Umxholo
- 1. Fumana umntu omthanda kakhulu
- 2. Yenza isindululo kubusi bakho okanye wamkele isindululo
- 3. Cwangcisa umhla kwaye ucebe umtshato
- 4. Fumana ilayisensi yomtshato
- 5. Fumana umntu oza kukutshata
- 6. Vela uthi, "Ndiyakwenza."
Xa umncinci kwaye uphupha ngeqabane lakho elizayo kunye nomtshato, ingqondo yakho igcwele zonke iintlobo zokuzonwabisa. Awucingi ngazo naziphi na izithethe eziyindinisa, uxanduva, okanye amanyathelo athile okutshata.
Yonke into ocinga ngayo ilokhwe, iintyatyambo, ikeyiki, amakhonkco. Ngaba ngekhe kumangalise ukuba wonke umntu omthandayo apho abe yinxalenye yakho? Konke kubonakala kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye kukhulu.
Ke xa ukhula kwaye udibana nendoda okanye umfazi wamaphupha akho, awunakukholelwa ukuba iyinyani.
Ngoku ufumana ukucwangcisa umtshato owawuhlala uphupha ngawo. Ngenyameko unakekela zonke iinkcukacha kwaye uchitha lonke ixesha lakho kunye nemali yakho kwizicwangciso zomtshato. Ufuna ukuba igqibelele ngokupheleleyo.
Into ehlekisayo kukuba, kuthatha kancinci kakhulu ukuba utshate nomntu. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, ufuna umntu oza kutshata naye, ilayisensi yomtshato, umntu ogunyazisayo, kunye namanye amangqina. Yiyo leyo!
Ewe ungazenza zonke ezinye izinto, njengekhekhe kunye nokudanisa kunye nezipho. Isiko. Nangona kungafuneki, kumnandi kakhulu.
Enoba unomtshato wenkulungwane okanye ugcina nje wena kunye neqabane lakho-oza kubakho, uninzi lwabantu lulandela amanyathelo afanayo okutshata.
Ke, ukuba uyazibuza ukuba yintoni inkqubo yomtshato, sukujonga phambili. Uhlala kwindawo elungileyo.
Iyacetyiswa-Ikhosi yangaphambi komtshato
Nanga amanyathelo amathandathu asisiseko okutshata.
1. Fumana umntu omthanda kakhulu
Ukufumana umntu omthandayo kakhulu linyathelo lokuqala lokutshata, elicacileyo.
Nangona ukufumana iqabane elifanelekileyo lelinye lamanyathelo okuqala okutshata, oku kunokuba lelona nyathelo lide kunye nelona libandakanyekayo kuyo yonke le nkqubo.
Ukuba awutshatanga, kuya kufuneka udibane nabantu, nichithe ixesha kunye, nithandane kakhulu, ninciphise ukuya kwelinye, emva koko uthandane nomntu. Qiniseka ukuba umntu uyakuthanda!
Emva koko kuza iintlanganiso zomnye nomnye, bethetha ngekamva lakho, kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uya kuhambelana ixesha elide. Ukuba emva kokuba nikunye kunye okwexeshana kwaye nisathandana, niyigolide. Emva koko ungaqhubela phambili inyathelo 2.
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2. Yenza isindululo kubusi bakho okanye wamkele isindululo
Emva kokuba uzimisele okwethutyana, yiza nomxholo wenkqubo yomtshato. Ukuba isithandwa sakho siphendula kakuhle, ucacile. Qhubeka wenze isindululo.
Unokwenza into enkulu, njengokuqesha inqwelomoya ukubhala esibhakabhakeni, okanye ukuhla nje ngedolo elinye kwaye ubuze ngqo. Ungalibali iringi.
Okanye ukuba ayinguwe lo ucebisayo, gcina ukuzingela de abuze, emva koko wamkele isindululo. Uzibandakanya ngokusemthethweni! Uthethathethwano lungahlala naphi na ukusuka kwimizuzu ukuya kwiminyaka — kuxhomekeke kuni nobabini.
Isindululo lelinye inyathelo elibalulekileyo ngaphambi kokuba ungene kwinkqubo epheleleyo yokutshata.
3. Cwangcisa umhla kwaye ucebe umtshato
Oku kunokuba yinto yesibini eyandisiweyo kwinkqubo yokutshata. Uninzi lwabatshakazi lufuna malunga nonyaka ukuba bacwangcise, kwaye nobabini nidinga unyaka ukuze nikwazi ukuhlawula konke.
Okanye, ukuba nobabini nilungile ngokwenza into encinci, hambani ngaloo ndlela njengoko kungekho ndlela iqinisekileyo yokutshata. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, misani umhla eninokuvumelana ngawo nobabini.
Emva koko thatha ilokhwe kunye ne-tux, mema abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho, kwaye ukuba kukwimenyu, cwangcisa ulwamkelo lomtshato ngekhekhe, ukutya, umculo kunye nokuhombisa okubonisa nobabini. Ekugqibeleni, konke okubalulekileyo kukuba nobabini nivuya ngendlela umtshato wenu owenziwe ngayo.
Iyacetyiswa Ikhosi yangaphambi komtshato
4. Fumana ilayisensi yomtshato
Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungatshata njani ngokusemthethweni, ke ufumane ilayisensi yomtshato!
Ubhaliso lomtshato lelinye lamanyathelo aphambili kwaye angenakuphepheka ekutshateni. Ukuba awucacanga ukuba ungayenza njani le nkqubo, usenokungxola ngexesha lokugqibela, ucinga malunga 'nendlela yokufumana ilayisensi yomtshato' kwaye 'ungayifumana phi ilayisensi yomtshato.'
Iinkcukacha zeli nyathelo ziyahluka ngokwamazwe. Kodwa ngokusisiseko, tsalela indlu yakho yenkundla ubuze ukuba kuphi kwaye phi na apho kufuneka ufake khona iphepha-mvume lomtshato.
Qiniseka ukuba ubuza ukuba ingaba nobabini nidala kangakanani na, zibiza malini, zeziphi iifom zesazisi ekufuneka nize nazo xa nizichola, kwaye unexesha elingakanani ukusuka ekusetyenzisweni kude kube kuphelelwa lixesha (ezinye zikwanethuba lokulinda usuku olunye okanye ngaphezulu ukusukela xa ufaka isicelo de ube uya kuba nakho ukusisebenzisa).
Kwakhona, kukho iimeko ezimbalwa ezifuna uvavanyo lwegazi. Ke, yenza umbuzo malunga nento oyifunayo kwilayisensi yomtshato kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uyazazi iimfuno zomtshato eziphathelene nelizwe lakho.
Ngokwesiqhelo umenzi-mthetho otshata nawe unesiqinisekiso somtshato, abasityikityayo, osityikityayo, kwaye amangqina amabini asayine, emva koko umntu owonileyo asifake kwinkundla. Emva koko uya kufumana ikopi ngeposi kwiiveki ezimbalwa.
5. Fumana umntu oza kukutshata
Ukuba uza kutshata kwinkundla yamatyala, ngelixa ukwinyathelo lesi-4, buza nje ukuba ngubani onokukutshata kwaye xa kutheni ungumgwebi, ubulungisa boxolo okanye unobhala wenkundla.
Ukuba utshata kwenye indawo, fumana umntu ogunyazisiweyo wokuqinisa umtshato wakho kwilizwe lakho. Kumsitho wenkolo, ilungu labefundisi liza kusebenza.
Abantu abohlukeneyo bahlawulisa ngokwahlukileyo kwezi nkonzo, ke cela amaxabiso kunye nokufumaneka. Soloko ubeka isikhumbuzi umnxeba kwiveki / kusuku olungaphambi kwalolo.
6. Vela uthi, "Ndiyakwenza."
Ngaba usacinga ngendlela yokutshata, okanye ngawaphi amanyathelo okutshata?
Kusele inyathelo elinye kuphela.
Ngoku kufuneka ubonise kwaye ufumane i-hitched!
Nxiba ezona dud zakho zibalaseleyo, uye apho uya khona, kwaye uhambe ezantsi. Ungatsho izifungo (okanye hayi), kodwa ngokwenene, konke okufuneka uthi "ndiyakwenza." Nje ukuba ubhengezwe njengabantu abatshatileyo, vumela ulonwabo luqale!
Ndiyathemba ukuba la manyathelo mathandathu emtshatweni kulula ukuwaqonda kwaye awalandele. Ukuba ucinga ukutsiba nawaphi na amanyathelo okutshata, uxolo, awukwazi!
Ke, hamba nocwangciso lwakho lomtshato kunye namalungiselelo kakuhle ngexesha ukuze ungagqibi ukungxama ngomzuzu wokugqibela. Usuku lomtshato lelona xesha kufuneka ukonwabele ngokupheleleyo kwaye ungashiyi mda wolunye uxinzelelo olongezelelekileyo!