Umxholo
- 1. Qaphela indlela oyijonga ngayo impumelelo kunye nokuzixabisa
- Nxibelelana neqabane lakho malunga neemvakalelo zakho
- 3. Cwangcisa umhla wobusuku okanye iihambo
- 4. Qhubeka nokusondelelana
- 5. Musa ukuvumela ukuba ubudlolo buchaze
Enye yezona mvakalelo zixhaphakileyo ezithi izibini zibe nazo ngelixa ziphantsi kovavanyo lokungachumi, ukuxilongwa kunye nokunyangwa kukuphulukana nolawulo kunye nemvakalelo yokungabi namandla. Uninzi lwethu lukhuliselwe ukukholelwa ukuba okoko nje usebenza nzima kwaye ulandela amanyathelo athile, uya kuyiphumeza injongo oyifunayo. Ingakumbi kwizibini eziphumelelayo kakhulu zinokuba nexesha elinzima kakhulu ukuza kwimiba yokungachumi kunye nelahleko yolawulo elandelayo. Unokwenza yonke into oyifunda ngayo; landela izidlo ezingqongqo, izicwangciso zokuzilolonga ngokungqongqo, thatha onke amayeza kanye ngexesha elifanelekileyo, kwaye usenokungakhulelwa. Uyatyhalwa kwaye unyanzeliswa ngoogqirha kunye nabasebenzi babo. Abantu babona kwaye bahlasele amalungu omzimba wakho okholelwa ukuba bekufanele ukuba ahlala eyimfihlo. Kwaye kuyo yonke loo nto, uziva ungenanto kwaphela kwaye ungenamandla. Yimvakalelo ekhathazayo kwaye inokuthatha lula ubomi bakho.
Ke, unokwenza ntoni ngelixa uphantsi kovavanyo lokungachumi, ukuxilongwa, kunye nonyango ukuze ungaziva ungenamandla kwaye ungalawuleki? Uqhubeka njani nokuphila ubomi, nokuba uchuma, ngelixa uhamba olu hambo lubaluleke kangaka? Nazi izinto ezintlanu onokuzenza wena neqabane lakho ukuqala ukubuyisela imo yolawulo kubomi bakho.
1. Qaphela indlela oyijonga ngayo impumelelo kunye nokuzixabisa
Enye yezinto zokuqala ezihlala zibuyisa imvakalelo yokulawula kukufumana iindlela ezintsha zokulinganisa impumelelo yakho. Endaweni yokulinganisa impumelelo nokuba ingaba unyango lwenzala luyasebenza na, okanye ngokukhawuleza ungatyhala ngale nkqubo, endaweni yoko gxila kumandla akho kwenye into onokuyilawula. Inokuba yiyo nantoni na ukusuka kukhuphiswano ukuya kwii-5Ks, ukuhlangabezana neenjongo zakho zemveliso emsebenzini. Fumana ezinye iinkalo zobomi bakho onokuthi uzilawule kwaye ugxile kuzo. Ubomi buya kulawulwa ngakumbi kwaye uya kuziva unamandla ngakumbi ngokugxila kumgangatho wakho wempumelelo kunye nokuzithemba kwenye into. Uya kuqala ukuziva uqinisekile ngakumbi ngobomi bakho, ungaxhalabi kangako, kwaye emva koko, unyango lokuchuma luya kuziva lulawuleka.
Nxibelelana neqabane lakho malunga neemvakalelo zakho
Thetha neqabane lakho malunga nendlela oziva ngayo. Chaza iimvakalelo zakho zokungakwazi ukuzinceda kunye nendlela oziva ngayo ngaphandle kolawulo. Ukuba kukho into engahambi njengoko kulindelwe kunyango lwakho lwenzalo emva koko yenze loo nto kunye. Uhamba ngale nkqubo kuba ufuna ukuba nabantwana omnye komnye ke kufanelekile ukuthembela omnye kula maxesha oxinzelelo. Kukho izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka uzigcine engqondweni xa usenza ezi ngxoxo. Qiniseka ukuba nobabini niziva nikhululekile (ayisiyiyo incoko le kufuneka nibe nemizuzu emi-5 phambi kokuba aye emsebenzini), qinisekani ukuba niphilile nobabini, kwaye niqiniseke ukuba nobabini niyilungele le ncoko. Kuhlala kulunge ukubuza "hee, xa kule veki unalo ixesha lokuthetha ukuba iyasichaphazela njani le nto?" yindlela ebhetele kunokuqala ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo zakho nanini na, naphi na. Inxalenye yokuphinda ulawule ubomi bakho ilawula xa uneencoko ezi.
3. Cwangcisa umhla wobusuku okanye iihambo
Qhubeka nokwenza ixesha lokuba kunye kunye njengesibini kwaye uqhubeke nokukhulisa ubudlelwane bakho. Kulula kakhulu ukonganyelwa yinkqubo yokungachumi kwaye uyivumele ithathe ubomi bakho bonke. Ukugxila komnye nomnye ngokuhamba kwimihla okanye uhambo lokondla ubudlelwane bakho kuya kukunceda uzive uqinisekile ngakumbi ngomnye nomnye. Imihla yakho ayifanelanga ukuba yiyo nantoni na enkulu. Ukuhamba ngokulula ujikeleze ubumelwane okanye isiselo kwibar yendawo kwanele ukuvuselela ilangatye. Eyona nto iphambili ngale mihla kukwenza isivumelwano sokuba uza kuthetha ngezinye izinto ngaphandle kokuzala.
4. Qhubeka nokusondelelana
Kulula ukuwela emgibeni ngexesha lokunyanga ukungachumi apho ulala kuphela ngexesha lokuvuthwa kwaye isondo sinokujika sibe ngumsebenzi ngokukhawuleza. Ukugcina ukusondelelana ngokomzimba, nokuba kukubambana ngezandla, ukuncamisana, ukuwolana, ukukwelana, okanye isondo kubalulekile kwimpilo-ntle yakho nolonwabo. Kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuxhasana kwaye uzive usondelene xa ugcina ubomi besondo obuphilileyo. Qhubeka uphonononge imizimba yomnye nomnye, zama izikhundla ezitsha, iindawo ezintsha, kwaye ugcine izinto zibabile. Ukungachumi kuya kuba yinxalenye yohambo lwakho njengesibini kodwa ubomi bakho njengesibini buya kuqhubeka ixesha elide emva kokuba icandelo lokungachumi lohambo lwakho lugqityiwe ke qiniseka ukuba uyalukhulisa.
5. Musa ukuvumela ukuba ubudlolo buchaze
Kulula ukuthi “Andizalanga” okanye ukuvumela ukungachumi ukuba kuchaze ukuba ungubani. Umbutho ulindele ukuba sikwazi ukuba nabantwana "ngokwendalo" kwaye xa singenako, kulula ukuyivumela ukuba ibe yinxalenye ephambili yesazisi. Kodwa ungaphezulu kakhulu kokungachumi kwakho. Zikhumbuze, kunye neqabane lakho, ukuba ungubani. Unokuba yingcali, okanye ilungu elinamandla loluntu lwakho, umphilisi, okanye ibhola yebhola. Nokuba ungubani, khumbula ukuba ungumntu ohamba nonyango lokungachumi kwaye ungazinciphisi ekufumaneni isifo. Ungaphezulu kakhulu kokuxilongwa kwaye unokuninzi kakhulu ekunokukunika.
Ndiyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso zincinci ziya kukuzisela wena neqabane lakho isiqabu njengoko uhamba kuhambo lwakho lokungachumi. Ukuba ufuna uncedo olungakumbi kunye nenkxaso, nceda ukhululeke ukufikelela kum.