Umxholo
- Uqhawulo mtshato kunye nezinye iindlela zokucebisa
- Kwenzeka ntoni kwiseshoni eqhelekileyo?
- Yintoni enokuyenza kuwe ukucebisa ngoqhawulo mtshato?
- Ungamfumana njani oyena mcebisi uqhawule umtshato
Usenokuba ukhe weva ngokucebisa ngoqhawulo mtshato ngaphambili. Sukuyixuba kunye neengcebiso ngaphambi koqhawulo-mtshato okanye iingcebiso ngoqhawulo mtshato.
Ukucebisa ngoqhawulo mtshato yinto eyahlukileyo eballgame kwaye yenzelwe ukukunceda emva kokuba ugqibe yonke inkqubo yezomthetho kwaye ekugqibeleni uqhawule umtshato.
Ngoku, unokucinga-ndiphumile emtshatweni, kutheni emhlabeni ndingafuna ukufumana iingcebiso ngoku!
Nangona kunjalo, ukululekwa ngoqhawulo-mtshato kwahluke kakhulu kunyango loqhawulo-mtshato kunye nezinye iindlela zokucebisa izibini. Kwaye, kunokuzisa izibonelelo ezininzi kumdala wakho, kubantwana bakho, nakuwe.
Nalu uluvo olufutshane lwento eyenzekayo kucebiso ngoqhawulo mtshato kwaye kutheni ungafuna ukuqaphela ukuyifumana.
Uqhawulo mtshato kunye nezinye iindlela zokucebisa
Funda kunye ukuze uqonde umohluko kunye nokufana kokucebisa ngoqhawulo-mtshato okanye unyango loqhawulo-mtshato kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo zokucebisa
Unokuba namava okuqala ngokufumana iingcebiso.
Nokuba ubunazo okanye ubeneeseshoni zobuqu kunye nonyango lokujongana nemicimbi yakho malunga noqhawulo-mtshato okanye ngokubanzi, okanye wena kunye nowakwangaphambili ninike izibini unyango ngaphambi kokuba umtshato upheliswe, ukucebisa ngoqhawulo-mtshato kuya kungafani noko.
Ngokungafaniyo nezinye iindlela zonyango, eyona nto kugxilwe kuyo kukufumana izisombululo kunokujongana neengxabano zakho zangaphakathi okanye amathandabuzo.
Ukucebisa ngomtshato luhlobo lonyango lwezibini ezijolise ekuthinteleni uqhawulo-mtshato. Bayakufundisa abatshatileyo ukuba babonisane ngeemfuno zabo kunye nokudana ngokuzithemba kunye nokufumana iindlela zokwenza ubudlelwane busebenze.
Okanye, kwiimeko apho ukwahlukana kubonakala kungenakuphepheka, ugqirha wezomtshato uya kujolisa ekulungiseleleni omabini amaqabane ukuba aqhubeke nenkqubo ngokutyibilikayo, egxile kwisayikholojhe yolo tshintsho lubalulekileyo ebomini.
Ngoku, yintoni ukucebisa ngoqhawulo mtshato?
Iingcebiso ngoqhawulo mtshato kwizibini ezitshatileyo zikwakhokelwa ziingcali zonyango ezinelayisensi. Okwangoku, kugxilwe ngoku ayisiyiyo indlela yokunceda ubudlelwane obuthandanayo buphile, kodwa indlela yokwenza ukuba isebenze phantsi kweemeko ezintsha.
Ngamanye amagama, umcebisi woqhawulo mtshato okanye ingcali yokuqhawula umtshato uya kuwanceda omabini amaqabane ukuba afunde kwiimpazamo zawo kwaye angaziphindi, aqonde oonobangela beengxabano eziqhubekayo, kwaye afumane iindlela zokuphumelela ngokwahlukeneyo kwaye ahloniphane.
Kwenzeka ntoni kwiseshoni eqhelekileyo?
Ukwenza oku kubonakale ngakumbi, makhe sixoxe ngeseshoni enye yesiqhelo. Esi sibini siqhawule umtshato emva kokucebisa ngoqhawulo-mtshato siya kuhlala sifumana iingxaki ezimbalwa eziphindaphindayo kunye neengxabano.
Masithi isivumelwano soqhawulo-mtshato sithi utata uya kuba nabantwana ngeempelaveki, kwaye nomama uququzelela ixesha lakhe ngendlela yokuba enze lonke ixesha lakhe lokuzonwabisa ngelo xesha.
Ukanti, utata uhlala etshintsha ishedyuli, esenza ukuba umama angalisebenzisi ixesha lakhe ngendlela ayithandayo. Oku kubangela imilo emininzi, kwaye inzondo iyanda.
Ekucebiseni ngoqhawulo-mtshato, umcebisi uya kuqala enze oko bacinga, ukuziva nokwenza nokwenziwa kule meko. Oko kukuthi, iingcinga zikamama notata ziya kuziswa phezulu kwaye zihlalutywe.
Kukho izinto ezifihlakeleyo ezibangela ukugqwetha kwengqondo kuthi sonke esinamava, kwaye ezi ziya kulungiswa. Emva koko, umcebisi uya kugxila ekwenzeni omabini amaqabane ukuba aqonde elinye icala lebali kwaye ke ngaloo ndlela bafumane isiqabu kumsindo wabo nasekukhathazekeni.
Kananjalo, oku kuyakuvula indlela ekhangela esona sisombululo sisiso kuye wonke umntu obandakanyekayo.
Umcebisi uzakusikhokela esi sibini siyeke ukuhlalutya okungapheliyo malunga nokucinga ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kwingqondo yabo bakudala kodwa bagxile ekufumaneni isisombululo esisebenzayo, esisebenzayo kubo nakubantwana ngokunjalo.
Umzekelo, umama unokuqiniseka ngokungachananga ukuba utata wenza loo nto ngenjongo yokumthintela ukuba angadibani nomntu omtsha.
Umcebisi uya kumnceda umama atshintshe ukugxila kuloko kungonelanga acinge ukuba le nkolelo imbangela ukuba azive kwaye enze ntoni, kwaye ingatshintshwa njani ukuze ubushushu bungafudumali mpelaveki nganye.
Kwaye, utata uya kukhokelwa ukuba aqonde ukuba zeziphi na izenzo zakhe ezibangela umama nabantwana. Emva koko baya kuchaza iziphumo abazifunayo, kwaye kuya kufunyanwa isisombululo esisebenzayo.
Yintoni enokuyenza kuwe ukucebisa ngoqhawulo mtshato?
Nokuba ubusele okanye ubona i-Therapist, ukucetyiswa ngoqhawulo-mtshato kunokwenza imimangaliso kubomi bakho kunye nakumaqabane akho angaphambili kunye nonxibelelwano. Okokuqala, inkqubo yokuphilisa emva kokuphulukana neqabane lakho lobomi kunye nazo zonke izicwangciso zakho ekwabelwana ngazo zinokuqala ngale nkqubo yokucebisa.
Le inokuba yindawo efanelekileyo yokuba uhambe unenzondo kwindawo ekhuselekileyo kwaye usombulule yonke imiba ekuthintelayo ukuba uqhubele phambili.
Ngapha koko, umcebisi woqhawulo-mtshato unokukunceda uqaphele ukuba yintoni le uyenzileyo engalunganga kwaye ikuncede ukuthintela ukuphinda-phinda ezo mpazamo-kubudlelwane bakho obutsha kunye nakubudlelwane benu bexesha elizayo.
Okokugqibela, ukucebisa ngoqhawulo-mtshato kuya kunika indawo ekhuselekileyo nengathathi cala ekufumaneni isisombululo esisebenzayo kwaye uphephe ukulwa okungapheliyo kunye nokuchasa.
Bukela le vidiyo ukuba unqwenela ukufunda ukuziqhelanisa noxolelo ngokucamngca:
Ungamfumana njani oyena mcebisi uqhawule umtshato
Ngoku ukuba uyazi ukuba yintoni elungileyo enokukucebisa ngoqhawulo-mtshato kuwe, kwiqabane lakho, nakubantwana bakho, usenokuzibuza ukuba ungayifumana njani ingcali elungileyo yoqhawulo mtshato kufutshane nam.
Ewe, unokukhangela kwi-Intanethi okanye ukhangele i-Therapist eyaziwayo kulawulo. Okanye, unokuqhagamshelana nabahlobo bakho kunye nosapho malunga neengcebiso ezibalulekileyo. Abahlobo bakho okanye usapho kusenokwenzeka ukuba banomntu omaziyo okanye banokufumana iingcebiso ngokwabo.
Kodwa, okokugqibela, zithembele kwimo yakho ngaphambi kokuba ugqibe ngokwakho unyango. Qiniseka ukuba umcebisi uneziqinisekiso ezifanelekileyo kwaye unelayisensi yokuziqhelanisa.
Ukucebisa ngoqhawulo mtshato ayingomlingo. Kungathatha ixesha ukulanda iziphumo ezinqwenelekayo.
Kodwa, wakube uthathe isigqibo sokufumana ingcebiso, bamba ukuthembela kwakho, kwaye ulandele iingcebiso zomcebisi de ufikelele kwisiphelo esingcono kwimeko yakho yangoku.