Umxholo
- 1. Ukuhloniphana
- 2. Thetha phezulu
- 3. Vumelanani ukungavumelani
- 4. Hambani niye eNkosini kunye
- 5. Lungisa umba
- 6. Sukubiza iqabane lakho ngamagama athob 'isidima
- 7. Khuthaza iqabane lakho
- 8. Ufuna uncedo
- 9. Iqabane lakho alilotshaba lwakho
- 10. Akukho nto inokubetha ukunyaniseka
- 11. Ziqheliseni ukumamelana
Iingcebiso azimbi kwaphela, ngakumbi xa iqabane lichaphazelekayo.
Kuza ixesha emtshatweni apho nina nobabini ninokungabinathemba malunga nekamva kwaye ungaqinisekanga ukuba ungazithatha phi kwaye uzithathele phi izinto phambili. Kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukuba unenkolo.
Zininzi iindawo zoncedo ngomtshato wamaKristu macala onke, ekuphela kwento ekufuneka ayenzile kukuyikhangela.
Nangona kunjalo, umbono wesibini esingamaKristu ukuba ufune iingcebiso ngomtshato awuqhelekanga. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iingcebiso ezithile onokuzigcina engqondweni ukuba ufuna ingcebiso yomtshato esekwe kumaKristu.
1. Ukuhloniphana
Kwisibini esitshatileyo, kubalulekile ukuba babeke imbeko kulowo nalowo.
Umtshato uyimpumelelo xa bobabini abantu bebeka ixesha elilinganayo kunye nomzamo wokwenza izinto zisebenze.
Ukutshata akukho lula kwaphela. Zininzi izinto ezinoxanduva kunye nezinto ekufuneka umntu ezenze ngokwesiqhelo. Ke, mzuzu uqala ukuhloniphana, uluvo loxanduva luza kwaye uza kubona utshintsho.
2. Thetha phezulu
Nokuba uphuma uyokufumana ingcebiso ngomtshato wamaKristu, banokucebisa ngesisombululo esifanayo kuzo zonke iingxaki onazo.
Thetha uviwe. Rhoqo sithatha izinto ngokungakhathali kwaye sikholelwa ukuba omnye umntu ebeziqondile. Ngokwenyani, basenokuba abanayo. Ke, ukwenza izinto zicace, kufuneka sithethe, malunga nemiba esijongene nayo kunye nobunzima esinabo. Oku kuyakuqinisekisa ukuba iqabane lakho liyazazi iingxaki zakho kwaye likhona ukukunceda, nanini na xa ufuna.
3. Vumelanani ukungavumelani
Akukho mfuneko yokuba uthethe into elungileyo ngalo lonke ixesha. Kananjalo akuyomfuneko ukuba ucinge ungxola okanye ube nembono kuyo yonke into.
Ngamanye amaxesha, kuya kufuneka uvume ukungavumelani. Umzekelo, ukholelwa ukuba ihempe yombala omnyama imenza abonakale elumkile, ngelixa ungavumelani noku. Ukuthetha okanye ukwabelana ngokuvakalayo kuya kukhokelela kwiingxabano okanye ukungonwabi kwiqabane lakho.
Ke, endaweni yokuba ubazise, thula nje wenze izinto zenzeke. Ekugqibeleni, ulonwabo lwabo lubalulekile, akunjalo?
4. Hambani niye eNkosini kunye
Njengengcebiso yokucebisa ngomtshato yamaKrestu, kubalulekile ukuba uthandaze okanye undwendwele icawe kunye. Ukuchitha ixesha elixabisekileyo kunye nomgangatho kunye neNkosi kuya kukunika ulonwabo kunye nentuthuzelo.
Xa nisenza izinto kunye, niyonwaba emtshatweni wenu.
5. Lungisa umba
Njengengcebiso yasimahla yamaKrisimesi emtshatweni, eyona ndlela yokujongana nayo nayiphi na into kukujongana nayo. Kunokubakho amaxesha osokola nezinto kubomi bakho bomtshato.
Endaweni yokubaleka ingxaki, jongana nayo. Thetha neqabane lakho nixoxe ngengxaki oyibonileyo kwaye uzame ukufumana isisombululo kuyo.
6. Sukubiza iqabane lakho ngamagama athob 'isidima
Namhlanje, asicingi kakhulu ngaphambi kokuthetha nantoni na. Sitsho nje kwaye siguquke kamva.
Awunakuqonda kodwa amagama athoba isidima abeka iqabane lakho kwindawo encomekayo kwaye baziva bebi. Ayilunganga kwaphela ukwenza njalo.
Ke, yeka kwangoko kwaye uyiqwalasele njengencam ebalulekileyo yengcebiso yomtshato wamaKristu.
7. Khuthaza iqabane lakho
Wonke umntu ufuna ukukhuthazwa okanye ukunyanzelwa ngamanye amaxesha ebomini bakhe. Bafuna nje inkxaso ukuze boyise ilizwe.
Ukuba ufumana elinye lamathuba anje, ngena ngaphakathi. Lixhase iqabane lakho kwaye ulikhuthaze ngeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo.
8. Ufuna uncedo
Elona nyathelo liphambili lokufumana ingcebiso ngomtshato wamaKristu kukwamkela ukuba ufuna uncedo. Lowo ufuna uncedo uyalufumana.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba ulungile kwaye awudingi ncedo nangona umtshato wakho uhlangabezana neengxaki ezininzi, akukho mntu unokukunceda. Ke, yamkela ukuba ufuna uncedo kwaye uya kulufumana ngelo xesha.
9. Iqabane lakho alilotshaba lwakho
Yinyani ukuba umtshato unokuba yimeko enzima. Kuza kubakho amaxesha apho uya kuba uphantsi koxinzelelo olukhulu kodwa ke kuya kufuneka usebenze.
Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni, ingcebiso yomtshato wamaKristu ayikhe icebise ukujonga iqabane lakho njengotshaba lwakho. Ngapha koko, jonga kubo njengenkqubo yakho yenkxaso ekhoyo ukukunceda ngexesha elibi.
Mhla wamkela, izinto ziya kuqala ukuphucula.
10. Akukho nto inokubetha ukunyaniseka
Ukunyaniseka, ngowona msebenzi unzima. Nangona kunjalo, iBhayibhile isifundisa ukuba kufuneka sinyaniseke omnye komnye, nokuba kunjani.
Ke, kuya kufuneka unyaniseke kwiqabane lakho malunga neemvakalelo zakho kunye neengcinga zakho. Awunakho ukubakhohlisa, nokuba kunjani. Kwaye ukuba ucinga ukuba uneengcinga ngenye indlela, kunyanzelekile ukuba undwendwele ingcebiso yomtshato wamaKristu kwangoko.
11. Ziqheliseni ukumamelana
Esinye sezizathu zomtshato ophumelelayo kukuba izibini ziyamamelana.
Qiniseka ukuba uyayimamela into ethethwa okanye yokwabelana neqabane lakho. Ngamanye amaxesha, isiqingatha sengxaki sisonjululwa ngokumamela omnye komnye.
Kuya kubakho amathandabuzo kunye neenkxalabo ezininzi ngelixa usiya kunikwa iingcebiso ngomtshato wamaKristu. Kungcono ube neseti yakho yemibuzo yokucebisa ngomtshato wamaKristu kwaye uqhagamshelane nengcali ngokungathandabuzeki kwakho.
Khumbula, akukubi ukuya komnye ukuba uza kutshata.