Umxholo
- 1. Ungaze uvumele izinto zasemhlabeni zikwahlule
- 2. Sombulula iimbambano
- 3. Thandaza kunye
- 4. Thatha izigqibo ezikhulu kunye
- 5. Khonza uThixo kunye nabanye
- 6. Gcina umtshato wakho uyimfihlo
- 7. Misela ulindelo olusengqiqweni
Kukho izixhobo ezininzi kumaKristu alungele ukutshata. Iicawa ezininzi zibonelela ngezifundo zokucebisa kunye nokulungiselela imitshato yamaKristu kungekudala ukuze zibetshate ngaphandle kwendleko okanye ngentlawulo encinci.
Ezi zifundo zisekwe eBhayibhileni ziya kugubungela izihloko ezininzi ezinceda ukulungiselela isibini ngasinye kwimiceli mngeni kunye neyantlukwano eyenzeka kubudlelwane xa sele kuthethiwe ezo zibhambathiso.
Uninzi lwezihloko ekuthethwa ngazo ziyafana nazo izibini zehlabathi kufuneka zijongane nazo.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokulungiselela umtshato wamaKristu ukunceda ukulungiselela umtshato:
1. Ungaze uvumele izinto zasemhlabeni zikwahlule
Le ngcebiso yokulungiselela umtshato wamaKristu sisifundo kulawulo lwempembelelo. Izilingo ziya kuza kuwo omabini amaqela. Musa ukuvumela izinto eziphathekayo, imali, okanye abanye abantu ukuba bahlukane phakathi kwenu nobabini.
NgoThixo, nobabini unokuhlala womelele kwaye uzikhanyele ezi zilingo.
2. Sombulula iimbambano
Kwabase-Efese 4:26 bathi, "Malingatshoni ilanga ninomsindo." Musa ukulala ngaphandle kokusombulula ingxaki yakho kwaye ungaze uxabane. Ukuchukumisa kuphela okubonakalisiweyo kufuneka kube nothando kuphela emva kwabo.
Fumana izisombululo kwiingxabano zakho ngaphambi kokuba zingene ezingqondweni zakho kwaye zibangele ezinye iingxaki kamva.
3. Thandaza kunye
Sebenzisa ixesha lakho lokuthandaza kunye nexesha lokuthandaza ukubopha. Ngokuchitha ixesha uthetha noThixo kunye, uthatha amandla noMoya wakhe kumhla wakho nasemtshatweni.
AmaKristu atshatileyo kufuneka afunde kunye iBhayibhile, baxoxe ngeevesi, kwaye basebenzise eli xesha ukusondela omnye komnye kunye noThixo.
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4. Thatha izigqibo ezikhulu kunye
Umtshato uthatha umzamo omkhulu, ixesha kunye nomonde, kwaye ukuba ulandela iingcebiso ezithile zokulungiselela umtshato wamaKristu, ungenza inkqubo yokwakha isiseko esomeleleyo ibe lula.
Izithembiso zikaThixo zomtshato zixhomekeke kukholo lwakho kuYesu Krestu kunye nokuzibophelela ekwenzeni umtshato wakho usebenze.
Ubomi buzele zizigqibo ezinzima malunga nabantwana, ezemali, amalungiselelo okuphila, amakhondo omsebenzi, njl. Kwaye isibini kufuneka sixoxe kwaye sihlale simanyene xa sizenza.
Elinye iqela alinakuthatha sigqibo sikhulu ngaphandle kwelinye. Akukho ndlela ikhawulezayo yokwenza umgama kubudlelwane kunokwenza izigqibo zedwa.
Oku kukungcatsha ukuthembana. Phuhlisa ukuhloniphana nokuthembana ngokuzibophelela ekwenzeni izigqibo ezibalulekileyo kunye. Oku kuya kukunceda ugcine ubudlelwane bakho buselubala omnye komnye.
Fumana ukulalanisa apho unakho, kwaye uthandaze ngako xa ungakwazi.
5. Khonza uThixo kunye nabanye
Le ngcebiso yokulungiselela umtshato wamaKristu ngoyena ndoqo wokuphucula kunye nokugcina umtshato okanye ubudlelwane. Imizabalazo yobomi bethu bemihla ngemihla inokuqhuba umda phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho.
Nangona kunjalo, le mizabalazo inokusikhanyisela ukuba siqonde indlela yokuqinisa umtshato wethu.
Ukutshata kuphela ukufuna uthando okanye ulonwabo ngekhe kwanele njengoko umzuzu uthando kunye nolonwabo luhamba, singeke silixabise iqabane lethu.
Iimfundiso zikaKristu kunye neBhayibhile zibonisa ukuba kufuneka sithandazele amaqabane ethu kwaye sigxile ekomelezeni ngokukhuthaza kunokugxeka.
6. Gcina umtshato wakho uyimfihlo
Xa izibini ezingamaKristu ezitshatileyo zivumela abazahluleli babo kunye neentsapho zabo ukuba zingenelele kwimicimbi yabo, emva koko zininzi iingxaki ezinokuvela. Olu hlobo lokuphazamiseka lolunye loxinzelelo oluqhelekileyo kwizibini ezitshatileyo kwihlabathi liphela, izifundo zibonisa.
Sukuvumela nabani na ukuba aphazamisane nezigqibo ekufuneka nizenzele zona neqabane lakho.
Nokuba umcebisi wakho uyakukucebisa ukuba uzame ukusombulula iingxaki zakho uwedwa.
Ukusombulula ukungavisisani kunye nemicimbi emtshatweni wakho, unokumamela iingcebiso zabanye abantu, kodwa elokugqibela ilizwi kufuneka lisoloko livela kuwe neqabane lakho nodwa.
Ukuba kubonakala ngathi aninakho ukusombulula iingxaki phakathi kwenu nobabini, endaweni yokuba niphendukele kubazali benu, nifune iingcebiso zamaKristu kwizibini ezitshatileyo, okanye nifunde iincwadi zomtshato wamaKristu, okanye nizame ikhosi yomtshato wamaKristu.
Umcebisi uya kukunika ingcebiso yokwenyani yokulungiselela umtshato wamaKristu kuba abanamdla kuwe okanye kubudlelwane bakho.
7. Misela ulindelo olusengqiqweni
Omnye umntu obulala ubudlelwane xa umntu emtshatweni engonwabanga ngendlela izinto eziyiyo.
Funda ukubona ngaphaya kwento ongenayo kwaye ufunde ukuxabisa into onayo. Yinto nje yokutshintsha indlela ozijonga ngayo izinto.
Zixabise iintsikelelo ozifumana mihla le, kwaye ukuba uza kugxila kwizinto ezintle ezenzeka kuwo wonke umzuzu okuwo, uya kubona ukuba zizinto ezincinci ebomini ezibalulekile.
Le yenye yezona ngcebiso zilungileyo zokulungiselela umtshato wamaKristu ezingayi kuba luncedo kuphela kubudlelwane bakho kodwa nakubomi bakho.
Bukela kwakhona: Ukulindela umtshato uyinyani.
Amagama okugqibela
Ukubandakanyeka kunye kunye necawa yinto eya kugcina isibini esingamaKristu somelele. Akukho nzima ukufezekisa umtshato ophilileyo; kuthatha nje umzamo omncinci.
Gcina uThixo kunye nabanye ezintliziyweni zabo, kwaye awuyi kuphuma ebomini obakhayo kunye.