Umxholo
- Vumela ingqondo yakho ukuba ithethe
- Chonga isizathu: Ukutyhola ngokuqonda
- Kuphephe ukubandakanya abanye: Yithi "hayi" kwi-arbitrage
- Ukukopa? Uthetha ukuthini ukukopela?
- Tsibela enzonzobileni
Ngokufanelekileyo, usapho luthathwa njengendawo yangaphandle esinceda ukuba silwe nohlaselo lobomi obahlukeneyo, sisomeleza isazisi kwaye siphilisa amanxeba ethu.
Xa sitshata sikholelwa kule meko ifanelekileyo kodwa ngokufuthi asinalo nofifi lokuba isitampu kwipaspoti sisitena sokuqala esasibeka kwisiseko sale nkampu.
Phambi kokuba iqiniswe ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka sidlule ngendlela ende enameva kwaye sijongane nemiceli mngeni emininzi. Abo bathe bafumana amava okukhohlisa emtshatweni, bayazi ukuba uhlaselo lwangaphandle alusoyikisi izibini njengeentshaba zabo zangaphakathi.
Kulula ukumelana nezimanga zobomi xa utsala isiphelo esinye sentambo, kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukulwa nobuthathaka obukwaziyo ukutshabalalisa indawo engaphandle yomeleleyo ngomzuzu ngokungathi yinqaba yekhadi.
Kubo bonke abantu abathathela ingqalelo ukuba ukukopa emtshatweni ayisiyonto yokujongana nayo kodwa sisiphelo sosapho, sinokuthi: ityala okanye isithuko ayingabo abacebisi beentsapho abalungileyo.
Akululanga ukumelana nezi mvakalelo zetyala emva kokungcatshwa kwaye sihlale kunye kodwa, sikholelwe, kunokwenzeka.
Ke ukuba uzibona ubuza ukuba ndiyeke njani ukuziva ndinetyala ngokukopela emtshatweni? Okanye ujonge iindlela zokoyisa ityala emva kokukhohlisa emtshatweni. Siza kukuxelela ukuba ungayenza njani le nto.
Vumela ingqondo yakho ukuba ithethe
Ukuziqeqesha (kwabo bangcatshi) okanye ukuzisizela (kwabo bangcatshwayo) sesona silumko silula kwaye uninzi lwezibini zikhetha ukuntywila kwiimvakalelo zazo nzulu kangangoko kunokwenzeka endaweni yokuqala incoko.
Qiniseka: Ingxoxo iyafuneka ngokungxamisekileyo, inokubonisa ukukhanya kweqabane lakho lokwenyani ngombandela ngelixa iimvakalelo zikulahlekisa.
Ke, xa ityala lakho likhala “Ndingumkhohlisi kwaye angaze andixolele” ingqondo yakho ayinakukuvumela ukuba uthathe isigqibo somnye umntu kodwa, "Cela nje uxolelo, lisoloko likhona ithuba".
Iimvakalelo zomntu ongcatshiwe zinokuthi "andifuni kuva nto!" naxa ingqondo yabo iphikisana nokuva into ethethwa liqabane labo ukuzikhusela.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, nobabini nidinga ixesha lokubandezeleka nokuziqhelanisa ingcinga malunga nokukopa emtshatweni, kodwa ungathathi izigqibo ezingokweemvakalelo, mamela intlebendwane yengqondo yakho kwaye uzame banike ithuba omnye komnye kwaye bancede boyise ityala lokungathembeki.
Chonga isizathu: Ukutyhola ngokuqonda
Sikhe sayicinga nje imbonakalo yomsindo ebusweni bomntu okhohlisiweyo "Ngaba kukho nasiphi na isizathu kwaye kutheni kufuneka ndizikhangele? !!"
Musa ukungxama ukuyisusa kuye le mbopheleleko. Khumbula, xa kukho into engahambi kakuhle kusapho, akunakubakho umntu omnye onetyala; omabini amaqabane zizizathu. Cinga ngalo mthetho kwaye uzame ukuhlalutya.
Zibuze “Yintoni endiyiphosileyo? Yintoni le iqabane lam belizama ukuyifumana kubudlelwane nomnye umntu? ” Ixesha lokunyaniseka libalulekile. Wonke umntu angamangalela kodwa bambalwa abayiqondayo.
Kanjalo, thintela ukubonisa izinto ozithathele ingqalelo phambi kokuba uve izizathu zomngcatshi. Kuqala, akanakuba nanto ayithethayo kwaye asebenzise umbono wakho ukuluqhatha.
Okwesibini, indlela oqiqa ngayo neqabane lakho inokwahluka kweyakho kodwa abayi kuyibonisa besoyika ukuphinda bakwenzakalise. Ke, awusoze wazi esona sizathu kwaye ke ngekhe ukwazi ukusilungisa.
Ukuba ungumngcatshi, i ukuthembeka nokuzityand 'igila ngokunyanisekileyo kuphela kwendlela onokumelana nayo ngecala kwaye ufumane uxolelo.
Kuphephe ukubandakanya abanye: Yithi "hayi" kwi-arbitrage
Siyazi xa abantu besokola kufuneka bavakalise iintlungu zabo kwaye bajonge inkxaso. Yindlela yendalo yokujamelana neemvakalelo kodwa siyakucela ukuba ucinge kakuhle phambi kokuba ukhethe umntu onokumthemba.
Cinga ngento yokuba abantu abaninzi bayaxelelwa ukuba kuya kubakho ukuphazamiseka okukhulu malunga nomba lowo. Ngenxa yoko, ngekhe ube nakho ukukhetha ingqolowa kumququ kunye nomngcipheko wokuba ngumthinjwa weengcinga neemvakalelo zomntu wesithathu.
Asikukhuthazi ukwabelana nabazali bakho: uya kulixolela iqela lakho kodwa abayenzi le nto. Ukuthukwa kwabo akuyi kukuvumela ukuba ulibale eli bali kwaye kunokuba yingxaki ekutyhefeni ubomi bakho obulandelayo.
Kungcono ukhethe umntu ongakhethi cala ekude nokuthatha inxaxheba kubomi bosapho lwakho. Mhlawumbi umbingeleli, ukuba uyakholwa, okanye umhlobo ohlala kude nendawo yakho.
Ukukopa? Uthetha ukuthini ukukopela?
Ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba kunye, uxoxe ngayo yonke into, waqonda kwaye waxolelwa, ulibale nje ukuba ukukopa emtshatweni kwenzeka ebomini bakho. Siyazi, ngumsebenzi omkhulu, ngakumbi ekuqaleni, kodwa ayikho enye indlela yokuhlala kunye.
Ukukhankanywa rhoqo, ukutyholwa, ukukrokrelana, kunye neziqhulo ezinomxholo obonakalayo- konke oku kukhuthaza ukuhlaziya kwe iimvakalelo ezingalunganga zokuziva unetyala kunye nokuthukwa, kuthintela ukudibana kwakhona kunye nokwandisa ingxaki yosapho lwakho.
Kunqande ukukhankanya kwaye uzame ukuphila ngendlela oqheleneyo ngayo kwaye wenze umsebenzi wakho ukulungisa iimpazamo ngaphandle kokuqaqambisa ngokungeyomfuneko kwimizamo yakho emincinci.
Tsibela enzonzobileni
Inkqubo ye- Eyona ndlela yokulibala ibali elibi kukuthatha indawo efanelekileyo. Ke, zintanda ezikhohlisayo, musani ukulinda ixesha elide kwaye niyikhathalele imbuyekezo yobusi benu.
Uhambo, olwenza ukuba iphupha lakhe libe yinyani, ukutyelela iindawo ezinxulumene nolonwabo lwakho kunye okanye nayiphi na into enokuphinda ikwenze ube sisigqibo esihle.
Sukoyika ukuba eli asiloxesha elilungileyo okwangoku: khumbula nasiphi na isifo sihlala ixesha elide ukuba umntu akanakuthatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo. Cinga ngamava alungileyo iipilisi ezivela kwityala kunye nokuthukwa.
Othandekayo oqhathiweyo, dibana nalo naliphi na inyathelo leqela lakho nokuba sekunzima ukoyisa isithuko. Okukhona uza kulibazisa ulonwabo, kuya kuvela inzonzobila enkulu phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho.
Eyona nto inokwenzeka, ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuhlala kunye awufuni ukuba ukuhamba kweziganeko kwenzeke. Qaphela ukuba ezi ngcebiso zilungile kuphela xa omabini amaqabane efuna ukuhlala kunye. Ukuba elinye lamaqela lizama ukugqiba ibali, alinakusebenza.
Wonke umntu unelungelo lokwenza impazamo, kodwa khumbula ukuba ukukopa emtshatweni kuphinda ngaphezulu kwesinye okanye kabini akunakuphinda kuthathwe njengempazamo kwakhona kodwa indlela yokuphila.
Emva koko zibuze ukuba uyafuna ukuhlala nomntu okopayo ongenakulungiswa. Zithande kwaye ugcine iintsapho zakho.