Umxholo
- Ukuba nombono yindlela entle yokwenza umtshato wakho uphumelele
- Umbono wakho uvuselela iinjongo zobomi bakho kumtshato ophumeleleyo
- Ukuthembana ngumba obalulekileyo ukuze umtshato uphumelele
- Ungaze uvumele umbono-mbono ususe umbono wakho
- Ukugcina imida esempilweniyenye yokwenza umtshato wakho uphumelele
- Yenza impembelelo yemvumelwano
- Dwelisa uxolelo kwikhalenda yakho
- Gcina uthando lokwenene omnye komnye
- Umtshato wakho uphumelele ngokupheleleyo
Umtshato luhambo olunomdla kodwa olunxunguphalisayo, njengalo lonke olunye uhambo olubalulekileyo ekufuneka ulwenzile ebomini. Ubomi bakho bothando yinto ofuna ukuyicinga utyalomali kuyo. Ukuba uthatha uhambo oluya kwenye indawo, umzekelo, zininzi iindlela ezinokukhokelela kulondawo kodwa ezinye zimbalwa zezona zilungileyo. Ngamaxesha xa ungayazi indlela, uhlala ubandakanya uncedo lweGPS yakho (inkqubo yokuma kwendawo). Izixhobo zikuhambisa ngezwi, elikhokela inyathelo ngenyathelo ukuba usiya njani kwindawo oya kuyo. Inye into oyenzayo yile yile:
1. Useta indawo ekuyiwa kuyo ukususela ekuqaleni kohambo - oku kunceda ukugxila kwi-GPS ukuya apho uya khona.
2. Kukho izibonelelo zendlela ejikelezayo xa kukho impazamo - ukuba uthe waphoswa yindlela yakho emgceni, iyaziphinda ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye isisa apho.
3.Ungathatha isigqibo sokulandela okanye ukungalandeli - nokuba izixhobo zisikhokela kangaphi, nguwe oza kuthatha isigqibo sokuba uza kulandela okanye hayi.
4. Xa ulandela ngokungqongqo uhlala ufika ngexesha - oku kuqinisekile. Ukuthobela kwakho imiyalelo kuyakunciphisa kwingxaki enkulu kolu hambo.
5. IGPS ikuthathisa eyona ndlela ingcono ngokuthintela izithintelo kuhambo.
Lo mzekelo ungasetyenziswa ukunika inkcazo ecacileyo yendlela eyenzelwe ngayo imitshato yethu:
Ukuba nombono yindlela entle yokwenza umtshato wakho uphumelele
Ewe, njengomatshini weGPS ngaphambi kokuba uqalise uhambo lwakho kufuneka ucwangcise kwaye ucwangcise indawo ekulindeleke ukuba uye kuyo. Ngendlela efanayo, umtshato wakho liziko elenziwe nguThixo ukuba usebenze kunye neqabane lakho. Misela umbono womtshato wakho, misela iinjongo zento ofuna ukuyiphumeza. Athini amaphupha owanqwenelayo okoko wawumncinci kwaye ungatshatanga, sukuvumela la maphupha afe.
Iziko lomtshato kufanele ukuba liwakhuthaze loo maphupha kwaye lingababulali. Ngapha koko, ngoku unamathuba angcono okufezekisa loo maphupha ngaphandle kokwenza wedwa. Ngoku unethuba elingcono lokuyisebenza neqabane lakho. Iintloko ezimbini ezilungileyo zibhetele kunenye ngoko bathi.
- Thatha isigqibo sokuba bangaphi abantwana oceba ukuba nabo;
- Loluphi uhlobo lwekhaya enithanda ukuhlala nalo?
- Uzimisele ukuthatha umhlalaphantsi nini?
- Uceba ukwenza ntoni emva kokuthatha umhlalaphantsi?
Unokuba nombono wexesha elifutshane, eliphakathi nelide. Baza kunceda ukuhambisa ikhosi yohambo lwakho lomtshato.
Umbono wakho uvuselela iinjongo zobomi bakho kumtshato ophumeleleyo
Umsebenzi wakho sisabelo sakho ebomini. Enye indlela yokwenza umtshato wakho uphumelele kukuvumela ukujika. Yonke into ayinakusoloko isebenza ngendlela oceba ngayo.Nangona kunjalo, unokuba bhetyebhetye xa utshintsha nanini na imeko ifuna njalo. Kukho isizathu esithile sokuba utshatele iqabane lakho hayi omnye umntu.
Ukhe wema wacinga ngoluhlobo? Umtshato ungamandla okutsha ukukuqhubela kwiindawo eziphakamileyo ezingathethekiyo. Nje ukuba ulunge, uqinisekile ukuba nobabini niza kuphila ngokuchanekileyo kwaye nigqibe kakuhle.
Ukuthembana ngumba obalulekileyo ukuze umtshato uphumelele
Kwakhona, ukuthembana nokuthobela yenye indlela yokwenza umtshato wakho uphumelele. Nangona kunjalo, njengeGPS awugunyaziswanga ukuba uthobele umkhombandlela onikiweyo. Ngapha koko, unokukhetha ukulandela okanye ukungalandeli. Ukuthembana nokuthobela uThixo emtshatweni wakho kuya kukugcina phezulu. Ukulandela umkhombandlela kunye nokuthobela omnye komnye kuhlala kukwenza ufike kwindawo oya kuyo kwaye ufike ngokukhawuleza ngakumbi kunokuba ungakhange uthobele ukuthembana komnye nomnye.
Umbono wakho owubekele umtshato wakho ukukunika isizathu esinyanzelekileyo sokuba ulandele. Kufana nesikhokelo esibekiweyo sokulandela. Ngokuqinisekileyo zininzi iziphazamiso eziza kuza kuhambo lwakho lomtshato: izihlobo, umsebenzi, ukuzibandakanya kwabahlali, imisebenzi yezenkolo, abantwana, ezemali, ezempilo kunye neminye imiba. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mandla anokumisa ingqondo ezimeleyo.
Ujolise kuba unendawo emiselweyo engqondweni ukuze onke amandla akho kunye nokuthanda kwakho kuhanjiswe kulo mbono. La magama kwisibhalo athi ukuba iliso lomntu alitshatanga umzimba wakhe uphela uya kuba nokukhanya kuyakuqinisekisa oko.
Ungaze uvumele umbono-mbono ususe umbono wakho
Ubuhle bokubeka umbono womtshato kunye kukuzaliseka kombono omnye. Enyanisweni, akusoloko kulula. Ekuqhubekeni kweenjongo zakho zomtshato ngamanye amaxesha unokuhendeka ukuba uzityeshele izinto ezibalulekileyo ngokudlalisa izinto eziqhelekileyo. Ukuze umtshato wakho uphumelele kufuneka ujonge kwizinto ezibalulekileyo ngokunika ixesha elininzi kunye nomzamo kuzo. Ngokoluvo lwam kwaye kwiminyaka yam eli-14 sitshatile umtshato ubhetele xa 'ugcinwe' esandleni sikaThixo. Makhe akukhokele kwaye akukhokele kuyo yonke indlela. Unokuqiniseka ukuba uya kuhlala emhlabeni ngokukhuselekileyo nangempumelelo.
Isibonelelo yindlela osebenza ngayo ngamandla akho kunye nonxibelelwano lomntu ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zosapho. Izinto ezisisiseko ebomini: ukutya, indawo yokuhlala kunye nempahla eyenza umdla ngokwenene ebomini. Ngapha koko, kwinkqubo yokufezekisa le mitshato iye yasilela ngendlela elusizi. Kungenxa yokuba izibini ngoku azinalo ixesha elaneleyo lokwabelana kunye, ukukrokrelana, ukuthetha kunye nokwabelana ngokuthandana kunye. Amaxesha amaninzi abanalo nexesha elaneleyo losapho kwaye abantwana abavela kumakhaya anje bahlupheka kakhulu ngenxa yoku. Kodwa yiza uyicinge, umtshato wakho unokuqina njani, ube ngcono kwaye uphumelele ngale ndlela?
Ukugcina imida esempilweniyenye yokwenza umtshato wakho uphumelele
Njengoko uhamba emtshatweni wakho, zininzi ezinye izinto eziguqukayo kunye nezinto ezenzekayo ezisusela kusapho, abakhwe, abasebenza kunye nabahlobo. Kukho amaxesha apho abahlobo banokufuna ukuthatha ixesha lakho, abafuna ingqalelo yakho.
Kwakhona, emva kobudlelwane bakho noThixo, into elandelayo ebalulekileyo ngumtshato wakho kunye nobudlelwane. Kubalulekile ukuseta imida malunga nokunciphisa ixesha lokwabelana nabanye abantu ngaphandle kweqabane lakho kunye nosapho ngokwenyani. Oku akuthethi ukuba uzingca kodwa ukubeka phambili ukubeka izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo. Amatyala amaninzi okungathembeki kuye kwafunyanwa ngobuhlobo obungenampilo nabantu osebenza nabo. Ke ngoko jonga kwaye uhlale uphaphile ngalo lonke ixesha.
Yenza impembelelo yemvumelwano
Iingxelo zobukhosi zibonise ukuba izibini ezimanyeneyo ezimanyeneyo akunakuqhawula umtshato. Ubunye, njengoko bubonisa, sisenzo sobunye kwinjongo, umbono kunye nokuziphatha. Indoda nabafazi banakho ukufikelela kwiziphumo ezingakumbi kunangexa bengamanyananga. Bayakwazi ukwenza izigqibo ezizuzisayo, kungekuphela ngobomi babo kodwa kwanakubantwana babo nakwimicimbi yosapho esondeleyo. Azihlukanisi. Ubunye buzisa ukukhula, inkqubela kunye nomtshato ongcono.
Dwelisa uxolelo kwikhalenda yakho
Ukuxolela yinto enkulu kakhulu. Ukuba injongo yakho kukubona umtshato wakho uphumelela. Inyaniso iyaxelwa, akukho bantu babini bahlukeneyo bahlala kunye abangayi kunyathela kwiinzwane zabo amaxesha ngamaxesha. Kodwa xa intliziyo yoxolelo ihamba phakathi kwabo bobabini abatshatileyo, baya koyisa iingozi ezininzi zokuzimela emnyango ngovuyo noxolo lomtshato wabo ophumeleleyo.
Gcina uthando lokwenene omnye komnye
Uthando lubophelelwano olwenza uzive ulungile kumdlalo ngamnye! Uthando luyinto entle kakhulu. Yiba nenjongo yokukhulisa olu thando amaxesha ngamaxesha. Yile nto izakugcina umanyano. Akukho mandla anokuloyisa uthando lokwenene.
Yiyo loo nto, xa izilingo neenkqwithela zisiza emtshatweni wakho uthando olutyalileyo, olukhulisayo nolukhulileyo kunye ngoku luya kuvunelwa ukulungiselela ukusilela okukhoyo okunokwenzeka ngenxa yezinto ezingenakuphepheka zokuphila emtshatweni.
Umtshato wakho uphumelele ngokupheleleyo
Impumelelo yomtshato wakho ibaluleke ngaphezu kwako konke. Kodwa kuthatha ixesha kunye neenzame zokuzibona ukuze kuphumelele. Ke ngoko, ukuba nombono ngomtshato wakho kunye nokulandela ngenkuthalo kwezi zinto zikhankanywe apha ngasentla kulungile ngokwaneleyo ukuba kuxhokonxe impumelelo emtshatweni. Akukho sizathu, nokuba sikhulu kangakanani ngokwamkelekileyo kukusilela.
Impumelelo lusukelo olufunwa ngumtshato ngamnye. Kuphela ngabo balandela iipateni ezilungiselelwe ngokwenene abafikelela kwinqanaba lokuphumelela ngokwenene. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umtshato wakho uya kuphumelela xa unombono oqinisekileyo; niyathembana, nigcine imida esempilweni, niyabandakanyeka kwimpembelelo yemvisiswano, soloko nixolela kwaye ninothando lokwenene.