Umxholo
- Ithambo lempikiswano phakathi kweentsapho ezimbini ngaphakathi kosapho
- Uthando olungelulo olwenziweyo oluvela kumzali womzali akwanelanga
- Ukusilela kokwamkelwa ebantwaneni kwabanye abantwana
- Ukuphucula imeko yongquzulwano
- Umtshato unokuba sengozini
- Abantwana abakhulelwe kunye banokubanga umona kwabanye abantakwabo
- Abantwana abathandanayo bayabothusa
- Ukungakhathali kuzo zombini iziphelo kwezinye iimeko
- Ukuziphatha kakubi kwabantwana be-biological
- Ukuhluthwa kwengqwalaselo
Kuqhelekile ukubona umntu owahlukanisiweyo nabantwana bomtshato wokuqala betshata kwakhona. Ngokophando, kukho iqabane elinye elibopha iqhina okwesibini kwi-40% yemitshato, kwaye omabini amaqabane atshata kwakhona kwi-20% yemitshato.
Iintsapho ezixubileyo ziya kubakho xa abantu ababini sele bengabazali batshata kwakhona.
Ekuqaleni, kumnandi ukuba nabantu abatsha ekuhlaleni kunye nabo. Kumnandi ukwamkela amalungu amatsha kusapho. Emva kwexesha, isenokujika ibe yintlekele engalumkiswanga. Usapho oludityanisiweyo lwabantwana kuthetha ukuba nomzali womzali wesibini, abantakwenu, oomakhulu notatomkhulu, oomalokazana, kunye noomalume. Inye kuphela 'inyathelo lehlabathi' ongena kulo.
Ithambo lempikiswano phakathi kweentsapho ezimbini ngaphakathi kosapho
Iingxaki ezijamelene nosapho oludibeneyo zahlukile.
Abantwana kusapho oluxubeneyo bafumana ukungakhathali kunye neemvakalelo ezibandayo ezivela kumzali wabo wesibini kunye nabantakwabo.
Banokuziphatha ngendlela efanayo kwelinye iqela. Kunokubakho umsantsa phakathi kwamalungu osapho.
Uthando olungelulo olwenziweyo oluvela kumzali womzali akwanelanga
Umntwana usenokungafumani bushushu bufanayo kumzali wabo wesibini abafumana kumzali wabo wokwenyama. Umzekelo, umntwana unokushiyeka yedwa edanile xa kusenziwa umsebenzi wosapho okanye ebash ephoswe ngumzali womzali. Umntwana unokuziva ekhutshiwe kwimeko enjalo.
Ukusilela kokwamkelwa ebantwaneni kwabanye abantwana
Ingaphezulu okanye incinci njengeentsapho ezimbini ezibotshelelwe ukuhlala phantsi kophahla olunye. Olunye usapho lunokuzama ukongamela olunye usapho kwaye kungenjalo. Kuncinci abantwana ukuba bakhulise imeko yokunokwenzeka omnye komnye. Abakhathaleli omnye komnye kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuba akunjalo. Kungayinto ephambili ukuqala ukuqhekeka.
Ukuphucula imeko yongquzulwano
Abantwana banokuzilolongela imo yokhuphiswano kubantakwenu.
Ukusuka ekulweni izinto ezincinci ezinje 'ngubani oyakufumana into yokudlala efakiweyo' kwiingxabano ezinkulu njengokuhanjiswa kwepropathi kunye neeasethi zosapho- nantoni na enokuqhambuka imfazwe yosapho. Imiba emininzi inokuqinisa ukwahlula.
Umtshato unokuba sengozini
Ukuba omabini amaqabane awanabuhlobo nabantwana babanye, kunokwenzeka ukuba bazothe nabo. Umtshato unokuba setyeni nanini na, ngenxa yemicimbi yosapho.
Bobabini indoda nomfazi abanakulonwabela elona xesha lilungileyo kunye nezidubedube endlini. Banokuphulukana nothando omnye komnye kwaye baphelelwe lithemba. Basenokungabi sahlala sisibini esithandanayo.
Abantwana abakhulelwe kunye banokubanga umona kwabanye abantakwabo
Abantwana bemvelo bobabini abazali ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuthandwa kwaye baqubude kuzo zombini iziphelo. Baya kuba ngabona bantu babhiyozelweyo endlwini. Inokubangela umona kunye nemvakalelo yokungazithembi kwabanye abantwana. Bangaziva besoyikiswa ngokungakhathalelwa ngomnye wabazali.
Abantwana abathandanayo bayabothusa
Banokuyithatha njengesiqhelo, umzekelo, banokuba baxokisiwe ngumzali wabo obazalayo ukuba umzali-wesibini akachazi ngokwaneleyo ukubonisa uthando lwabo kuwe naxa bebona into eyenzeka ngokuchaseneyo kwimeko yabantwana abangenabungqina. , abayithathi ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukungakhathali kuzo zombini iziphelo kwezinye iimeko
Ukuba ubukele uthotho lweTv oludumileyo ukusuka ngo-2004, uDrake noJosh, unokuyiqonda ngokulula yonke into exeliweyo ngasentla. UDrake noJosh babeyi-sitcom esekwe kumakhwenkwe amabini aphuma kusapho oludibeneyo. Ngelixa ibonisa ubuhlobo obugqithisileyo phakathi kwabazalanayo, ikwabonisa ukungakhathalelwa kwabo bobabini ngabazali babo.
Ukuziphatha kakubi kwabantwana be-biological
Aba nyana-babhuti balawulwa ngudade wabo ekuphela kwakhe, uMegan, okhulelwe ngabazali bobabini. Nangona yonke into kolu ngcelele iboniswe kwimithambo ekhaphukhaphu, inento eninzi yokwenza nenyani yobomi.
UMegan wayenamandla kubo bobabini. Umntwana osenyangweni akakhange ahoywe okanye abekwe phambili. Bahlala beza emva kwabantwana abanjengoMegan. Ngale ndlela, abantwana abanjengoDrake noJosh banokuphuhlisa imeko enzulu yendawo yokuhlala ebomini bokwenyani.
Ukuhluthwa kwengqwalaselo
Ibonisa ukuba uDrake noJosh abanalungelo lokuhlala nabazali babo. Banqabile ukutyelelwa ngabazali babo. Bayaxhasana ngelixa bobabini abazali bexakekile bonwabele ubomi bodwa kubo. Baxakeke kakhulu ukuba bangakwazi nokubabona. Banyanzelekile kuphela ukuhlawula amatyala kwaye yiyo loo nto.
Ewe, akukho nto inokuchaza imbonakalo yosapho oludibeneyo ngcono kunalo mboniso weTV. Isondele kakhulu kwinto eyiyo.