela.
Sebenzani kunye
Yiba liqabane elixhasayo. Ukubamba okanye ukunyanzela iqabane lakho ukuba litshintshe ngokukhawuleza akunakulunga. Mxhase ngonyango. Funa uncedo lweengcali xa kufuneka njalo. Kuthatha ixesha kodwa ngeqabane elinothando nelixhasayo- nayiphi na injongo inokufezekiswa.
Iingcebiso ngokuqhawula umtshato nendoda enxila
Ukuba ufike kwinqanaba lokuba uzame yonke into kwaye ubone ukuba akukho ndlela yokulungisa umtshato wakho, kuya kufuneka uyifumane yonke iingcebiso malunga nokuqhawula umtshato kumyeni olinxila.
Oku kubalulekile njengoko iimeko zoqhawulo mtshato ezahlukileyo zifuna indlela ecikizekileyo kulowo nalowo.
Ukhuseleko losapho
Ukwahlukana nomntu onxilisayo kuyingxaki enkulu kuba umntu esele enayo ukuxhomekeka etywaleni kuya kuba semngciphekweni wokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi kwaye oku kungakhokelela kubundlongondlongo.
Utywala bunokujika indoda enengqiqo ibe nobundlobongela kwaye oku kunokuchaphazela kakhulu ukhuseleko losapho lwakho. Funa uncedo kwaye ufumane umyalelo wokhuselo ukuba uyafuneka.
Fumana igqwetha elilungileyo
Igqwetha elilungileyo liya kukunceda kwinkqubo yoqhawulo-mtshato kwaye ngakumbi ekunikezeleni ukuqonda malunga noqhawulo-mtshato kunye nemithetho yelizwe lakho malunga notywala kunye nezizathu zokuba unakho ukufaka ifayile yoqhawulo mtshato.
Qokelela bonke ubungqina obufunekayo
Ukuba ufuna ukuqhawula umtshato notywala, kufuneka uqokelele bonke ubungqina bokuba ufuna ukulixhasa ibango.
Amazwe ahlukeneyo anemithetho eyahlukeneyo ekufuneka siyilandele Kananjalo nokuxhasa ibango lethu ngakumbi xa usilwela ilungelo lokugcina abantwana ababandakanyekayo.
Ubomi emva koqhawulo-mtshato
Ubomi bakho emva koqhawulo-mtshato notywala bukwabalulekile njengenkqubo yoqhawulo-mtshato uqobo. Sisiqalo esitsha esinzima kuwe nakubantwana kodwa Esi sigqibo yeyona nto ibhetele onokuyenza wena kunye nabantwana bakho.
Ubomi buza kuza nemiceli mngeni emitsha kodwa ukuba nje unayo into efunekayo ukuze uphile uya kuba nesiqalo esihle.
Ukwahlukana notywala kukwathetha ukuziyeka izifungo zakho kunye nomntu obukade umthanda kodwa esi sigqibo siyimfuneko ngakumbi xa impilo yosapho lwakho isemngciphekweni.
Logama nje uyazi ukuba uzame konke okusemandleni akho, emva koko akufuneki uzive unetyala ngokususa lo mntu ebomini bakho.