Umxholo
- YENZA: Yakha ukuthembana ngonxibelelwano
- MUSA: Yoyika ukuthetha ngezihloko ezibalulekileyo
- YENZA: Nika ingqalelo kwiimpawu ezingezizo zomlomo
- MUSA: Xoxa ngezinto ezibalulekileyo ngesicatshulwa
- YENZA: Yazi indlela yokuphikisana
- MUSA: Libala ukumamela
- YENZA: Hlala unethemba
- MUSA: Xoka
- YENZA: Ziqhelanise nazo zonke iindlela zonxibelelwano
Abantu abaninzi bayazi ukuba unxibelelwano oluqinileyo yeyona nto iphambili kubudlelwane bonke, kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu othatha ixesha lokufunda ukuba iqabane lakho lifuna ntoni ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasemzimbeni. Ukungaqondi kakuhle iqabane lakho kunye nokubamba izinto omnye komnye kunokukhokelela kwinzondo kunye nesipelingi sokungonwabi kulwalamano lwakho. Yiyo loo nto ukufunda ukufunda omnye nomnye kubaluleke kakhulu ekugcineni umanyano olonwabileyo, olusempilweni.
Unxibelelwano oluqinileyo lugubungela zonke iziseko: ukhuseleko lweemvakalelo, ukunxibelelana ngomlomo nangokuthetha, kunye nokusondelelana komzimba. Zonke ezi zinto zibalulekile ekugcineni umtshato ohlala ixesha elide. Nazi izinto ezimele zenziwe kwaye ekungafunekiyo zokwenza unxibelelwano oluqinileyo neqabane lakho kunye nezizathu zokuba ukuqonda omnye komnye kuya kukunceda ekuhambeni kwexesha.
YENZA: Yakha ukuthembana ngonxibelelwano
Ukuthembela yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo kubudlelwane. Yakha ukuthembeka kwaye yenza iqabane lakho libe ngumgaqo wenkxaso ethembekileyo. Enye indlela onokwakha ngayo ukuthembana kukunxibelelana rhoqo.
Ukuba awuzange ubuze, ngekhe wazi. Sebenzisa le motto ukuzikhumbuza ukuba ungene kunye neqabane lakho malunga neengcinga zabo, izinto ezibaxhalabisayo kunye neemvakalelo malunga nokuba ubudlelwane buhamba njani. Ukunxibelelana neqabane lakho malunga neengxaki, iingcinga, uloyiko, kunye neenkanuko ziya kukuvumela ukuba unike kwaye ufumane inkxaso yemvakalelo ekhuthaza ukuthembana nokhuseleko. Nje ukuba uthethe ngayo yonke into neqabane lakho, unxibelelwano lwakho luya kuba namandla. Ke, thetha!
MUSA: Yoyika ukuthetha ngezihloko ezibalulekileyo
Unxibelelwano oluqinileyo kubudlelwane kuthetha ukuba uvule kwaye uthembeke ngobomi bakho bezesondo. Ukwabelana ngesondo yinxalenye enkulu yalo naluphi na ulwalamano, kunye nokubaleka ngaphandle kwesihloko kunokushiya imitshato emininzi isengxakini. Izibini ezininzi zikufumanisa kuluncedo ukuba nengxoxo engagungqiyo malunga nokuba bangathanda ukuba kufutshane kangakanani kunye, kunye nezinto ezenza ukuba amava abonwabise kubo. Akufanele uzive uhlazekile malunga nokuxoxa ngezinye izihloko ezibalulekileyo kunye neqabane lakho, njengezicwangciso zexesha elizayo zokuqala usapho okanye iingxaki zakho zezezimali.
YENZA: Nika ingqalelo kwiimpawu ezingezizo zomlomo
Unxibelelwano oluhle kunye neqabane lakho lithetha ngaphezulu kokuncokola. Kuthetha ukuthathela ingqalelo imikhwa engathethiyo kunye nolwimi lomzimba. Jonga iimpawu ezinje ngomgama weemvakalelo, ukusongelwa kweengalo, ukungabikho komntu ojongana naye emehlweni, umoya woxinzelelo jikelele, okanye ukubonakalisa ukucaphuka. Kungathatha ixesha elithile ukufunda imikhwa yeqabane lakho ngaphandle kokuthetha, kodwa kokukhona uqhagamshela kokukhona kuya kuba lula ngakumbi ukufumanisa kwaye kokukhona kuya kuba ngcono ukunxibelelana.
MUSA: Xoxa ngezinto ezibalulekileyo ngesicatshulwa
Unxibelelwano sisixhobo esihle sokuba nobudlelwane obusempilweni, kodwa kufuneka uyenze ngokufanelekileyo. Umzekelo, ukuthumela umyalezo ngefowuni kuyindlela elungileyo yokufumanisa ukuba niziva njani xa nidla isidlo sangokuhlwa okanye yeyiphi imovie eniza kuyibamba ngorhatya lwangoLwesihlanu, kodwa akufuneki ibe yindawo yokuxoxa ngeengxaki ezinzulu. Oko kuya kwenziwa buqu.
Ukuhambisa iingcinga zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho kunokubonakala ngathi kunokoyikisa ngaphezu kombhalo kuba awunabuntu. Kodwa ngokufunda amagama kwiscreen uphulukana nethoni kunye nemeko kwezinye iincoko. Oku kunokukhokelela kukungaqondani kunye neengxoxo ebezinokuphetshwa ngefowuni elula okanye ngokuthetha ubuso ngobuso.
YENZA: Yazi indlela yokuphikisana
Ukuba neengxabano kunokuba sempilweni kwizibini ezitshatileyo, okoko nje unesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo ngazo. Unxibelelwano olukhulu kubudlelwane kuthetha ukuba uyazi njani, kwaye nini, ukuphikisana. Ukwazi ixesha lokuphikisana kuthetha ukuthatha ixesha lokuba wedwa apho omabini amaqela anexesha elaneleyo lokuzinikela kumcimbi lowo.
Ukwazi indlela yokuphikisana kuthetha ukuba ungaze uye kwijugular. Ukuxambulisana akufuneki kube kungokubeka iqabane lakho phantsi, kwaye akufuneki kwenzelwe ezemidlalo. Endaweni yokuhlaselana, yiza nengxabano ngenjongo yokulungisa ingxaki. Soloko usiza kule ngxaki usiya kwikona eyakhayo kwaye uhloniphe uluvo lwakho ngaphandle kokungxola okanye uthathe isandi kwiqabane lakho.
MUSA: Libala ukumamela
Akukho mntu uthanda ukuziva ngathi iingcinga kunye neenkxalabo zabo azivakali. Inxalenye enye yonxibelelwano oluqinileyo kubudlelwane kukufunda ukuba uthetha nini kwaye umamele nini. Yiva inkxalabo yeqabane lakho kwaye ufumane uluvo lwabo kwizihloko nakwizigqibo ngaphambi kokuba ungxamele kwisigwebo. Thatha ixesha lokumamela, oku kuya kunceda ukuthintela ukungaqondani okanye ukubeka amagama emlonyeni weqabane lakho.
YENZA: Hlala unethemba
Unxibelelwano luyomelela xa amaqabane esondela kwizihloko, ezinzulu okanye eziqhelekileyo, ngesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo. Khumbula ukuba nkqu nezona zibini zonwabileyo zihamba ngamahla ndinyuka azo. Ubudlelwane bufana ne-roller-coasters: ngamanye amaxesha iyothusa, ngamanye amaxesha iyonwabisa.
Gcina ubudlelwane bakho kwinqaku elilungileyo ngokuba noburharha, ukubonisa ubabalo kunye noxabiso kwiqabane lakho, ukubhiyozela impumelelo yomnye, kunye nokubonelela ngenkxaso yeemvakalelo nanini na kunokwenzeka.
MUSA: Xoka
Nyaniseka omnye komnye. Ngaphandle kokunyaniseka, unxibelelwano alusebenzi kubudlelwane. Ukunyaniseka kuthetha ukuthembeka, ukuthembeka, kunye nokuvuma ukunyaniseka malunga nento esebenzayo nengasebenziyo kubudlelwane. Ewe ukunyaniseka kunokwenzakalisa ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ngokukhawuleza uvule nakuphi na ukuthandabuza okwenzekayo kulwalamano kwakamsinya ungasebenza ukulungisa imeko.
Ukunyaniseka kuhlala kungumgaqo-nkqubo olungileyo. Ngokunyaniseka komnye nomnye ubonisa ukuba unokuthembela ekwenzeni into elungileyo.
YENZA: Ziqhelanise nazo zonke iindlela zonxibelelwano
Ukunxibelelana kuthetha okungaphezulu kokungena-ngaphakathi kunye neencoko ezinzulu kunye. Kuthetha ukwabelana ngobomi bakho omnye komnye ngamazwi nangenye indlela. Itekhnoloji ikuvumela ukuba unxibelelane ngokungagungqiyo imini yonke. Bonisa iqabane lakho olikhathaleleyo ngokuthumela umyalezo obamnandi okanye ohlekisayo, iFaceTime, okanye i-imeyile.
Ungalibali ukuba izenzo zithetha kakhulu kunamazwi. Ngamanye amaxesha ukomeleza unxibelelwano kubudlelwane kuthetha ukuthandana ngokwasemzimbeni. Nxibelelana ngokwasemzimbeni ngokuziphatha kufutshane ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwegumbi lokulala. Ukubambana ngezandla, ukwangana, kunye nokuphuza ziindlela ezigqwesileyo zokomeleza unxibelelwano lwakho olungenamlomo.